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<> we may say that 90% of people get married not for love, but for the people who are suitable for marriage, and after marriage, it is not just love, marriage is composed of firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, unlike the TV drama that having love is equal to having bread and everything, so even in this free society of love, most people choose the right person to marry is not necessarily the person who loves each other.
But I think most of the people around me are still because of love!
Case 1: The long-distance relationship has achieved positive results.
There are also people who come from all over the world and finally achieve positive results! One of my sisters I know is Zhongshan, Guangdong, her boyfriend is Zunyi, Guizhou, and after going around and around, they are now a family of four full of happiness. At that time, 98% of the people around her were opposed, feeling that the distance was far away, married life was not easy, and there would be many unpredictable problems for a girl to marry so far.
But she followed love and chose this marriage, when she got married, her face was full of happiness, and the wedding photos were all because of love.
Case 2: The gap between the rich and the poor is closed.
is also a pair of beautiful women who sprouted in college, classmates. One is the president of the student union, the other is the editor-in-chief of the newspaper, similar to the activities, acquaintance and love, after graduation, they also faced the problem of being broken up, but in the end, the man chose to fight in the woman's hometown, so they worked silently with each other to maintain this relationship, they are currently working hard to prepare for a second child, and they can see from their circle of friends on weekdays that in the ordinary life, their happiness index is high.
This kind of case should be what many people see on a daily basis! It's not that remarkable, I myself got married because of love, and this kind of marriage has more equality. Because the marriage of love is more inclusive, because they will tolerate each other because of love.
After all, the family life of marriage composed of firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea will really be so trivial that you may have to quarrel with each other because of a little goosebump, if there is not a certain love foundation, then such a marriage may not be able to withstand this test, it will be stormy!
Marriage-pregnancy-birth-mother-in-law-daughter-in-law-with a baby, this series of problems, are the first problems encountered by a woman in her life, as a novice, will definitely not do a particularly good job, if there is no one who understands you enough to share and comfort you, all of this you may not be able to face and deal with easily. Don't be discouraged, you may just be a road obsessive and still lost, or try to find a marriage because of love!
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At this marriageable age, how many of my people have won love but lost to reality. Love is precious, as long as two people like each other and can have a chemical reaction with each other, they can be together. Marriage, on the other hand, is the union of two families.
Different family environments, different levels of culture, and different natural values are the main reasons for the conflict between two people.
Chinese families pay attention to the door, and used to think that this was nonsense, as long as two people love each other, what can be an obstacle? Slowly, I was polished by reality, and I finally stopped pushing myself. Maybe you talk about it very much, but when it comes to life, firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, these trivial things in life replace your former tastes, and your parents talk and laugh in place.
We can all get love after all, but we all marry the right ones in the end. Those who enter the palace of marriage because of love are the darlings of God and dare not ask for extravagance. Find a good person, live a makeshift life, and have another son and a half daughter, just like that, it's a lifetime.
It's a pity that I haven't met such a person in my life. A boy who smells of the sun on his body. We watched the sunrise together when we were young, and the sunset together when we were old. Look at the ebb and flow of the tide, look at the heat and coldness of the world, but it doesn't matter, fortunately we still have each other.
Love, it's not that we don't pursue it, after all, most of us are mortals, and we can't escape the eyes of the world. We don't have the courage to forsake everything for the sake of divine love. We have too many ties, too many responsibilities, too many helplessness.
Life is long, love is short. Youth is limited, and we dare not gamble and cannot gamble. In the end, love becomes family affection, and even some people's family affection becomes strange, there are too many variables in this world and we are very fragile.
I was worried about hurting the Brahman, and I was afraid that I would fall into the city by mistake when I entered the mountain. The world is safe and perfect, and it lives up to its promise"We all yearn for such a love, and we are eager to meet him like this, even if we are not afraid of broken bones. Chen Ajiao and Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty, Tang Xuanzong and Yang Yuhuan, Wu Sangui and Chen Yuanyuan, etc.
Although they have the demeanor on the battlefield, the courage to respond to every call, and the bear heart that swallows mountains and rivers, they can seem to control everything, but they can't control love.
The Legend of the White Snake, Tianxian Pei, Cowherd and Weaver Girl. From ancient times to the present, people's exploration of love has never stopped. We yearn for love, we long for such a fearless pursuit, we have too many obstacles in reality, we can only pin on the beautiful love legend.
But legends are legends, no matter how beautiful the legend is, it is not true after all, we still have to return to reality and struggle with love and suitability. Under the urging of his relatives, he didn't even understand what love was and the true meaning of marriage, so he got married and had children until he died. In fact, it's sad to think about it, how many people can hold the hand of their son, and how many people are confused but in this life?
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Most of them aren't. Love may just be a sudden heartbeat when you are young, and long-term companionship and care are the most real.
When I was a teenager, I thought that I must pursue love at all costs, so I wanted to marry the person I loved desperately. When I was in my twenties, I felt that marrying someone who loved me and was good to me was the most important thing.
I have loved someone passionately, and then break up decisively, and then find someone who can't say how much I love or don't love, and live my life warmly.
I love you, I love you as a person, it has nothing to do with this society, this world, seven aunts and eight aunts, cats and dogs, true love is very simple, and life is very complicated.
Many people hold the crystal ball of love, and as they walk, they are punctured and shattered by the thorns of reality.
We are all compromising with life step by step.
Long-distance relationship, unrealistic, although I love you, we are long-distance, we can't see, we can't touch, so break up, or don't fall in love at all.
I got a new job in Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou, I'm going to study abroad, I'm going to pursue my dreams, and you just want to stay in the town, the values are different, so let's break up.
Our bride price here is 300,000 yuan, and your family only pays 100,000 yuan, do you look down on people? I can't live humbly, so break up.
Firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar, tea, a stitch and a thread, which is not the basic element of a marriage. The trivial things of life, the trivial things, which one will not appear in the marriage. No matter how much you love each other, you will quarrel because there is obviously nothing to do, and the person you don't love can say the same thing one day.
The more we grow up, the more we will deceive ourselves, and how much panic we have sprinkled for the sake of ourselves.
Along the way, we have lost so much, innocence, anti-bones, sincerity, kindness, and true love. Become mellow, philistine, rational and cold-blooded. But we swear to ourselves that this is growth.
Someone used to say that the person you married must not be your favorite, but I don't believe it. I didn't believe it for more than ten years, but I lost. This is what the heroine of "Former Raiders" said when she got married. She didn't marry the person she loved very much, but she was willing.
There is no love that is worth it to be desperate for, and love that needs to be desperate is itself unbalanced.
Marriage is about marrying a relationship, not marrying age, and I hope everyone is well.
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