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First of all, you should find an opportunity to take the initiative to talk to your girlfriend. Tell her what you thought about this time and what you thought she was doing in a very peaceful form. Maybe it's because she has something going on during this time that she keeps chatting with others, or there are some games in the game or something that causes her to stay in the game lately.,Anyway, it's just patience.,Listen to her explanation.,If it's just a very simple misunderstanding.,Then it's great.。
After saying that, there will be no knots between each other, and maybe the relationship can go to the next level.
Anyway, whether you misunderstand it or not, you have to calm down and have a good talk with your girlfriend, try to listen to your girlfriend's inner thoughts, tell her the state you want your boyfriend and girlfriend to be, and see how she responds. It should be noted that in the process of communication, it is necessary to master the best way of communication, and never blindly criticize or abuse.
<> Second, try to find out what your girlfriend has and what she does. If she likes to play games, you can try to enter her world, such as learning the game. If you can meet her to play games, then your girlfriend will no longer play games with other men.
And after you learn about some of your girlfriend's hobbies, you will have more common topics with her, and it will be easier to chat together, and there will be no embarrassing situation of having nothing to say, and the communication between the two will be more harmonious.
If, in the process, you find that your girlfriend has an unusual appreciation for other men, you must curb it in time and strangle all possible dangerous situations at the beginning. Prevent a situation where the male junior successfully ascends to the throne and you abdicate tragically.
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No matter how much a lover loves each other and a relationship that they think is stable, there will be some inevitable problems and contradictions, which depends on how we face and solve them, and it is the foundation to face them with a serious and positive heart, so what should I do for the other half to often chat with other boys on social software and play games? I have the following suggestions.
About the chat aspect. You can ask your girlfriend for permission and take a brief look at their chat history, maybe just to discuss some questions and opinions? Before the matter is clear, the attitude must be calm, and you must not be excited.
If your girlfriend agrees to your request and is willing to let you see the chat history, I believe that this matter can be resolved peacefully, because it just proves that she does not have any out-of-the-ordinary ideas, and is willing to let you see and let you understand, that is, she thinks that everything is normal and taken for granted, and you don't have to be a villain. However, the chat history still needs to be read, because you have already made such a request, isn't it strange to look at it for a while and not for a while? Secondly, you should take a good look at the chat history and look for your own problems, whether you are unwilling to chat with her and make such a move, or whether you have not found a common topic between you until now, which needs to be reflected.
If she won't let you see it, then you need to have a serious talk with her, why not? What are the reasons? Or are you unhappy with your relationship?
Is it because I did not do well or is my girlfriend out of line? Have a good communication, and then actively solve your relationship problems.
Regarding the game, if she often plays games with other boys, you can go and see what game your girlfriend is playing, and then you can also play with her after practicing. It stands to reason that he plays games with other boys, at least it means that he is not playing a dress-up game, other boys can accept and play together, and I believe that you can too. Don't question and make noise loudly, put the problem out to solve, the most feared thing in the relationship is to hold back, don't ask one and don't say it, and in the end you will only suffer the consequences.
But if she refuses your request, it could be that something has gone wrong in your love. At this time, you should also ask her why? Is it love or is there some other special reason.
You must know that heart-to-heart conversations are real, and what you see is not necessarily true.
When the above problems occur, focus on positive communication, and don't beat people to death with a stick. Communication is a panacea in a relationship, but after communication, you find out that your girlfriend is out of line, then you can take your own actions and thoughts.
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You can make it clear to her that this behavior makes you feel uncomfortable.
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If it were me, then I would also learn to play this game in a short period of time, and then play with my girlfriend every day.
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That means that you don't chat and play games with her, if you accompany him, you see if she will find someone else.
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My boyfriend was the same today and asked who it was. In my case, there are two ways to solve the problem: just say who you're talking to, and it's better to express a little jealousy.
He knew what to do with the points in his own mind. After all, you can't do anything about it. The second is to say that it's useless, your circle doesn't coincide, he likes to play games, you go to cultivate your hobby, this is a bit of chicken soup ......But it's true, do what you like, improve yourself to keep yourself busy, and cultivate your own circle.
Or I like to talk to him, he has to talk to me, and I'm not allowed to accompany other girls! Then develop a hobby similar to his, but this is not recommended.
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Do you know why he has to chat with girls? What are those on the Internet, the voice actor sister, or some good-looking ones, why doesn't he look for something that has a bad voice, and something that doesn't look good, just to prove it, his heart is empty, because he wants to confide in those people on the Internet more than these, everything about himself, or he likes those online dating, I don't know if you've heard a sentence, called "Companionship is the most affectionate confession", maybe that's the case, either you accompany him, or he accompanies other women, and then it becomes a different picture. The following situations have to be judged according to your husband's personality.
Maybe it's because the pressure of work or life is too much, and he can't bear it, so he chooses a way to relax himself, but now it's out of control.
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This is easy to solve, because I also play games, hahaha. Do you know why he plays the game? From a psychological point of view, it is a kind of psychological emptiness, so to speak, if he has a very fun reason, he will naturally not play games, and he plays games, it is absolutely very likely that he is not a person, things are like gathering, people are grouped, people must have played games, so encourage him, he naturally dares to let go, your personal psychology, and feelings to play games.
So now you can try, spend more time with him, let love separate the game, maybe you can try.
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What to do? Cold salad, can you still have this kind of husband? If it's me, I'll just smash the computer.,I can understand playing games occasionally.,It's because of the pressure of work.,Playing games can relax.,But often playing games and chatting with other women clearly doesn't take me seriously.。
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You have to pretend that you don't care, but for a long time, keep caring for him, for example, your parents who have always cared about you, will you be sad when they leave and go to other places, and naturally when he remembers how important and inseparable he is with you, he will be able to look back. If you plan not to be so troublesome, then you can just quit his Internet addiction and tell him how he is feeling now, when he plays games and other girls, let him know how you feel, think from your point of view, and care about him when he is playing games, let him know how much you care about him and how much you care about him, and he uses these to play games with others to reply to you. This will make him feel guilty suddenly, and you can also tell him directly.
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At this time, you should make it clear to your girlfriend. Say you can't accept such behavior. If your girlfriend isn't willing to change for you, then I suggest you break up.
You live in such a torment every day, it is a harm to you, since your girlfriend can't understand you, then Chun Qi is right for you to choose to let go. After all, you don't know what's going to happen in the future. Just break up and wipe those things out in the cradle.
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If your girlfriend chats with other people every day, and you love beauty and play games together, then your current situation is that you have to tell the other party directly about this problem, for example, what does the place mean, you have to figure out whether he doesn't like you anymore, or whether he likes someone else, you have to figure these things out for you before you can determine what to do?
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If your girlfriend chats with someone else every day, she plays games ambiguously. Then you must formally state your opinion to your girlfriend, you can't accept her doing this. Peilu asks him to consider your feelings and put yourself in your shoes.
What would happen to you if you played an ambiguous game with another woman? Empathy. Don't just think about your personal feelings, and don't pay attention to the other person's feelings.
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If his girlfriend chats with others every day and plays games ambiguously, Chunhu then goes to play games by himself, and then teams up with him to play games, chats with him, and takes up his time.
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If a girl is like this all day long, it means that the heart is heavy on play, and the mind is not completely on you. You will also be tired this way. Think about it carefully, see if Pishan doesn't give up, if you don't want to give up, try to communicate with her well. Lift the grip and scatter.
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1.Pretend that Chang Yin doesn't know, and fight back at the right time You can pretend that you don't know that your girlfriend is chatting ambiguously with others, and deliberately leave enough space for your girlfriend to give Tachibana a chance to continue to have ambiguous affairs with others.
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Then you sit down and talk to her patiently, tell your girlfriend about your own slippery and ruined thoughts, if she can change, you will continue to date, if she is obsessed, then you break up as soon as possible, the long pain is better than the short pain, and each of you will find the life you want.
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Make it clear to your girlfriend that you mind the matter, and if she still doesn't pay attention to your feelings, then you need to consider whether it is worth it to continue.
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If his girlfriend chats with others every day and plays games like blind and ambiguous, then he Liangliang will definitely have an effective communication with him and let him change his attitude.
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If the girlfriend chats with others every day and plays games ambiguously, and doesn't care about her boyfriend's feelings at all, then there is no need for such a girlfriend to continue dating him as soon as possible.
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Break up with her as soon as possible. The quality of such a girl is not much better. Sooner or later, there will be a breakup. Better a finger off than always aching.
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If you can move the other person, I believe that the other person will definitely consider your feelings, after all, two people have been together for so long.
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Change one, this one is not suitable, then find one that suits you. Don't try to change someone, it's too tiring.
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My own personal experience with Brother for another one.
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Of course it's time to mind, not only should I mind, I think it's okay to break up. Your boyfriend often chats and plays games with other members of the opposite sex, so why doesn't he look for you? That's not like you, fishing.
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You should mind, you're already boyfriend and girlfriend, and he should keep a proper distance from the opposite sex, not that he can't chat and play games, but too often is a problem.
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Don't mind, it's not a matter of men or women playing games, so it's not a big problem for everyone to team up together.
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If your boyfriend often chats and plays games with the opposite sex, it is difficult to accept it as a girl, because she feels that she is not important to him at all, and her boyfriend should eliminate the opposite sex for himself.
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As a girl, I think I should mind, because many people betray their girlfriends through online dating.
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I think as long as it's a normal girl, it will mind, so at this time we shouldn't pretend to be very generous, and tell our boyfriend that we don't like him like this.
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Yes, it is easy to have ambiguity and even betrayal of feelings when chatting with the opposite sex often.
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