What happened to those who had poor grades and didn t like to study all day?

Everyone's life is different, they have their own path to follow, and at every stage of school, there will be a few people in the class who are unwilling to learn and spend their days in school. Don't look down on them, their lives don't have to be bad for those who study well, it is possible that when people who study well enter the society, you may not be as good as those who study badly, but there are also many people who are not so happy.

The first junior high school classmate.

My junior high school memory is the deepest is my two good friends, in junior high school we were inseparable, my grades are better, their grades are not good, the two of them left very suddenly, one person because of a motorcycle accident and did not read, and one suddenly left, I was left alone, some time ago we also contacted, out to eat together, I have not yet graduated, but they have long been integrated into society. The two of them are Xiaolong and Xiaoqiang. Because Xiaoqiang is in a single-parent family, he grows up and understands very quickly, and now he is helping his father to farm, he is very tired every day, and he has not yet found a partner, and now he is married at home as old as him.

But he was not in a hurry, saying that he would help his father take care of the family and not go out to wander.

Xiaolong's living conditions at home are okay, and when he just left school, he soaked in the Internet café all day long and played games, and he mixed up day by day. But people will always grow up, and his parents didn't care much about him, and he got pregnant with a subject, and married his son, and now the children are 3 years old, and the heart is also accepted, and now he and his wife have opened an agricultural machinery store in our place to sell some agricultural products. I started to take responsibility for my family, and I feel like I've grown up a lot.

In terms of dealing with people, I am much better than those of us college students.

A classmate from the second high school.

Although it is said that many people who are admitted to high school basically want to go to university, and now they can go to a university no matter how many points they score in the college entrance examination. There is a very special person in our class, because of his bad grades, he can't learn, he went to learn his specialties, because he was very handsome and went to learn broadcasting, I didn't expect him to be very talented in this area, and passed a lot of art exams in famous schools, but because of his bad grades, he could only enter an ordinary school, but this could not bury him, and now he has graduated. Now he seems to have entered the CCTV TV station.

The technical expertise is very strong. Quite others say that the future development prospects are very good.

People who don't want to have bad academic performance, they are just not good at studying, and they will definitely be able to find a path that suits them.

As the saying goes, three hundred and sixty lines make you the champion, which means that learning is not the only way out. If your academic performance is not good, but you are talented in other things, it will not affect your future development. So what happened to those who have poor academic performance, don't like to study, and are fooling around all day long?

Some time ago, during the summer vacation, at home, I met a lot of former classmates. My classmates hadn't seen each other for a long time, and they would definitely have to talk for a while, and I learned that those who didn't study all day were not admitted to college, and most of them were already married, at the age of eighteen or nineteen, when they were still children. And the most exaggerated thing is that one of my elementary school classmates who doesn't learn and has no skills, a girl who is short, has already married and divorced, and has already had children.

I was really incredible. By the time I was still in college, while I was still enjoying my youth, they had married, they had become adults in the standard sense of the word, they had their own homes, and even their own children. <>

There are also some people who are not married and must ask them what they are doing. There are people who work in our local factories and earn two or three thousand yuan a month, because they have poor academic performance, they don't have a diploma, they don't have a culture. Even if you have a little bit of background, but you don't have that ability, you can't sit in that position.

Some work with their families and wander around with their relatives. Some of them also learned a skill in a technical school and have a stable job.

It's not that studying is the only way out for a person, and poor academic performance doesn't mean everything. However, those who have poor academic performance, do not like to study, and still mix around all day long, their curiosity, self-motivation and their cultural level are all different from those who have graduated at a high level. So their lives are naturally relatively poor.

Of course, this does not mean the whole thing, but a part.

Coincidentally, I found that the more people who didn't do well in school and didn't like to study all day long, the better people they were in society. And those who have good grades and seem to be geniuses end up mixing the same, not like the same. Let's say I have a cousin and a cousin, my cousin and I are the same age, my cousin is a year younger than me, and the three of us have been in the same class since elementary school.

The two of them are boys, it's normal for boys to be naughty, but they are not ordinary naughty, their academic performance has always been very poor, they never hand in their homework and don't put the teacher in their eyes, I remember when they were still in the first year of junior high school, their list was very big at that time.

Usually they bring wine to the classroom to drink, and they drink while the teacher is lecturing, maybe they smash the chair and bench on fire, and they are no different from bandits, and often make the female teacher cry. And when those teachers came to visit the house, they told my uncle, how naughty your son is in school, how he doesn't take the teacher seriously, he is not obedient at all, and it is difficult to discipline him. But my uncle said, "If I discipline me, will I pay to send it to your school?"

Why didn't he take the teacher seriously? Why was he naughty at school? Why isn't he naughty at home?

What do you teachers eat? I put my children in you because you put your trust in them, and you teach my children to be like that.

After that, those teachers no longer care, of course, the teachers in that school are not of any level, and the highest culture is secondary school students, so it is true that the rats have no real ability to be tricked by students. The teacher's attitude towards the students at every turn is intimidation and threat, so where there is oppression, there is resistance, so there is a group of very naughty students. But now out of society, the two of them are the best, at least better than me, my cousin now works 15,000 yuan a month, not counting foreign water.

My cousin works 18,000 yuan a month, and he bought an excavator, a large truck, and he often changes cars, and now he changes to a BMW, the same is almost the post-90s, but the one who is mixed like this, among our group of young people, he is the worst and naughtiest at the beginning.

Although I have now gone to university, looking back at those students who were not good at studying, I feel that everyone has their own way to go, most of the students who studied poorly have entered the society, and even some people have married and had children, and their children can play soy sauce, and they are living very well.

Some time ago, there was a primary school group chatting there, and I felt that the people in it were not very familiar, so I watched them chat silently. I found that there were a few classmates who were poor in elementary school who happened to be chatting in **, and they didn't feel any different from others at all, and even felt that they were very good.

I remember that there were almost four of them who didn't study well, classmate A was married, the children were all three years old, they all became managers, and they lived in the same community with me; Student B runs an advertising agency and is very busy every day, and he is often seen posting his works; Student C was in school, although he was not optimistic about him at that time, and thought that he might not necessarily go to school, but he went to college and felt great; Although student D doesn't know what's wrong, he went to be an assistant police officer, which is a good job! <>

Looking at the students who were not optimistic at that time, I really feel that it doesn't matter if I didn't study well at that time, after all, going to school is not the only way out. If you feel that you can't learn, or even think that you won't have a good future, then you can choose a direction that suits you. There may be some detours on this path, but it is enough to be able to get on the right track and have a good future in the end!

So now I think that we should really reflect on ourselves, because others did not study well, they always looked at others with colored eyes, and now they are all good, maybe one day, they will be their superiors! Anyway, I think people who didn't study well at the beginning are doing well.

<> everyone goes to school, there is always a group of people who are always asleep in your impression and never seem to wake up. At that time, in the eyes of their teachers and classmates, they were people with poor academic performance and messing around all day long, and they didn't think about their future. People often say, three hundred and sixty lines, the line is the champion!

Maybe not everyone is born to read books, but as long as you can find your strengths and use them in the most useful places, then you can still shine in your field.

Because many people are not the material for reading, it is naturally difficult for them to pay attention to the knowledge they have learned. Looking at the number of college students who graduate every year, how many of them learn knowledge that is applicable to society? Our principal has a famous saying:

If it's a fish, let it swim in the water, and if it's a bird, let it fly in the sky. In fact, those naughty children were quite active in their thinking, and sometimes their cognition of things was different from ordinary people, so they who left the society early were tempered in the melting pot of society, creating their extraordinary present! That's a lot of that!

Those who leave the society early will have much stronger practical ability than the top students back then.

In my college dormitory, the people with the best grades, because they are particularly pedantic, can only study to death, and now they have no husband, no children, no house, no car, no job, pick up garbage, and are ridiculed as nerds every day; The person with the worst grades in my college dormitory has a successful career, a complete RV, a leisurely job, and a lot of money because of his clever mind! This sentence is the difference between the top students and the scumbags of the year. So, don't bully the poor of young people!

To be honest, because people's experiences are too complex and diverse, each person's fate is determined by many small details, and the proportion of academic performance in it is also high and low, and it is difficult to generalize. If you don't want to read, you can, learn**, learn to draw, learn to write**, learn to open**, but if you choose to play, then you have to play to the top, otherwise, obediently go and use your time to do things that will be useful to you in the future.

Many people on the Internet advocate that those who have poor grades and don't like to study all day long are better than those students with good grades, they must have status, they must have money, they are either big bosses, or they are entrepreneurs and CEOs, at least they are also a contract foreman, children and wives are hot kang heads, and they are very happy. Giving chicken soup and comfort to those students with poor grades seems to tell them, don't study, it's useless to read, you can mix it all day now. Such statements and opinions are wrong and irresponsible.

I don't say there are no such people, but, rarely. The reality is certainly not like this. The rotten students I know?

I don't know the trace anymore. Most of them got married very early, either to work in a factory, or to learn a trade, or to open a small shop, or to become a taxi driver. If you learn well, you don't mix badly.

At least don't do hard work, and the work is more decent. Although it may not be very wealthy, the cultural quality is much higher, and the spirit and taste are much higher.

Yes, some of us who are not good at learning go to steal and rob and go to jail. Housing is a common thing, but it is richer than the average person!

After reading your question supplement, I am reminded of a passage said by our history teacher: "Zhi Some people who usually don't seem to recognize the truth of dao, they can still get high scores in the exam, in fact, it is a very good explanation, they don't listen to classes during the day, it seems that they can get high scores without studying, showing that they are smarter than others, in fact, they spend many times more time at night than others, and when the exam results come out, others only see him in class and don't listen, but they don't know how much effort he spends at night, so they think he is very smart." "Actually, I'm like this, I doze off in class during the day, watch **, stay up late at night, and my IQ should be not much worse at this age. Maybe it's someone else's efforts that you don't see!

Except for a few geniuses who can really do this, I think most people still have to be down-to-earth!

There is no bai

After reading your question supplement, I remembered a passage from our history teacher: "Some people who usually don't seem to be serious, they can still get high scores, in fact, it is very easy to explain, they don't listen to classes during the day, as if they can get high scores without studying, showing that they are smarter than others, in fact, they spend many times more time at night than others, and when the test results come out, others only see him in class and don't listen, but they don't know how much effort he spends at night, so they think he is very smart."