How does it feel to be a 4 year old and a rural parent picking up garbage in the city?

I don't think it's a good feeling. Although there is no distinction between high and low work, picking up garbage in the city will inevitably be looked down upon by many people. Such children should have a deep sense of inferiority complex in their hearts from an early age.

And the income of the person who picks up garbage must not be very high, so such a child has a deep lack of material from an early age.

I can understand this feeling. Although my parents didn't pick up garbage in the city, I didn't go to work with my parents at the age of four. But when I was very young, my mother instilled in me the notion that we live poorly and asked me not to be extravagant and wasteful.

This directly led to a deep inferiority complex in my heart when I was very young. My mother rarely bought me clothes, and wore old clothes sent by others, and although I didn't like them, I never expressed them. When I was very young, my biggest wish was to grow up quickly.

In this way, I can make money, and every wish I had when I was a child can come true. I think this four-year-old child who followed his parents to pick up garbage in the city should have similar experience to me.

It must be a very hard-working person, because since I was a child, I have been picking up garbage outside, and I have encountered starvation or cold, but I have survived it, and I know the hardships of life.

I will also experience the white eyes of others, but I can all carry it by myself and understand the difficulties of my life, so that I can work hard in this struggle in the future, and I can also grasp the opportunity well.

I will cherish life very much.

Because it is not easy to survive by picking up garbage outside at the age of four, you will have a deep understanding of the meaning of life, so you will not give up your life easily, and you will cherish life and cherish life.

They will be full of gratitude, and they can survive by picking up garbage outside with the help of well-wishers, so they will have a good sense of trust between people. When you grow up, you will be willing to help others, and when you see other people picking up garbage, you will remember the same experience as yourself, and you may want to give back to the society and contribute to the society.

It should make the child have an inferiority complex, after all, the 4-year-old child is already sensible, he looks at other children dressed cleanly, happily going to kindergarten, and he has to go to the garbage bin with his parents, which will definitely make him feel inferior.

I saw a ** before, a little boy pulling a bag of picked up garbage, looking across the road, children of the same age as him were playing on the slide, and I cried when I saw it, this boy should be envious of those children in the city, he should also want to go over to slide for a while, but he can't go, just across the road, but it seems that there is a gap between the rich and the poor that can never be crossed.

Sometimes parents really have to work hard and hard, only then can you make your children not feel inferior in this cannibalistic world.

Children's world is supposed to be happy, but for some reason they have a hard time. He followed his parents and ran around, without a single friend around him, maybe because everyone thought he was dirty and poor, maybe because he always changed places to live.

Whenever he looked at those poor children, Xiao Ke told himself that he must work hard and not let his children feel different from others.

I asked a lot of people around me who had hardly any trouble with their parents at the age of four because they had almost no memories of what it was like for me to never forget it for the rest of my life. When I was four years old, I only remembered that my family was very poor, lacking everything, and I was surrounded by people like me, but I felt very scared. Why are you scared?

Because we're different, they're all strangers. Picking up garbage on the street with my parents every day, everyone is a passerby, no one will pay attention to you, because I don't dare to look into the eyes of others, I am afraid to look into the eyes of others, I am not afraid of their jokes, it's just that they ignore us. We walk the same road every day, meet different people, I want others to look up to us, I must be a successful person when I grow up.

At that time, I didn't understand why my parents were picking up garbage, I just knew that this was how we could live. We were very poor, I was worried every day, would I be kicked out by the landlord that day, and there were often thieves breaking the door at night, and I was scared, if he came in, would it hurt us?

The good things in the world don't seem to have anything to do with us, in the past, the police always had to check the temporary residence permit of their parents, but the parents were so poor that they couldn't even get the money to apply for the temporary residence permit. The police are always a group of people to verify in my memory, I was scared, I didn't know they were good people, but it made me feel very worried, very scared. Since then, I have dreamed of becoming a police officer so that I don't have to be afraid and can catch the bad guys, and now I understand that my sense of security is the lack of money.

My parents have been staring at me a lot and suffering a lot of grievances, and I just shut myself up and was silently afraid.

In 2018, I was 22 years old, and I didn't go to college, but I was doing my own thing. I can't imagine that I can make some money by writing some articles, I just hope that I can have a better tomorrow, my parents are old, I am grown up!

Maybe people nowadays think it's a shame to pick up garbage, but at that time, people with poor family conditions had to go out and pick up something to earn some pocket money. I've been living in coal mines since I was 5 years old, and almost all coal mines naturally contain a lot of treasures, and I have been picking up all kinds of garbage since I was a child.

Big mines are generally state-owned mines, and there will be a lot of discarded things, so I will bring a small cloth bag and my mother to pick up small pieces of coal and iron, screws or something, basically every time we can return with a full load, we pick up when my father gets off work, he will come to pick us up, and then help us carry these things home. When you have saved enough, you can drag it to the scrapyard on your bicycle and sell it. Then I can get a small amount of money to buy candy to eat.

At that time, I never felt that there was anything wrong with this kind of thing, and every time I was a very accomplished look, and when I grew up, I felt that I was picking up the rags. But even if you know it, you will still pick it up, because if you are smart, you will pick up something better: copper.

Copper is the most valuable of all things, and it can be sold for a few bucks for a little bit, so when I grow up, I stare at picking up copper wires and copper wires and the like.

It's nothing to think about it now, the environment in which you live will determine what kind of attitude you have towards life, not to mention that kind of fun is also incomparable to any other game.

Today, I received a complaint from my sister-in-law, "I don't know who I learned from my child's habit of picking up garbage from outside and coming home?" Just an inexplicable and wonderful sentence sparked a family controversy and made me have to reflect on my daily education of children.

Regarding this aspect of education, I think that as a parent, we should lead by example, rather than blindly blaming our children for learning from whom. I still remember when I worked in a rural kindergarten in Lianshan, of course, the two of us took the baby to teach together, when Zhen Zhen followed the kindergarten children to eat hands, as soon as she cried, she gnawed her hands, when the sister-in-law was angry, she directly "educated" Zhen Zhen, and felt that her education method was not right, but she was only 2 and a half years old and was educated by her mother loudly.

I often hear a sentence "don't take the good as a small thing, don't take the evil small and do it", and now the child's good behavior should be supported and encouraged by the family. Just from the child's behavior of picking up "garbage" home from the outside, you can also think from many aspects, as I said, garbage classification, environmental protection, this is not a bad thing, this even my children in kindergarten know, on weekdays to do a good job of sorting garbage, if the child from the outside can be picked up back and can be sold for money, this is a good thing, proving that the child now has a certain financial quotient, should be well guided. Personally, I think that everything cannot be one-size-fits-all, and when you find these problems, you should ask your child's thoughts as soon as possible, and find a breakthrough to guide them, rather than imposing the ideas of adults on your children!

This is my opinion.