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It is not feasible for men to expect women to earn money to support their families. Men should work together with women for the sake of the family, not just one woman, so that the marriage is prone to instability.
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If his wife is a very capable person, then he can rely on his wife to earn money to support the family, he can also take care of all the housework, can take care of the children, and the marriage outside the female protagonist and the male protagonist also exists.
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How so? It's okay to say that this woman is a strong woman, but it's a bit too much to say if it's an ordinary woman.
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Yes, as long as you can take care of your family properly, you can go out and earn money to support your family, but you have to take care of your home.
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It is also okay for men to have only women to earn money to support their families, and generally men with low salaries expect women to earn money to support their families.
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It is definitely not okay for men to expect women to earn money to support their families, isn't it half the sky for men?
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No, this kind of man is not responsible.
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I suddenly discovered the moonlight of my hometown.
There are many differences in moonshine in other places.
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Times are different, men and women are equal! Women can receive the best education like men, they can find jobs like men, work to make money, and now life is stressful, and it is normal for men to expect women to earn money to support their families! I think there are a few reasons why men expect women to provide for their families:
1), now a woman marrying is no longer the order of her parents, the words of the matchmaker, basically free love, that is, through a blind date to find the in-law's family, but also have their own consent to marry, if after marriage, women continue to work, help the family, not only can improve their status, but also make the family financially rich.
2) Now houses are generally expensive, ordinary people buy less houses in full, many of them have paid a down payment, need to repay the mortgage every month, and have to raise children, the economic pressure is high, two people bear it together, life will be much better, and there is surplus money to save or manage money.
3) Nowadays, there is less machismo among men, and many families have a gray wolf husband who can cook, cooking and doing housework is no longer a woman's patent, because of the high status of women when they work to make money, many women can't cook, and they are all men cooking!
Fourth), a family, there is a child, if both people go to work, it is two people to support one person, if only a man makes money, it is one person to support two people, as an ordinary working family, the difference between the living standards of the two is very large!
5) Some women have a high degree of education and a good job, or do their own business, or a star or something, these women have a car and a house before marriage, and after getting married, they must continue to work to make money, women will not give up their careers because they are married, they are willing to support their families.
Even if it's a big star and a big boss, basically both of them go out to make money to support their families, and some women earn more than men, not to mention the women of our ordinary families?
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I think there are: incompetent, very temperamental, but stronger than themselves, very cowardly. Some men are always angry and will be "road rage" in front of strangers.
If they don't agree with each other, they will argue, never communicate with others, and don't know how to understand each other. As a result, small things become big things. He was also angry in front of those closest to him.
He often blames his parents for not leaving him much. But such a man, when he meets someone stronger than himself, is cowardice! No matter how big my temper is, I don't dare to say it.
Even if you have something reasonable, you don't "argue with theory". I don't know how to be self-disciplined, and many things are "three-minute heat", and I always give up halfway. The more disciplined a person is, the more successful he will be.
If you don't even have a good habit, don't say you're promising. For example, it's ridiculous to talk about your ideals every day. In fact, men should know that when you want to give up on something, you have worked hard for a long time, and if you work harder, you will succeed.
I'm sorry you gave up. Showing off your future, but never being able to be a person in the present, belongs to "saying but not doing".
People who like to show off are actually incompetent, or have lofty ideals, and have a lot of plans, but they don't put them into practice. When others came, he said that he had planned a castle in the air for others to see, so that others would envy him. is for love, he is also a person who "talks but doesn't do", saying every day that two people get married, no matter what, it will be good, there is a house, a car, and a job he likes.
But I said it many times, swore a hundred times, and did nothing, and even after eating a meal, I couldn't afford it, or couldn't bear it.
I like to spank and scold my wife. I didn't mix well, I didn't reflect, and I blamed my wife for marrying badly. Some men, "hands cheap".
You can't fight the world, you can beat your wife. But this kind of fight will only beat the wife away, and then there will be no helpers around, and the road will definitely become more and more difficult in the future, and there will be no prospects. A man with the ability is not to beat his wife, but to lay a good foundation for life, make money, and build his own sky.
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No, each family has its own division of labor and cooperation, maybe this kind of man is more suitable for taking care of his wife and children at home, not necessarily lazy, not necessarily incompetent.
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Of course, such a man is incompetent, such a man should divorce him as soon as possible, because such a person will have a great impact on your life.
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Yes, this man just has no ability, and such a man is also very sloppy, very dirty, and especially bad.
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It's not that I don't have the ability, it's very likely that this man and I, the woman, gave up their jobs and became househusbands only.
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Many people think that the romantic thing is to marry a good husband, as long as they marry the right person, they will be happy in this life! Not really!
Happiness is not just earned by others, but earned by oneself. It seems that men making money to support their families have become a common disease in society, and women's virtuousness seems to be a compliment to women, but it is actually a burden. We often say "the male protagonist is outside, the female protagonist is inside"!
But I think that everyone is an independent individual, and no one is inseparable from the other. Women can also tidy up their homes and make money while running the house. Men can also clean the place where they live and make money while running a family.
So, isn't it better when two people are together? Make money together, run a family together, and there are a lot of interesting stories that happen like this (at least that's how TV dramas act).
We live in a world where men and women should be equal. Men are tired of making money, and women are tired of doing housework! Why can't you do both and do it together.
During the day, they work together to make money, go their separate ways, cook together at night, and talk about things at work together, how warm this scene is. Isn't mopping the floor, watching TV dramas together, and making beds together on weekends a friendlier way to get along? Instead of a man coming back from work all day and looking at the woman with broken thoughts in her mouth, she is also a yellow-faced woman, thinking about the price of salt at home all day long, which store has discounted goods**.
It's not that women watch the man who comes back lying motionless on the sofa all day long, don't help with anything, complain all day long about the boss of the company scolding, and the work is not going well, etc. Actually, wouldn't it be better to get along in another way? Making money together can also reduce the burden on each other, doing housework together can also increase the relationship between both parties, and sometimes there can be some interesting stories!
Hahaha After reading this article, do you still think that there can really only be "male dominance, female dominance" between men and women?
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I feel that men can do some housework while raising a family, and they can't go home and don't do any housework, which is not good, two people together to form a new family, women and men should set up this family to work hard
Men provide for the family, and women take care of the family, so that is the happiest home.
Clause. One or two people have three views that are very important.
A person's three views are directly linked to his spiritual world, so if your spiritual world can't be the right one, then your three views may be difficult to agree, two people with different views live together, it is very tiring, and marriage will naturally be useless after a long time.
Clause. Second, two people should have the same goals in life.
In marriage, the husband and wife will be able to achieve long-term harmony if they have the same life goals, but if the husband and wife are inconsistent in spirit and ideas, then it will directly affect the goals and structure of the marriage.
Therefore, many people do not care about the family background and family background when they get married, thinking that as long as they have feelings, they can overcome the habits brought by these original families.
Clause. 3. Common language.
The most direct manifestation of the spiritual level is whether there is a common language, you are talking to him about the world political situation, but he replies to you trivial, like a chicken and a duck talking, you can never find a topic to chat with, slowly you will be alienated, and the spiritual world will feel very lonely.
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I'm a woman, and I never think it's a man's business to earn money to support the family, and of course, housework needs to be shared together.
I have seen that some couples often have a lot of family conflicts if they are just men who go out to work. After all, if a woman just stays at home all day, her thoughts and vision will slowly become more and more different from men, and there will be more and more barriers to communication. If the child is older and has left home to go to school, the woman has nothing to do, and if the man goes back later, he will be suspicious; And the man feels that he is tired outside all day, but when he comes home, he still has to listen to his wife's nagging and even have to do housework, and the contradiction is even more escalated.
I feel that a woman in a marriage needs to be financially independent. Not to mention the noble theory of "the economic base determines the superstructure", there is a saying called "self-reliance", although husband and wife are a community, there are blessings and difficulties, but men and women have the responsibility to work together to make this family happier, regardless of income, women need to have a certain economic income, economic independence spirit to be independent, not dependent and subordinate.
Women in modern society also need to realize their self-worth. There is no shortage of arrogant women in all walks of life in modern society, of course, more ordinary women, but we still need a job to integrate ourselves into society and progress with the times, which is actually realizing our own value. Female astronauts can travel in space, which is to realize self-worth; The salesperson of the small supermarket serves every customer well, and does his job well, which is also to realize his self-worth.
So I think making money to support the family is not exactly a man's business, once you accompany you to make money to support your family, do housework together and feel the fireworks in the world, that is the happiest husband and wife, the happiest home!
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Generally speaking, this is the case, but now women also participate in the work, and it is not only men who will provide for their families, it is a matter of two people.
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The home is run by two people, and if the woman is better at making money, she can also be inside the male lead, and the female owner is outside, and the two people discuss it.
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That's the old way of saying, now both parties work and earn money, and they have nothing to pay for their families.
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You think that's fine.
Women can't be expected to do these three things, and the first thing is that women can't be expected to earn money to support their families, because it's already hard for women to take care of their children. The second thing is that the other party cannot be forced to accept his or her own point of view, and everyone has the right to put forward his or her own opinion. The third thing is that women cannot be expected to change the status quo of the family, and men are the pillars of the family.
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