My girlfriend loves her ex boyfriend a lot, what should I do?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-29
9 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I also think it's time to let go, such a girlfriend is not worth it for you to pay so much for her. If you haven't let go of your feelings for your ex-boyfriend, then the purpose of accepting you is not so simple.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Let it go! It's not okay to give one-sidedly emotionally! Unless you can change her, why not let him go if you can't change it?

    What you have lost is someone who doesn't love you, and what she has lost is indeed someone who loves her! In the future, if he figured it out and regretted it, it would be too late, and he could only blame her for being ignorant at the time!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Let go. ~。It's not worth it. The more so. The less she loves you. You go away. Maybe she'll start thinking about you. People are cheap. The better, the less. It's like buying something. Buy only the expensive ones. Don't buy the right one.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I think you should let go, it shows that she still loves his ex-boyfriend, she just doesn't want to hurt you... I just didn't say it. You should find a time to talk to her. Talk about the day.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Love her well to move her, if it doesn't work, find a place to talk to her, it's dangerous to love your ex-boyfriend A word of regret can take her away from you, be careful.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If it's me, I'll choose to break up, it's unfair to you, your existence is just a companion when she's lonely.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Let's break up, long pain is better than short pain.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Break up and think of you only when you're only useful to her.

    What do you love?

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    1. Weaken the past and amplify the happiness that is being held in the high segment.

    A little brother with an ex complex generally has a common problem, that is, he can't see that the girl is good to him. The girl smiled at him, and he wondered if this cute appearance had once belonged to her ex-boyfriend; The girl cared so much about him, and he would think that she must be so gentle with her ex; The girl gave him a warm hug, and he would think that this warmth had been given to another person......If you want to get rid of this annoying emotion, you can try to make some psychological adjustments, try to weaken the past, and amplify the happiness that is holding in the palm of your hand. For example, if a girl smiles at you and gives you a hug, you just need to try to feel the warmth and happiness without distractions.

    In the long run, as the emotional sensibility of Tibu increases, the happiness of love will gradually increase, and the influence of the past will gradually weaken. When you gradually understand where your heart is, you only need to hold on tightly and don't let go in the face of love, and nothing in the past can destroy the happiness you are having.

    2. Empathize and learn to accept.

    I love her very much, I think she is perfect, and she is good to me, but when I think of her ex, I feel uncomfortable and want to lose my temper. What this little brother cares about is not his girlfriend's ex, but the fact that his girlfriend has an ex. Since it is a fact, it cannot be changed, and no matter how big a temper is, it will not help.

    It is suggested that brothers with this emotion may wish to empathize with you, what would you do if you were in the position of a girl? The last relationship broke up because it wasn't suitable, but it was still her right to find true love. In love, men and women have nothing more than two outcomes, marriage or breakup, and once they break up, they become people with exes.

    As long as you don't enter the marriage hall, the roles of your first love and your ex will change at any time, and who can guarantee that you won't change from an "innocent little brother" to a "big brother with an ex"? To truly love someone should be to love her all, not just her virtues.

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