Why does he say he loves me but is indifferent to me?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-29
21 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I don't understand, whether I love you or not, only he knows, but whether you love it or not, he shouldn't let you be tortured like this, if you don't love you, there's no need to love you, and you shouldn't.

    You're so stupid, how can you guess what other people think, think about your husband who loves you, don't you have love for him? Although the two relationships are not the same, if one day you lose your husband's love, you will probably be miserable, even more painful than losing him, because you have truly loved.

    Cherish the people around you, that indifferent person, don't think about it, just treat him as if he doesn't love you, so that you can be willing to let go completely, and then entangle your heart...

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I also have the same problem, in my opinion, liking each other and being indifferent to one side is not not not loving but loving too much, afraid of not being able to be together, afraid of causing each other to hurt, so I choose to escape, choose to play stupid! Boys have too much self-esteem, they feel that they can't match each other, they feel that they can't give you happiness, they wronged you! He loves you very much, and if you lack communication, he will think that you are deliberately distant!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    There is only one regret in the whole story, and that is that you have someone else. You're stupid, you don't understand that this is love, you don't understand the pain in his heart, that feeling you just stand in your position and feel okay, what about him?

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You're a good man, but you're with other men, what should he do to ruin your current happiness?

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    A man's heart, like the sea, is unfathomable.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    He is an inferior and cowardly person, and he doesn't even dare to face his feelings, such a person is really pitiful!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Summary. Dear, many parents accuse their children of not doing well in exams, and even beat and scold their children because of this, which is even worse for their children's psychology. It's sad enough that the child didn't do well in the exam, and when he came back, he was scolded and even beaten by his parents, how can this make the child embarrassed?

    Some extreme children choose to commit suicide because they can't bear the pressure. And the parents of the children also said: For the good of the children!

    After reading the article "Obviously very indifferent, but say this is love" How do you express love and what will you do in the future.

    Dear, it's an honor to be able to serve you. Some people belong to the outside of the cold and the inside of the heat, the so-called cavity and which love you in the heart is difficult to open, Wu code is generally young boys and girls or introverted people in the expression of feelings in the shed side of this state. Have you met someone of the opposite sex who is emotionally cold on the outside and hot on the inside?

    I'm just not good at expressing myself, so I don't know how to write.

    Oh, the love for the child should be expressed, not buried in the heart, so that the child can feel the love of the parents for himself and enhance the child's sense of security. At the same time, we should be good at discovering children's strengths, and give affirmation and praise to filial piety when we are young, so as to cultivate children's self-confidence.

    Dear, if you don't regret it, you can blindly blame the child, and you should put yourself in the shoes of the child and consider the problem from the child's standpoint. Some things may seem ordinary to adults, but it is not easy for children to do them. For example, if a child who can walk but learns to use chopsticks to eat in the morning, he should be praised in time

    The baby is really not simple, so young will eat with chopsticks.

    Dear, many parents accuse their children of not doing well in exams, and even beat and scold their children because of this, which is even worse for their children's psychology. It's sad enough that the child didn't do well in the exam, and when he came back, he was scolded and even beaten by his parents, how can this make the child feel justified? Some extreme children choose to commit suicide because they can't bear the pressure.

    Obviously very indifferent, but he said that this is love.

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  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    What is love? The meaning of love is very broad and can be friendship, family affection, love, ......Perhaps the most interesting thing for people is love, right? Then I might as well talk about love.

    Love is the most beautiful word, how many people are struggling to pursue it, sometimes people regard love as more important than life. But what is love? How many people truly have eternal love?

    How many people have been searching for it all their lives? Love may be the feeling of love at first sight, love may be the feeling when you make a promise, and love may be the ......feeling of life and deathLove is a topic that can be said to be inexhaustible. When you fall in love with someone, your heart is panicked and uneasy, you don't know how the other person feels, and you have to hide your feelings because you are a reserved person.

    Maybe the root of your love is a shadow in your heart, you put on a dream clothes for him, you are intoxicated with the illusion of a dream and do not want to wake up like filial piety, wandering and tossing for a long time, when you know the other party's feelings, everything has been light, because you have stepped out of his shadow, his coat is no longer gorgeous, the love you hold has lost its luster, and your life has been injected with gray since then. When I don't have the experience of loving others, I think, "It's a pleasure to love others."

    When I was loved, I thought, "What a blessing to be loved!" But whether it is to love or be loved, it is so sad, because people's hearts are always so unpredictable, and desires are always so things, for her, they can only pass by.

    Nothing can penetrate deep into her heart. Like a decadent and gloomy flower, with a gesture of despair but looking up at an innocent face, smiling at all cruelty and humiliation. The deep dark green color is without tears.

    Such a flower that blooms forever in the dark does not believe in tears, and is destined to be lonely for a lifetime. Often, in a crowded crowd, I feel the extension, sound, smell of many strangers, chaotic and noisy. And when you are quiet and then look and listen, you can feel incombinable, with love and being loved, there will be a struggle in the whirlpool of feelings, and with love and being loved, there will be more entanglements in the emotional world.

    The wrong car of loving and being loved, the incomprehension of loving and being loved, the restriction of loving and being loved, the helpless ...... of loving and being lovedIn the vast land, for a person who is disappointed in the world and has no love in his heart, isn't it the same to **? Forever walking on the road, all love, all of a sudden, you will find that there is nothing here. Empty and silent.

    There are many people who have no soul. I live a mediocre life, I have no purpose, I don't know why I want to live, and I never think about what I live for. There may be more and more such people in this world.

    He was always looking for that and him (her).

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Hide your lies and your tail, and the day I find the omen to arrive, I will not be the one who will see you again.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's that he doesn't like you anymore, but he doesn't want to say it clearly, so he lies to you and says that he still likes you, and his coldness to you is a manifestation of not loving you.

    Boys like a girl does not need to be expressed in words, they are slowly expressed with action, many boys are more shy, for girls he will take care of everything, whether it is care or care, can make girls feel free and comfortable.

    Men like your performance, among other things, silently paying attention to you, finding various reasons to contact you, he is also happy when you are happy, he will respond to requests, he will be jealous because you talk to other boys, he has no pretense in front of you, he occasionally spoils in front of you, he is always happy with you, he takes the initiative to admit his mistakes when he makes mistakes, and he will not be cold to you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I think some boys are like this, he loves you, but he is a big man is very careless, he doesn't know how to take care of girls, not every boy will take care of girls' emotions very much, so he should be such a character, big grin, you will feel that he doesn't care about you so much.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    The mouth is the easiest to deceive, the behavior is more reliable, and to put it pessimistically, how many people are willing to pay sincerely, true love is hard to find, look at the point.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If you get it, you don't cherish it, and when you don't get it, the crowd is angry, and he doesn't take you too seriously. It's just that you're the one who has gotten it.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    He loves you, maybe your boyfriend is a slow-burning type, and he is usually very cold to you, because the slow-heating model is more passive, not very good at making you happy, talking about love, and not romantic enough. He will prove with practical actions that he loves you, he is not very good at showing it, and I wish you happiness and happiness.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    There are two reasons why he is usually cold to you, one is that he is born with such a personality and is not good at expressing himself, and the other is that he really doesn't love you and is just perfunctory to you.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    He says he loves you, but in fact, it is possible that he doesn't love you much in his heart, or maybe your boyfriend is honest and doesn't talk to you much, which makes you feel very cold.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Love is shown in your care, love, tolerance and thoughtfulness, coldness does not mean that these things are not given to you, you have to experience his love for you with your heart, don't care about those superficial things. He is so enthusiastic about you, he doesn't do anything for you, and he can't listen to enough sweet words, is it useful?

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Then I want to ask, how long have you been together? Was he like that when he first started? You have to know that feelings are like this, no matter how passionate love is, it will be polished into coldness by time, many feelings are like this, they are vigorous at the beginning, and they will be dull after a long time, so you can do some by yourself to mobilize this imagination now!

    In the past, he took the initiative to treat you, but now he can replace you, and he will manage his feelings to have a sense of freshness.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It's not cold, he belongs to the slow-burning type, not very romantic, very realistic.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It's just that I love you with my mouth, not from the heart, so I can't see it from my actions, and it's normal to show coldness.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    He shouldn't love you enough If he loves you very much, he should think about you all the time.

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