What do you think is real pain? Why?

I think the real pain, that must be the breakup between two lovers, it is really uncomfortable, if you are really in love with each other, it means that you are very attentive. And after separating from her, then you are very miserable, you can't eat, no one wants to drink? And feel like there's no point in living in the world?

Missing it feels. I have lost confidence in myself. There is no point, I feel that I am very painful in this world, and I need to get out of this emotion for a long time.

The real pain must be that you can't do anything about yourself, for example, if you do something, you think you can do it well, but in fact, after you do it, you realize that you are so useless, you can't even do a little thing, in fact, this is really very painful. It's anger at one's own incompetence. So I think it's time to work hard to learn a skill, so that you don't have this kind of feeling and you don't feel miserable.

I think the real pain is not confident in yourself, always feel that you can't achieve a better state and achieve a better result in anything, so you are hesitant to do anything, so I think this should be the real pain, because you are always unable to let yourself have a very good state to meet the future.

I think the real pain is that your efforts are not rewarded, because if you don't pay, you don't feel much even if he loses, because you don't put in too much effort and effort, and I still fail in the end, you will feel that your efforts for so long and your hard work for so long have been in vain, and you will feel very uncomfortable and painful.

I think the real pain is that no one understands you in this bigger world, you seem to feel that you are alone in this lonely world, you feel that even your family can't give you a lot of love and understanding, in short, you feel that you are alone at all times, very lonely.

I think the real pain is to be separated from my family, because when I was in junior high school in the morning, because my parents were doing business outside, they often couldn't go home, so they sent me to a boarding school, and I often didn't see my family, at that time I really felt very lonely, I couldn't feel the warmth of my family and the care of my relatives, so I felt that being separated from my family was the most painful.

I think the real pain may be that you can't feel some of anyone's emotions at that time, you can't feel your own emotions, you feel like you're in an ethereal state, I think it's really painful to the extreme, you can't feel anything, so I think, maybe that's a real pain.

I think the real pain will make you cry, because I think the word pain is a more abstract word, if you want to show it concretely, it may be when you shed tears, you may be more bitter in your heart, because I think tears do not mean that this person must be painful, but if you are in pain, you will still shed tears.

Heartache, first of all, the pain of flesh and skin, it is a kind of protection for people. There is a kind of child who is born without pain, no matter what happens, they do not feel pain, pain is the premise of people caring for others, if you do not experience pain in a certain situation, you will not give proper sympathy and care to the person in this situation. It is often said"Orangutans cherish orangutans, heroes love heroes"。

The pain is different, the pain is more lasting: if you break up, even if you have an iron heart, it will hurt for four or five days; If you lose your job, even if you don't have to worry about it, you have to be anxious until you find a new job; Losing a marriage, if you have a small heart, you may be able to completely lay yourself down, not only lasting, but the pain will make you begin to reflect on yourself and reflect on your life, "Damn, how did you do this?" I don't want that.

So, you start looking for ways to change. What really makes you miserable is not the pain itself, but your rejection and avoidance of it.

In the face of the physical death of a loved one, this kind of pain is actually the most real, because sometimes, when you encounter other painful things in your life, you think of it, and it is the pressure you add to yourself invisibly, but this pain is a deep existence, and he will give you a kind of empathy

Real pain often gives people the illusion that it is not painful, just because it is easy to see and not painful, it naturally becomes the inevitable choice of most people. On the contrary, there are few people on the road that will really get better and better, which is why it is said that God will give pain first, and then give the way, because this is in line with the laws of this real world.

In fact, the most painful time in life is when you can't love, because in this case, you actually have no way to force another person, and when he is alone and he doesn't like you, no matter what you do, he will not like you, and there is no reason for emotional things.

We still choose not to be as comfortable as possible, but to toss more painfully in a painful environment, and instinctively it does feel like something is wrong. It turns out that it is because everyone sees it easily, and then they are trying their best to squeeze into the easy way. Since there are so many people walking on the easy road, it will naturally be crowded.

Although I have chosen to keep myself trimmed every day, I already feel the pain when I look at it, and in the eyes of people who have lost hope for the future, it seems that it is a superfluous move, adding trouble to themselves and wasting time. As it turned out, it was painful to do these things in that environment, at that time.