What do you think is the reason why children cry?

A child's crying is a very good, normal channel for emotional catharsis. But many adults often can't accept their children's crying. Because children's crying will always make them full of anxiety, and they want to make the child's mood better immediately, so they often take ways to divert attention, threaten and intimidate, and even forcibly interrupt, just to stop the child's tears as soon as possible.

If you don't let your child cry all the time, or if you always have to find a way to interrupt your child when he is crying, then when you try to make him cry as much as you want, you may find that your child will cry endlessly, because he has accumulated too many emotions. Such an opportunity is a good gift for the child, once he seizes this opportunity, he will find a way to empty his emotional sludge, maybe once, twice, three times, knowing that the child really empties the emotions that have accumulated in his heart, he may become less crying. Therefore, the more children are not allowed to cry freely, the more likely they are to cry. ‍‍

If the child has been crying, it may also indicate that the child is unable to deal with the incident at this stage, and there is no way to digest the matter properly. So crying was one of her reactions. It is possible that this event will be forgotten by the child over time, but most of them may be a negative small trauma for the child, and she will withdraw a little or have some other abnormal behavior.

The child crys, a big reason is that his needs are not met, the child's needs are reasonable and unreasonable, reasonable needs parents should meet as much as possible, unreasonable needs parents guide their children, empathize with children, and consider problems from the perspective of children.

If the child is three years old and cannot accurately describe himself in words, then he should carefully observe the circumstances under which the child is more likely to cry. In this way, you can understand why your child likes to cry. If you are a child over the age of three who can express yourself accurately in words, you can use words to guide your child to say why he is crying.

Of course, it is also necessary to carefully observe the situations in which children are more likely to cry, pay more attention and observe more, you can find the reason for your child's crying, and prescribe the right medicine to solve the problem of children's crying.

Many times, the child can not achieve the goal of crying, adults because of embarrassment or trouble, distress and other reasons crying adults compromise, so that the child will cry as their own means, usually parents to the child to set up good rules, gentle and firm implementation, not by the child's coercion, after a few times the child will know that crying is useless, will not cry in the future.

Some babies are born to cry, which requires more encouragement from parents, cultivate their perseverance and brave character, do not cry at every turn, but learn how to solve and cope with difficulties through their own efforts, and at the same time develop a sunny character and cheerful character.

Children sometimes cry because they can't express and communicate, and can only be done through the simple way of crying, at this time, parents need to encourage their children to express themselves, so that children can understand that there is a better solution besides crying.

There are many ways for adults to release their stress and emotions, for example, exercising, singing, going to the street, shopping, eating, but children have not yet found other ways to vent their emotions, only through crying, the process of crying is the process of healing and acceptance of children.

I remember when my son was more than a year old, he told him: Mom cried. The son will also cry sadly, and cry very sadly.

When my son was more than two years old, I told him: If you are disobedient, your mother will ignore you. When the son hears that his mother ignores him, he will also cry loudly and be sad.

When his son was more than three years old, he would cry very sadly when he couldn't win his sister with his sister gun toys, and then asked his father for help.

After a long time, my son's habit of crying has not changed. But what's going on?

I think this is because my son is delicate and affectionate.

First of all, the son loves his mother, and when his mother is sad and tears, he will also empathize, sad, and sad.

Secondly, the son loves his sister, although he is two years older than his sister and likes toys very much, but it is not that he can't win his sister, but let her. He can only endure the pain of cutting love, which is also his feelings.

For our crying son, as long as we are parents and understand him, we can watch him thrive.

What are the reasons why children like to cry? In fact, from the time a person is born as a baby, he needs someone to help him with eating, drinking, and Lazar, and the only way he can do it is to cry, and he wants to cry, and all his crying is to get a feedback from adults.

Because children are the most innocent and innocent, they will not deliberately hide their joys, sorrows, sorrows, and sorrows, children cry when they want to cry, and laugh when they want to, and another reason is that children are timid, so they will show that they love to cry!

Children love to cry sometimes related to the parent's education style, when she cries, you compromise, and when she grows up, too. Don't think crying will solve the problem.

Crying is a way to express emotions, especially when children don't know how to regulate their emotions and don't know how to express them, they will use crying to vent. Therefore, many times you need to be guided by adults, don't blindly beat and scold children, and ask why children are always crying!

Hello, because children are not sensible, so they always love to cry.