When two guys want to be your boyfriend at the same time, what do you choose?

As a girl, you have the right to choose a boyfriend, which is also a good thing. If there are two guys who want to be my boyfriend at the same time. Let me choose, and I will generally choose from these three aspects:

First, it is necessary to determine which of the two boys they prefer more.

Some people say that falling in love without the purpose of marriage is playing hooligan, and I think this sentence is quite reasonable. Since you choose a boyfriend, you must want to have a result with him.

Since the purpose is to get married, which person we are with means that the two of us are going to live for a lifetime. Every girl loves romance and wants to be with the person she likes, and I'm no exception.

Second, through your own assessment method, you have to determine which boy loves you more.

When a boy cares about you a lot, he will do a lot of things for you, and that kind of love is not reciprocated. Since both boyfriends want me to choose, I mainly see which of them is more selfless to me.

In other words, it depends on who is more broad-minded and does not have a small belly, and the chicken intestines are more sincere to me. Only by finding someone who treats you truly can you achieve true happiness.

Third, determine the boyfriend you want to choose, be kind and have a certain sense of responsibility.

Personally, I think that only a kind and responsible man can be a good man, if a man is only kind, but not a little responsible, then you want him to be responsible for you, which seems unlikely.

So where should the specific sense of responsibility come from, you can see his attitude towards his parents, his attitude towards work and his attitude towards the people around him, whether he is rigorous and reliable.

In this case, you generally just need to follow your heart. But if you can't make a decision in your heart, and your heart is very entangled and waiting for me, then it is really a very tangled problem, and you need to think rationally.

First of all, in the face of the situation that both boys want to be your boyfriend and wait for me, you should consider whether one of these two boys is your liking, and if one of them is the one you like more, it will be easy to do. I will definitely choose what I like, following my heart is the most important thing, like to be able to really accept him, for him to give something I should give everything.

I don't want to live in love, I don't think it will last long. Although liking is not necessarily suitable, and it may not last long, at least the hearts of two people are together. So the most important thing to choose what you like is that since both boys want to be your boyfriend, it means that they must have feelings for you and like you in their hearts.

Then don't hesitate, don't weigh the pros and cons, even if you regret it, try to choose the one you like.

Secondly, if neither of these two boys you like, and they each have very obvious shortcomings that make you feel disgusted, then you need to be very careful in your choice. We must not only listen to one-sided words, but must have our own reason and not make blind choices. You need to be careful about this situation, no matter which of these two people is there, you need to observe it carefully, so that you can be more responsible for yourself.

Even when necessary, two people can refuse.

There will be such a person in this world, even if you give up now, don't be disappointed, there will be better people in your world. Bad people aren't worth your time to waste, only good people, people who are really right for you, are qualified to make you wait.

If there are two boys who want to be my boyfriend at the same time, I will definitely have a choice, and I will definitely have to consider many aspects. First of all, the most important thing is to see who you feel more about. After all, falling in love in the future is still a matter of two people, if you look at him at the beginning, it is not pleasing to the eye, but he is better in other aspects, so it is more tiring to get along.

So at least find one that is pleasing to the eye.

Secondly, I want to see which of the two of them is more attentive to me. Personally, I still prefer careful boys who can be considerate of themselves. So in the process of getting along with each other, I will also carefully observe and compare the two of them.

Because I think if a man is willing to be very attentive and thoughtful to a woman, then it means that he really loves this woman.

Of course, we also have to observe whether these two boys have any shortcomings? In fact, everyone has shortcomings, and there is no big problem with shortcomings, the main thing is to see if these shortcomings can be tolerated, if you really can't bear it, there may be trouble in getting along in the future. It is best to be unified in terms of ideas and values, if two people have very different ideas, and there is no way to reach a unified opinion in many things, it is also very painful.

There may be a lot of contradictions in the future. Therefore, it is better to be able to unify the values.

Of course, we also need to consider the family environment and financial ability of the two boys, as well as the potential of the two boys, I think these are quite important. After all, getting along in the future must be for the purpose of getting married, so we can't just think about love, sometimes we still have to be practical. But this is just an auxiliary reference, the main thing is to see if this boy is not attentive to me.

Sometimes it's simpler when we don't have a choice, because we don't have a choice, so we know to go to **. Sometimes, when we choose again, we waste more on weighing the choice. Especially when both options are good and you can only choose one of the two.

First of all, confirm what kind of person you are, what kind of person you want to find, and what kind of life you want to live. To choose a person is to choose a lifestyle. So when you first confirm what kind of life you want to live, you will not only look at the strengths of the other person, but also focus on whether the other person is consistent with your goals.

Secondly, it is necessary to understand the temperament and character of the other party, a person's temperament and personality are more or less affected by their original family, and living with an emotionally stable person will have a lot less unnecessary troubles and risks. Reduce the harm to each other in the process of dealing with interpersonal relationships. is more considerate of others, because there are many places to sacrifice in marriage, so you must not find an extreme personality.

Those who are calculating and afraid of losing will be the first to run away when trouble comes and needs to be sacrificed.

Understand each other's shortcomings, when we are in love, we are with the strengths of a person, and marriage is about living with the shortcomings. Is there a fault in the other party that you can't accept? This is very important, life is trivial, if you go crazy at that time, it is you who are troubled.

So when you understand your own needs, understand the temperament and character of the other person, and whether the shortcomings are acceptable, you should have the answer in your heart.

A single dog also came to this question, rubbing peach blossom luck haha.

I think the answer to this question must be different for different people, and many people will say that they should choose the one who loves her more, because there is a saying that girls have no love, and whoever is good to her, she will run away with whom. It's true that girls should actually be loved and pampered, and looking for a boyfriend must be to find a boyfriend who loves themselves the most and is good to themselves, everyone is not stupid, right? For those girls who don't pursue love, they may just want to experience the feeling of being in love, and if they increase their love experience, they will choose handsome, or a certain characteristic to attract their boys as boyfriends, after all, turnip greens are more loved.

And if I choose it myself, I will choose the one I like more, regardless of whether his conditions are worse than the other, and whether he loves me so much or not.

Maybe I'm just weird, I think the first thing I like is that I want to like him very much, otherwise I can't get along, and I think falling in love when I'm young, whether I can go to the end or not, it's a good memory, if I can't be with my favorite person, wouldn't it be a waste of youth? I don't care who loves more, who loves you the most, what I value most is what I can give for this love. So I still don't choose the one I love more like most girls, but the one I like more.

All in all, this is my personal opinion, after all, everyone's understanding of love is different, as long as it doesn't go against their own hearts. May everyone have the love they want.