What should I do if I like a college teacher who is ten years older than me?

<> first and foremost, let yourself understand that it's not a big deal.

No matter who you like, as long as you know that you shouldn't like him, then I feel that my psychology must be adjusted. You can tell yourself that there are many kinds of likes and not all of them have to be together.

Tell yourself that since you like it, as long as you understand it, it's not a big deal to like someone you shouldn't like. When you figure it out for yourself, your pain will be relieved, you can't be with the person you like, and you have to work hard to make your life better.

Secondly, liking college teachers doesn't have to be together.

Everyone has a young time, the love of student days is hazy, maybe the college teacher you like now will not necessarily be your future lover. Generally speaking, it is difficult to be together if you like a college teacher, and it is not only a matter of age, but also a family problem.

Since you know that the two of you won't be together, even if you like him now, what can you do? When you like him, the university teacher doesn't necessarily like you, so I personally feel that it is really unnecessary to behave unwisely for the sake of someone who is impossible to be with you.

Finally, bury the love.

It's good to like someone, but if you like him, as long as you like him selflessly, you must like people to live happily. As a university teacher, if your student likes him and wants to be with him, even if he wants to be with you, then you have to think about the impact on him.

If you are together, at least where he works, people will definitely not be good for him, you have to understand this, if you understand, it is better to bury this like.

Nowadays, college teachers are actually quite young, if you like it, and your teacher doesn't have a boyfriend or girlfriend, or a husband and wife, then be bold and chase it.

In fact, many people think that this is indecent love, at least in ancient times, it may not be easy to be accepted, but if you really like it, then be brave to chase your love.

Xiaolongnu, Yang Guo, Hua Qiangu, Bai Zi painting, these sound beautiful, and distant master-apprentice love, although it is a taboo love, but it is also the most moving, attractive story, as long as it is beautiful, innocent, why not boldly pursue it.

Now the society is very open, and the love between teachers and students is also normal, human nature, as long as it is an attractive person around you, and it is a person who attracts you and likes him, it is normal.

But what I want to say is whether you accept the costs and consequences of rejection, for example, the criticism of your classmates, but I think many students will support you now, unless it is a rival or a small group of people, you are very brave.

There is also the question of whether the relationship between you and the teacher will be very awkward after you are rejected, some people may handle it well, so they can't be a couple, but they are good mentors and friends, which is also excellent. But if you or his mentality is not good, and he collapses in this matter, you two can't even do it as a teacher and student.

There are also things to consider are his current relationship status, his current partner, and deciding his choice.

So it depends on your mentality, whether you can accept all the bad consequences, if you can accept it, you boldly show love, if not, you just let go, silently hide this love in your heart.

Ask your heart, ask your own endurance, and if you can, boldly chase your love.

In that case, you're probably a college student, right? In fact, I think that as an adult, I have a clear understanding of whether my feelings for teachers are the kind of feelings between men and women, or the admiration between teachers and students. is also fully capable of taking responsibility for his feelings.

My personal opinion, if your college teacher is single. Then I encourage you to pursue it bravely.

If you are single and your teacher is in a relationship gap. Regardless of whether he has been married before or not, then I think as long as you believe that you love him, then I think you can be brave enough to pursue him. I know that there are many people who have a bad opinion of teacher-student love, and generally if the older teacher and his female student get together, everyone doesn't have a very good evaluation of the two of them, but I think the relationship is my own, and the path is also my own choice, so why care too much about what others think?

If you really love him enough, then I think you should be brave enough to pursue him, and if he has feelings for you, it would be best if you could come together. If you can't come together, then I think you have at least pursued it, and there is nothing to regret, just try to get yourself out of this relationship and find your true happiness.

If he now has a stable dating partner, then you must not destroy other people's feelings, and it is recommended that you do not express this kind of affection for her to others, I think people don't like you, you express this emotion, it will only add trouble to others, and then you will always let yourself be in a kind of pain that you can't love. If he already has a family, then you can't express this emotion, because if you express this emotion, or even use some abnormal means to let people stay with you, it is to destroy other people's families, and you will become a third party.

No matter what choice you make, I hope your choice is the one you won't regret later.

I really like this feeling uncontrollably, and many times there are embarrassing situations of liking, some people like their sister-in-law, some people like their sisters, and of course there are those who like their teachers. Of course, these likes must be immature likes, just like the wrong person. Teachers who like themselves are still in school, and they are relatively young, so it is understandable that they like them wrongly.

Maybe you think that the teacher is good-looking, think he is very attractive, often get along with him and like him, this is a normal way of expressing emotions, the feeling of liking any person can appear, but if you want to take the relationship further, the possibility of becoming a couple together is almost non-existent, and it is not good for the teacher and not good for yourself. You must be clear about the stakes, you still have a long way to go, now he is just teaching you, you have to go your own way after all, parting ways is a matter of time, you yourself have time to think about it, you should let yourself see through the nature, in addition to the current you don't have to be nervous, he may appear shy when he is in class, you need to restrain yourself from these, study is important, and other feelings are foreign.

Now you are immature, mature people will not easily let themselves like the inappropriate person, now what you experience is just a part of the growth of life, are in your future road to accumulate experience, do not appear fearful, do not be distracted during class, reasonable control of their emotions, self-suggestion to be frequent, have continued to tell yourself that you are impossible, hinting for a long time like the mood has been changed, slowly I don't like it, don't be nervous and deal with it naturally, It is also useless to have an emotional escape that has arisen.

In China, try to bury your favorite as much as possible. Because if he is discovered, he may be expelled, and you are still a student, and the school will not do anything to you.

Do whatever you want, the privilege of youth is to make mistakes. When you are working, it will be difficult to find a partner (the social circle is very small). The older you get, the harder it is to find a partner, especially for women, because men with ability or money generally value women's appearance and age, which is the nature of humans as animals.

And when women get older, most of them can only look up, and the older the man, the more women he has played, imagine that the person who married you has played with so many women, you haven't even given out your first love, you must not be able to accept it, this is also the nature of human beings as animals. So get married early. Don't think that the men who pursue you are ugly or poor, rich and handsome will not come to you, unless you are white and rich.

People don't want to do loss-making business, which is also human nature.

I don't know what I like just because of the ignorant fantasies of adolescence.,It's better for you to get to know him.,Hiccup and fart.,Before, I also love to pick my feet like the stupid male classmates around you that you think now.,Don't blindly fantasize.,If you like it, you can understand.,If you don't like it, give up.。 Of course, all of this is based on being single.

Don't express your feelings, if you think it's appropriate and really suitable (age, emotional state, life, family), get in touch with more opportunities to create together, and never pretend emotionally!

You can get close, but I advise you not to be too anxious to express your emotions, and try to let this emotion settle for a while, and don't be hot-headed for a while. Although I am not very optimistic about the teacher-student relationship, I still encourage the brave pursuit of true love!

You should take the initiative to express yourself and say that he doesn't necessarily like you anymore. Don't be discouraged if you are rejected, and always look forward.

It takes courage to love someone. If you like him (her), go and confess, if you fail, it is also a good memory for you, if you succeed, bless you! Try to get to know each other first.

There's nothing wrong with liking someone, but I hope you can take a good look at the positions of both parties and think more from the perspective of others.

First of all, you have to see if your teacher has a girlfriend, if he doesn't like you, it's okay, if he has a partner, just give up. After all, it is not a world in the first place.

The two of you are not on the same track, unless you are willing to give up everything in person, child, this is a difficult road.

Hello, I understand your feelings very well, be bold and chase it, don't miss it.

How old is he, if he is single, you can talk about it.

Is the subject from Sichuan? I have two bold guesses hahaha. Talking about the point: if he is single, it will not affect your own academic situation.

Pig brain, stupid pig, stupid pig, pig Bajie!

If you like it, you can go to it, they are all adults, and they are afraid of wool!!

If the teacher is single, you can be bold and pursue it.

Chase decisively, how do you know success or failure if you don't try?

The man is more anxious than you, waiting for you to ask him to go up.

I'm not very lucky, I often like some girls, I started to like some girls when I was in elementary school, and my liking at that time may not be the same as my current liking, but at that time I would like to talk to girls, and then I will feel that the world is really beautiful when I see them. Then when I was in middle school, I started chasing girls.,At that time, chasing girls was to start writing love letters.,It's simple.,But it's very effective.,But this trick doesn't work for me.,I wrote love letters to girls twice.,But these two times didn't work.。

I know that it is almost impossible to persuade people not to continue to like it, because liking is something that we will know from birth, and if we don't play it when we are young, we will like the opposite sex as soon as we reach puberty, which is normal, but it should be within a limited range, so I said that if there are no other circumstances, I support the subject to find true love.

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Problem description: He has a great sense of humor, a great personality, and is our homeroom teacher.

Since becoming the class leader, I have had a lot of contact with him, and after slowly getting acquainted with him, I suddenly found that one day I liked him, unconsciously inquired about all the news about him, and liked to run to where he was, as long as there was a little thing. For a while, my mind was full of him. What to do, what to do.

Do the math, it's really impossible for us, he's 15 years older than me, and I'm two generations, and he should have his own sweetheart in his generation.

You won't be nervous at all with him, even if it's a big thing, he will joke with you and deal with it very seriously and effectively, it's really okay. He's so secure and mature.

But when I think about it, I still feel distressed that we are impossible. Give up and forget it. Now my approach is to try not to see him and hide it forever. I guess I'm pretty sensible about that.

Analysis: This is the charm of adult men, and every little sister can't resist. I tried it too.

It's good. Draw close to him with your affection for him and be his assistant. If you do a good job, he will often praise you and smile at you. You will also be satisfied by this.

Before I went to high school, I wrote down my thoughts on paper, and I didn't know the result

Maybe it's okay, he'll forgive you, if you don't think he's wrong.

Of course, this is not possible. If you marry someone who is 10 years older than you, and I say if, there is a good chance of miscarriage