For feelings, do you insist on rather lack than indiscriminate or settle?

Everyone has a different three views, and the attitude towards feelings will naturally be different, and in my opinion, I think that feelings are better than indiscriminate, and I would rather be single than compromised, which will be a very irresponsible attitude, to each other, to myself, is. <>

Anyone who has had an emotional experience will know that emotionally it will actually be a very painful thing, which not only delays the other party, but also makes them feel guilty. I had such a relationship experience, when I had a boy I liked, although it was a secret crush, but I also lasted for a year, the same way, the boy who liked me also chased me for a long time, but I didn't take anything he gave me, I didn't like him, and I didn't want to give him the so-called hope, so I kept rejecting him, but that boy was really good and good to me. <>

Once I had a birthday, he asked me to wait for him during the next night self-study, I guess he wanted to give me a birthday gift, I refused, went straight back to the dormitory, he and my best friend are also friends, and then they were chatting, my best friend knew these things, she specifically said to me, "You see how good people are to you, think about it, right, is it worthy of others" I really felt guilty at the time, and I was with him. But this decision, I really did it wrong, since then, he is still very good to me, I am very moved, I try to like him, but touching is not feelings, liking a person is not so easy to do, and the guilt of him forced me to not be able to say, I feel very sorry for him, such guilt gave me a lot of pressure, but I can't get rid of it, and then it may be that he thinks my attitude is too cold, not like I am in love, and gradually I am not so persistent, The relationship lasted a year and then ended, and we broke up peacefully, but then broke up.

But I didn't feel like I was going to settle for anything, I was supposed to be delaying him. So I still regret making that decision at that time, if I can be firm, sober, maybe we can be friends as before, so you must not be with someone you don't like because of a moment of brain fever or want to fall in love, I think you really have to be serious about feelings, because the decision you make is related to two people, you are not only responsible for yourself, but also responsible for each other, feelings are very beautiful things, and the so-called going will be to destroy that beauty, So please learn how to be Chen, don't settle, if you are still a single dog now, don't worry, there must be someone waiting for you ahead, there will always be someone so that you don't have to settle. <>

All in all, it's better to have a lack of affection than to be overdone.

Rather lack than excess. I can really tell you my opinion on this issue. But the specifics are up to you. After all, what you think in your heart is the most important and crucial.

The reason why I say this is that I feel that the result of compromise is reluctant, and I am embarrassed by myself. When "Why Shen Xiao Mo" first came out, the male protagonist He Yichen played by Zhong Hanliang said "I don't want to settle" resonated with many people. I think so I do with feelings.

It is better to lack than to abuse, and not to compromise. Choosing someone you don't like will live your life, disappointing the other party's feelings, and embarrassing your own heart. There are so many billion people in the world, and we in China account for about 1.4 billion.

As long as it's the right person, what if it's a little late? Do you like to live your life with the person you like, or do you force yourself to live this life by yourself? Are you in such a hurry?

One of the great things in this life is to meet someone you like, watch the sunrise and sunset together, and sit on a wicker chair to grow old slowly.

Of course, this is just my personal opinion. The whole life of two people still relies on mutual understanding and tolerance. I once watched "Parents' Love", the officer played by Guo Tao and her wife Anqi in the play were not very calling, and the two didn't seem to match, and even in my opinion, Anqi was a little reluctant.

But after some understanding, they still came together, and they were happy together to the end of the day, the kind of delicate feelings, and the slowly run-in parental love touched many people. So it's all about feelings, or look at yourself.

Everyone wants their relationship to be on the basis of the willingness of the two of them, holding hands and spending the rest of their lives together. But sometimes we may not be able to meet the right person for a long time, but it is time to settle down and have our own happiness is life. In the face of relatives and friends urging parents to marry, we may be a little difficult, should we insist on preferring shortage to abuse or compromise?

In terms of feelings, I think it's best to have more than to overdo it. But everyone's definition of the future is different, and it is not necessarily, the future is not good.

Many people always insist on an attitude of preferring lack to indiscriminate feelings, and feel that they can't find the right person for them, so they don't marry for a lifetime. I don't think this kind of attitude to life is bad, it's quite individual, who said that you can't live freely by yourself. Alone, after all, to survive in this world once, I think you must always experience the feeling of being in love, get married and have children, and then experience a happy married life.

This kind of life is complete.

Some people say that feelings cannot be compromised, but I think everyone has a different definition of future. Some people will just reach the right age, and when they should settle down, they will casually find someone to marry and have children, and then spend the rest of their lives. This kind of thing is really going to happen, and it is also irresponsible to two people, and it will always delay each other.

And some people will, they will choose a person who they may not like so much, but the other party likes them very much, get along slowly, cultivate feelings, and may enter the palace of marriage, get married and have children. I think that's a very reliable way, because feelings can be cultivated.

I think it's good for both boys and girls to insist on a rather lacking than indiscriminate attitude towards relationships, but sometimes you can't insist too much on such a principle, maybe you can meet someone more suitable for you.

I think it's better to be lacking rather than indiscriminate for feelings, and the popular TV series "Why Sheng Xiaomo" some time ago mentioned a theme for us, that is, not compromised, so when we encounter emotional problems in life, we should also treat them with an attitude of not compromising, which is a kind of responsibility for ourselves and a kind of responsibility for others.

If we settle for ourselves in order to get a relationship in our lives, and let ourselves find someone to fall in love with at will, then the ending will not be very good, because love is a very beautiful thing, it can only be carried out under the premise that two people like each other, rather than making do with each other for some other external reasons, which is a very unreliable behavior and an extremely undesirable behavior.

In college, there are many freshmen who want to relax themselves because their high school life is too depressing, they are lonely, they are lonely, so they want to save themselves by falling in love, so that their lives have a little new color, instead of being oppressed like in high school, unchanged, so they change their ways to get rid of their singles and find their other half, so they don't worry about whether two people like each other or not, whether it is suitable, but with a little bit of a sprout, they immediately establish a relationship, so, These behaviors have created a relationship that will not last long.

I once saw a boy in our class who had changed three girlfriends just a few days after entering school, but it didn't last long, they all got along for a few days before they found out that it was not suitable, it turned out that they could only be friends, just like that, until now he is still single, probably he has tried all the girls around him. Therefore, this kind of behavior of falling in love for the sake of falling in love is a kind of fulfillment of one's own feelings, and it is also an act that should not be taken.

This question will have different choices for different people, some people feel that it is more suitable to have a shortage than an abundance, and some people would rather choose to settle. In fact, when it comes to feelings, I don't say which attitude is right and which attitude is wrong, as long as I feel that I can make myself not regret it.

I believe everyone knows that Director Bai in "Ode to Joy" is Qiu Yingying's ex-boyfriend, and this character is given the name of a scumbag. I think if it's such a person, I'd rather choose to have less than overuse, because I don't want to be hurt in my relationship for no reason, I don't want to let myself cry because of an unworthy person, and I don't want to waste my good time on that kind of person and miss the opportunity to find the person I want, that would be more than worth the loss.

Why is the relationship between the male protagonist and the female protagonist in "Sheng Xiaomo" also obtained because of the insistence on preferring lack to abuse and not compromise? Don't casually accept another person's kindness just because you're lonely, will you be lonely if you're single? Definitely, but it's not scary to be single, what I'm afraid of is to treat myself casually in order to get rid of loneliness.

Many people regret meeting the wrong person at the right time, and there may be their own reasons for it.

Will anyone choose to settle? There will definitely be, after all, not everyone's emotional concept is the same. Maybe these people will think that I need to experience more in the relationship and learn more lessons, so they can't wait to start every relationship, and set standards for each other in their hearts?

There will be, but it may be that this set of standards will be invalidated, and when you meet it, you will be together if you feel good, and you will be together without too much consideration.

No one said that it would be wrong, and no one said that it was right to insist on preferring to lack rather than abuse, there is no right or wrong between the two themselves, but it depends on what kind of attitude they have towards their feelings, whether they want to let their feelings experience more, or whether they want to wait until the right person, this is completely up to their own thoughts.

People who are supposed to have different emotional experiences will have different opinions. For me, love is incompatible, if two people are not suitable, just because the other party is good to you, you will live with him, so you will be unhappy for a long time, because that is not love, more should be a kind of gratitude. In my view of love.

The people who will be together are not really happy, they are all for the other party to be happy, so they pretend to be happy, they are uncomfortable, and others are also uncomfortable.

Therefore, for feelings, we still have to adhere to the principle of preferring lack to excess, how many people in the TV series have fallen in love with someone by mistake because of loneliness, resulting in their own loneliness for a lifetime. In real life, too, if we just agree to someone's pursuit because we can't find true love for the time being, we can't get true love, sometimes wait a minute, wait a little longer, maybe we can find true love in a blink of an eye. Don't miss out on your true love just because you're going to do it.

If you miss it, it's hard to find the next favorite. Keeping yourself single is also to keep your true love from sneaking away.

Fate is really amazing, you have to believe in it. Believe in fate, and fate will favor you and make you a happy person. will let you get true love.

Therefore, I really hope that the girls and boys, don't just find someone to love just for a moment of loneliness and feel that no one loves them, so that if the two people are not suitable, the future life will be really difficult. Therefore, we must always stick to our own position, we can make ourselves better in the waiting time, and let our lover meet us when we are the most beautiful, the most handsome, and the most talented! Finally, I hope everyone can get their true love.

宁無不乱 [nìng quē wú làn].

Basic Definition of New Words Detailed Definition.

Ning: Rather; No: No; Abuse: excessive. When selecting talents or picking things, it is better to have fewer than to make up more regardless of quality.

The tide is wide on both sides, and the wind is hanging. The mentality is long gone, and there is no more throbbing of youth. Many people don't want to settle for things, and the weird lion girl who doesn't like it at a glance will never like it, and the first feeling is really accurate and very important.

I never doubted my ability to make friends before I went to college, because I was always surrounded by a group of people who liked me. I also think that even if I don't have 100 points, I'm still good. Haha I feel good about myself (but there are still many deficiencies that need to be improved, and the system is being updated, ..........)

Before I went to college, I didn't have any worries about my college dormitory, and I thought that I would have a dormitory that would be harmonious, if not very good. I also feel that I have the confidence and ability to hold the hostel, deal with some conflicts, and bring a manual atmosphere.

But!!! College life taught me that the forest is big and there are all kinds of birds. When I came to school, I was really disappointed with some people and things.

No matter how strong your heart is, you will be so angry that it will explode. A roommate is a roommate, and a heart-to-heart conversation is still an old friend. I remember beating Yuan ** one night, and I couldn't help but cry.

To tell the truth, I've known each other for so many years, and no matter how hard or difficult things I encounter, I have never cried in front of them. But that time the inner defense line really collapsed, and the tears burst the embankment. Very few people can be angry with me, let alone like this.

That kind of helplessness and heartbreak, it's really hard for people who haven't experienced it to understand. I once looked for the reason for myself, whether I had become stingy and sensitive, and I had been working hard to adapt.

But I'm really tired, I tried my best, I'd rather lack than excess. I don't want to live this life, I don't want to numb myself blindly. You don't have to trap yourself in such a small space, and people who don't have the same views can't force it.

Real friends can play together when they quarrel, but college roommates can't quarrel but can't play together. My college roommate is that I eat spicy noodles and worry about whether it will smoke him, and my real friends are the ones who throw them together. I haven't really blushed, and I haven't really made friends.

It's more like arranging a group of people with different ideas and personalities together. Now I look at it more realistically, after four years, I will always go my own way, and I can't force this kind of thing to come. Everyone in different circles will really get weaker and weaker, some things are really unnecessary, don't let your life be mixed with too many impurities.

Sometimes there's no right or wrong, it's just that you and I have very different opinions, and each has its own reasons. Just like two intersecting straight lines, there will always be sparks of collision.

To put it simply, if it weren't for my 'roommate', I probably wouldn't have had anything to do with you in college. It can be regarded as a posture, and those who are angry with me will make me stronger in my heart, which is also a different experience in my life. In the past, I relied more on my friends, and I would feel lonely when I walked alone on the road.

Right now. Thousands of favors, all the way alone, single-handed, lazy and lively.