What is it like to receive a text message from an ex?

Receiving a text message from an ex at any time is not a pleasant thing, because the ex is always a difficult hurdle in a person's heart, no matter what the original process was. If it's okay if you don't feel for the other person in your heart, you feel that you don't have any special thoughts and smile. But for those who had to break up at that time, the damage index was not too great.

I feel that any ambiguous sentence of the ex will make me think about it for a long time, and I will guess what the other party means by contacting me, whether I should reply, how to reply, whether to reply immediately, what to say when I reply, what to do if others ignore you if you say too much, what to do if you don't reply to the other party's heart, it's just tangled. I will also wonder if the reply is too fast, whether it will seem too active, consider the words, think repeatedly, enter and delete, delete in the input, maybe the other party just sent it casually, and I have already fantasized about the world. I've even thought about whether or not to get back together.

Of course, if your ex really can't forget you, and you love him, it's okay, and it's naturally a happy ending. But if the other party just sent a message unintentionally, or even sent it by mistake. Then it may be that you have so many words, but in the end, you can only delete them word by word, or turn over all those dusty memories over and over again, and hide the pain caused by those memories little by little.

So I want to say to all the exes, please raise your noble hand, if you really love or have loved this person then give him a happy breakup, and don't get entangled in his life after the breakup, because the process of a person struggling alone in the relationship is not comfortable, because the mood is up and down because of another person's words is not comfortable, and the feeling of finally calming down in the heart and making waves again is even more unbearable, so it doesn't matter if you don't love it, it doesn't matter if you can't be together, But at least don't be too cruel to the people you've been with.

Receiving messages from my ex-boyfriend was a very peculiar experience for me, and I was excited, happy, and scared, and all kinds of emotions filled my heart and I couldn't help myself. It seems that at this moment, I have forgotten myself, only remember this text message, and I am blind to the hustle and bustle of the surrounding environment. It's a feeling that you won't be able to experience in the future.

When I was in high school, my ex-boyfriend and I met and fell in love, and we were together for two years, and finally chose to break up in our junior year of high school. Maybe it's because of my first love! It's been seven or eight years now, and I can't forget it, I don't know if it's reluctant to feel this feeling, or reluctant to this person, sometimes I always think that if time can come back once, we won't come to this point, maybe we won't miss it.

I still remember the moment I received his text message in college, no words can describe this moment, at that time I thought that maybe he was coming to find himself back together, maybe we can't forget this relationship, the complex emotions in my heart at that moment are still vivid. People only have one first love in this life, and it is too difficult to forget. To this day, sometimes I still wonder if it would have ended better than it is now, for everyone to receive an ex-boyfriend should feel different, and I am more happy than surprised, I am even more happy to receive his message during this period, this experience does not want to try again, it will be better to be able to go to the end together.

And for those who don't have any feelings for their ex-boyfriends at all, it shouldn't matter if they receive a text message!

It was a speechless experience because I felt that if I broke up, I shouldn't have any contact anymore.

When I received the news from my ex, I was very calm, because I broke up with my ex because of a long-distance relationship, so to speak, a peaceful breakup. If he sends me a message, I think it's an interruption to my current life. I don't.

Knowing if he is married and has children, I think everyone is okay and don't disturb each other.

First, the process of acquaintance.

Our acquaintance was on a certain ** in Brother Xiliang, in the virtual place of the Internet, everyone spoke freely and told their hearts. At that time, he and I were still university students, and the distance between us was about four or five hours by high-speed train, which was not very far, and it was not close. Later, we made an appointment to meet, and to be honest, he was not very different from the feelings I had on the Internet, but since it was the first time I had this experience, I backed down.

Thinking about it now, I probably had social phobia at that time.

The chat on the Internet is very good, and when it comes to reality, he will choose to escape, although he has come to Lu Chan many times, and wants me to go to his place to play, I have declined. I can't get out of my own circle. The dependency is strong.

Second, break up. The relationship lasted about a year, and he offered to go to his side, and he would tell my parents about it solemnly. I was afraid to leave my parents, to leave a place I was familiar with, I was not sure that I would be happy to go to a strange place, I was in a state of self-doubt at one point, on the one hand I didn't want to lose him, and on the other hand I didn't want to go to him.

I had thought about letting him buy a house and settle in my place, but he was the only child in the family, and that was unrealistic. Later, as he didn't come, I didn't come, and we gradually faded away.

I think that suddenly I received the news of my ex, I will not have any waves, after all, you will know many people in your life, whether the fate is deep or shallow is not something you can control many times, if you meet true love, you must cherish it, if the two parties are not suitable, do not hurt each other.

A year old trembling will be a little surprised at first and then calm after a long time after the breakup suddenly Bi Hall will be a little surprised to receive a message from the other party but think about it now it's just an ordinary stranger and I don't feel anything. Hand finch hidden.

Suddenly Chong Xie received a message from his ex, and I was very surprised, because it showed that the former Haidian reporter walked by, which made me feel very open, so I wanted to know what he would say, which is what I am more concerned about.

There's no mood for any potatoes to collapse.,There's no waves.,At the time of the breakup, he had slowly forgotten about him.,Even if you send me a message.,There's not much of a feeling of counting circles.,I don't think there's anything.。 Digging.

The two of them have broken up, and even if he has any information for me to know, I won't feel any of them, because no matter what he does? Whether there is or is any change has nothing to do with me.

Surprise, be calm at home, because after all, it's over, even if the ex sends a message, it doesn't matter, and there won't be much emotion.

It was a feeling of thanksgiving to heaven and earth.

I will be very happy and have a complete family.

There is no ex in my heart!

I'm going to be very nervous, because I don't know what he's doing it for.

The boy is sad to receive a letter from his ex. According to the query of relevant information: it is not a pleasant thing to receive a text message from your ex at any time, and your ex will always be a person's heart full of patience and difficult to pass, no matter what the original process was.

Send a text message to your ex to test whether the other party is still thinking about yourself, and you can choose from: daily trivialities, your own experience, interesting things, whatever to post, and look at your ex's attitude, which is detailed as follows:

1. When a man is obsessed with you, he wants to participate in every day of your life. Tell him whether you are happy or unhappy, and he will accept it and be happy for you or worry about you.

2. Telling your ex about your experience is actually equivalent to telling your ex that you are willing to give yourself completely to him. When the former answers with the same sincerity, it shows that the predecessor still thinks about himself.

3. When sharing something interesting with your ex, your ex didn't find it boring, but showed great interest, which means that your ex still cares about you.

4. If your ex has you in his heart, then no matter what you talk about with your ex, he will be very interested, and he will talk endlessly, and he will not see it back or perfunctory at all.

Notes:

1. After a breakup, you always need to find a settlement. However, it is not always necessary to ask for help from an ex. Many people realize that knots can be found in themselves.

2. If you are drunk and behave recklessly, then you need to check yourself. This will only bring unwanted disasters and unnecessary dramatic events.

How do you know if he still has you in his heart? A must-see for recovering your ex.

You can pull it down, don't have nothing to do, I originally had you in my heart, you sent a text message to your ex, and he felt that you didn't have him in your heart, and the gains outweighed the losses.

You said that you are ready to get married, and if he loves you, he will keep you.

You can feign illness, preferably more seriously. Call him to save you, and if he comes, you won't know the outcome.

I'm uncomfortable, miss you, it's as simple as that. What answer do you want? What if he replies to you? After all, if we are not together, what's the point of doing this, do you still want to redeem it.

If only there were you. I wouldn't have broken up in the first place.

It's all ex, why are you still thinking about him, he wants to have you in his heart, he has been looking for you a long time ago.

You said, my family is urging me to go on a blind date, but I don't want to go on a blind date again,,, see how to reply to you...

All ex. Even if you are tempted to come out, you have you in your heart. How much it makes sense.

1. I don't love you anymore

Send a message to your ex and she's willing to get you back; This shows that your ex, she no longer loves you; Because if she loves you, then she will not be willing to leave you; And if she can't force herself to leave you, she will hate you and hate you very much in her heart; Naturally, if you message her, she won't reply to you.

2. Treat you like an ordinary friend

The ex replies to your message, which shows that your ex treats you like an ordinary friend; This is because she never really loved you when she was with you, so after the breakup, she will become friends with you.

Third, out of Zheng is rude and polite

The girl still replies to your messages after the breakup, maybe out of politeness, or it may be because when you broke up, you didn't have a complete fight, and she feels that replying to your messages is a sign of respect for you.

Fourth, inertial dependence

Although she has broken up with you, she is used to the time she was in love with you, and she is not used to the fact that you have broken up, so she still habitually replies to your messages after you break up with her.

5. Regret breaking up

Breakups are sometimes just because of some contradictions between each other, which cannot be resolved in time, or even just because of impulsiveness, impulsively proposed to break up, when the two have been separated for a period of time and the mood has calmed down, the attention to the previous contradictions has slowly shifted.

I felt that the problem I was concerned about at the time didn't seem to be so serious, so I began to slowly think about the other party's goodness, so I began to regret my original behavior. At this time, the breakup and return your message is to test you and see if there is still any possibility of getting back together with you.

I would choose to delete it, or throw it away.

Breaking up, for most young people, is a chance, someone has only been in love once in their life, that is, marriage; While living in marriage, he began to grope for love; From being single in the mother and fetus to the age of talking about marriage, I met a person who was almost suitable, and I decided to live the rest of my life. There are also some people who have many twists and turns in their relationship, start a new relationship after breaking up, and break up again not long after falling in love; The more frustrated you are, the more courageous you are, dare to love and hate.

There are also some people who may only need 1 or 2 breakup experiences to consume all their courage and patience; He could no longer fall in love with anyone, and he could not devote all his love. Because of the breakup, he has lost half of his soul.

In fact, breaking up is an opportunity for young people; This kind of chance may not have results, but it will be a rare experience in your life.

When you are old, you will feel that this life has been in vain when you recall the love and hate of your youth, and the bravery and romance of your youth.

It is very normal to feel sad after a breakup, but how to face a breakup is a difficult problem.

Whether you are 20 or 40 years old, you have the right to pursue love; Whether you're 20 or 40, it's going to be sad when you break up.

It's just that ending a relationship at different ages has different ways of coping. Some people spend it easily, and some people need to spend months, or even years, to digest the scars brought by their broken love.

Falling out of love is not a trivial matter, compared to the feelings you yourself experience; But if compared to your long life journey, falling out of love is a small thing, the key is how you look at it.

02 The way to break up, you should make some decisions, do not procrastinate, decide, and break up, which are some suggestions I give to everyone who has fallen out of love.

There is a saying that "long pain is better than short pain". What awaits you is a long period of pain.

Every time you see the dynamics of your ex, the ** of your ex, and the gift given to you by your ex, you will touch the scene, see things and think about people; The feelings that have been in the past for a long time have resurfaced in your heart.