How to make a man who has broken up come back?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-06
15 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Actually, I have the same experience as you, I love my boyfriend very much, but we broke up for some reason, and I also want him to come back, but the result is, no matter how hard I try, he is still indifferent, maybe he doesn't have me in his heart, maybe we should all give up, if you love him, why not let him pursue his own happiness? You're happy when he's happy, aren't you? I hope you can find your true love. Satisfied.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I once broke up with my partner, he fell in love with someone else, I waited for him, and he came back a year later. He's pretty much the same as you said, sometimes I really miss him after a breakup, I'll call him **, he asks me every time I have something, I don't hang up, and I often cry secretly when I think of him. I also chose to escape, I really didn't want to contact him anymore, but it was useless, I couldn't forget, and then I figured it out, I can't forget why I want to forget, my only hope after I come back is to see him again, even if it's just for me to see him from afar.

    Take a good look at him. It was only after we met that we reconciled. After the breakup, I often went to his space to see how he was doing, and I would send him a few funny text messages when I was unhappy.

    The main thing is to let him know that you have only him in your heart, as long as you really like him, I am sure you will wait and let him know that you will always be the one who cares about him the most!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Can't forget. Love is more lonely than not loving. Each person has a specific place in our hearts, but it is not so important.

    It's impossible to forget, what we can do is let time fade the scars. Don't deliberately ask to forget, there are many things that we think we will not forget in our lifetime are always forgotten by time when we remember it, since we have loved it deeply, why forget it, although the result is not what we want, but we have loved deeply, and it is not bad to have memories.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    At least the breakup needs to be cold and ruthless at the time, otherwise how can you bear to separate, there are not a few things that are untidy and messy, in fact, the ruthlessness at that time is good for both parties, if you are very calm with each other in the future, maybe you can be friends again, very calm friends. After that, you will feel that when you break up, you will be firm and good to everyone, so that each other can find the true love that truly belongs to you.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    No matter how good the man is, I don't think he should look back, A good horse doesn't eat the grass that goes back, and it's gone, Do you think he'll treat you the same way he did before? As a man, tell you, no!!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's already broken up, so why bother If he still has you in his heart, he will leave Don't pursue it anymore It's better to start over than with him Because you don't know if he's really happy with you If you love him, why don't you let him pursue his own happiness Right, if you face a person you like, will you still be willing to give everything for him It's possible Think about it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    When we broke up, we said that we would still be friends in the future. But are they really friends? Maybe it's a few years from now.

    A relationship, a journey, too much joy and touching together, too much helpless heartache, from true love to hurt each other, can you still be friends at the moment of breakup? If you can, you must not have really loved. Or it is the result of a person's grievances.

    There is no floodgate for feelings, and it cannot be closed with a single pull. It's hard for two people to love each other at the same time, and it's even harder not to love each other at the same time. There is no love, no hate, and only when you are indifferent to the throbbing in your heart can you become friends.

    But you and I, the two people who just broke up, maybe one of them is still in love, maybe from love to hate or resentful, maybe because of the throbbing of one of the other party's eyes, how to become friends? The person who once loved deeply can only watch silently, can't ask, can't manage, doesn't need to care, can't complain, everything about him has nothing to do with you, so how can you bear to be his friend? The person who once resented deeply no longer cares for you, no longer pampers you, his good and your bad can no longer be seen, you are just two parallel lines, so how can you still be his friend?

    Unless we haven't loved, I don't care who you are or what your identity is, I don't care at all, I never care. Even if we don't love it now, there are so many memories along the way, what should I do not remember at the moment when I face you? Or I still love you, I don't want anything, I don't regret it, no matter who you are to me now, no matter who you are guarding now, I am willing to always accompany you, hide my love for you deeply, not let you know, not be seen by you, and be willing to be a friend with you like a shadow as long as you are happy.

    Lovers are so close, friends are so far away, if you can't be lovers, maybe you will say just be friends. But even if the car drove away and returned to the original point again, it would be a different time, a different character, and a different scenery. We've already taken a step forward, but how can we measure the same size and go back?

    Keep going until you meet up again with someone else you can love. To break up is to break up, to decide, never to mention being friends. If you don't love him (her) anymore, let go and don't make excuses for your selfishness, don't keep him (her) if you still love him/her, and don't ask him (her) to turn back.

    When you break up, you only talk about breaking up, not about being friends. Just the most familiar strangers.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You first find out the reason for the breakup, and if this man is still worthy of your love, then drug him and pull him back.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Summary. Hello, a man turns back after a breakup because the other party is not sure if the decision he made was the right one and wants to try again. If a man is used to running away from conflict, this may explain why he leaves every time things get tricky.

    The same applies to a person who always stirs up disputes. He probably grew up with unrealistic or unhealthy expectations of a relationship, so now the alarm bells are ringing because his view of a perfect relationship is that couples never argue. For many men who have had this idea since childhood, it is often easier to leave.

    But when the dust settles and he starts to miss you, he starts to wonder if he's made the right decision. It is this confusion that prompts him to quietly come back to your life. If that's the case, it's unlikely that he wants to hurt you, and it's more likely that he really doesn't know what to do.

    What is it about men who turn back after a breakup.

    Hello, a man turns back after a breakup because the other party is not sure if the decision he made was the right one and wants to try again. If a man is used to running away from conflict, this may explain why he leaves every time things get tricky. The same applies to a person who always stirs up disputes.

    He probably grew up with unrealistic or unhealthy expectations of a relationship, so now the alarm bells are ringing because his view of a perfect relationship is that couples never argue. For many men who have had this idea since childhood, it is often easier to leave. But when the dust settles and he starts to miss you, he starts to wonder if he's made the right decision.

    It is this confusion that prompts him to quietly come back to your life. If that's the case, it's unlikely that he wants to hurt you, and it's more likely that he really doesn't know what to do.

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  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Summary. Hello, dear, a man who turns back after a breakup often turns back because he realizes our kindness to him after losing us, or that he is frustrated by other people, so he comes back to us for comfort and emotional sustenance.

    What is it about men who turn back after a breakup.

    Hello, dear, a man who turns back after a breakup often turns back because he realizes our kindness to him after losing us, or that he is frustrated by other people, so he comes back to us for comfort and emotional sustenance.

    What is your situation with the other person now?

    He met a woman in Douyin, and then he broke up with me, and now he is back with me, what's going on.

    It shows that he finally recognized the woman in Douyin, and he only saw the side of that woman, and even the appearance was fake, and after finding out that the other party was not what he really liked, he found out that we were good and came back to you.

    Do you think that woman is pretty,。。

    You send it and I'll take a look.

    I don't have her**.

    If it's a guess.

    There are no ugly people in Tik Tok.

    You can beautify it, add a filter, and it will look good no matter how ugly it is.

    In fact, real people shouldn't be easy to see** go. Well. All right.

    So my boyfriend turned back, right?

    Well, I don't rule out the reason for this, how are you and your boyfriend now?

    In fact, sometimes men are really superficial, and when they see a beautiful woman, even if they haven't seen it on the Internet, they may say that they like other people, love people, break up with you here, and hook up with others there.

    Only when I really get to know people in the follow-up can I find that compared to us, those women are too much worse, and when there is a gap between what is imagined and real, he will definitely not be able to accept the women in Douyin, so he will come back to us after breaking up.

    How are you and your boyfriend now?

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    <> "What will men turn back after a breakup is as follows.

    1. When he feels that he has really lost you, at this time, they may recall all kinds of good times with women, so they begin to feel nostalgic and regretful.

    2. When encountering the same scene, when a man feels that he misses her, whether it is a woman's voice, smile or some other details, it will make the man feel down.

    3. After calming down, he felt that he had missed it, and when he calmed down and looked at this matter, he saw that you were a good woman, and he felt that he might never meet such a good woman as you in the future.

    4. When he thinks that you are worth even more than his own value, at this time men will want to turn back, people like to be positive, and at this time, your current excellence is just when he is unattainable.

    5. When he has been single for a long time and has not met a better woman, and after the breakup, he has not found a better person than a woman, and he will realize the importance of a woman to himself.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    The ruthlessness of boys is forced out by your entanglement, as long as you have loved, the emotions will be repeated.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    No, since they are all ruthlessly proposed, it means that there is no emotion at all, and boys always like the new and hate the old, once they have a new love, they can still remember the old love, once the boy proposes to break up, most of them are very serious and serious.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Men usually have two kinds of psychology after breaking up.

    One is that the breakup is a relief, and if the guy thinks like this, it is usually a problem with the way the two parties get along in the course of their relationship. Boys feel tired, mostly because they can't get the corresponding emotional value in the relationship between the sexes, the two lack of communication and mutual understanding, and the long-term accumulation of conflicts cannot be resolved, which finally leads to a breakup.

    The other psychology is that after the breakup, I still have a crush on you. The boy after the breakup, in fact, to a certain extent, still loves you in his heart, but the "haze" of reality prevents him from seeing the bright future of the two, so that the boyfriend finally makes the decision that makes each other painful. Grasp the mentality of boys and properly awaken the good memories of the two, and you have a great chance of successfully winning back your boyfriend.

    If the guy still loves you after breaking up, he just thinks that he can't give you happiness so he chooses to separate. At this time, you should give him confidence, encourage him, and tell him that you still love him, then he will consider returning to you.

    If you broke up because you weren't getting along, learn to restrain your willfulness and focus on his real needs. When he senses that you are indeed slowly changing his shortcomings, he may turn around and try to get back together with you.

    There is also a situation where a guy looks back after a breakup, that is, after he breaks up, he finds that he can't adapt to life without you, he is used to being dependent on you, and if you are still infatuated with him, he is likely to choose to turn back.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    In general, there will be a back.

    Reason 1: Dumped. And then see that you are still there, then come back and eat some Huitou grass.

    Reason 2: You have become better and more attractive, and he is attracted to you again, and he regrets it.

    If you don't love, you don't love. No matter how painful it is, you have to clean it up and turn around.

    What's the use of tangling? What can you do when you turn back?

    I'm not going to accept a man's turnaround.

    But some people will. Individuals have different personalities.

    What if you don't have love, you can be fine by yourself. You have to firmly believe in the existence of love, and firmly believe that there will be a man who loves me with all his heart. But the world is so big, you can't necessarily find him.

    However, until then, no matter what kind of man you meet, you must love yourself well.

    And, there's another reason why maybe something happened and he doesn't want to delay you? (It's a bit like a story, but the story is like life.) It doesn't matter what the reason is, whether you don't care or don't love, as a woman in the new era, you must know that you are the most important thing

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