How many reasons are there for men to be reluctant to break up?

Either he still likes you, or he hasn't found a replacement yet; And a man is still relatively moderate at the age of 28.

I think you can still get to know other men... As for ambiguous text messages, I don't think it's so fancy, after all, whether it's a man or a woman, there will be friends of the opposite sex, and you're too nervous, it will only make both of you miserable.

I just came into contact with the doll, and after seeing the problem of PU, I suddenly felt that my PU might be quite high, and now the problem is that I am in a different place with my boyfriend, and it has been almost a year and a half, my family is in Tianjin but works in Beijing, and he works in Tianjin.

I also want to go home to work but now is a critical period in my career, it's a pity to come back now, he's in a bad mood lately, always cold to me, and when he quarrels, he said that it's a long-distance problem that has consumed his love, but he doesn't mention breaking up, and we've reached the point where we're talking about marriage, I don't know what to do now.

Why don't men take the initiative to break up?

Why don't men take the initiative to break up?

Wawa:

Boys generally don't take the initiative to break up.

Why don't men take the initiative to break up?

Breaking up is almost no good for a boy, it is a disadvantage, he has to carry the infamy on his back, and he may not be able to find other suitable candidates to be a girlfriend for a while, so when a boy wants to end a relationship, he will generally choose to drag the girl, and force the girl to break up by being cold to him and greatly reducing the concentration of feelings, so that he can be exempted from responsibility. Even if he didn't get a share for the time being, he didn't suffer much loss.

Why don't men take the initiative to break up?

Your youth is much more expensive than his gold, and you don't mention breaking up, why should he mention it? It's like two people working together in business, you invest 75%, he invests 25%, you don't have to worry about losses, why should he be in a hurry?

Your boyfriend's intention to break up is already obvious, just waiting for you to announce the end of the relationship, and I suggest that you don't spend any more time with him.

Why don't men take the initiative to break up?

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1. After proposing to break up, he struggled to keep it

You may think it is strange that he is the one who proposed to break up, but he is also the person who struggled to keep after separation. Since you have proposed to break up, why do you want to keep it? In fact, this shows that the man doesn't really want to break up with you, he proposed to break up maybe on the spur of the moment, calm down and find that he did something wrong, so he turned back to you to get back together.

A man who doesn't want to really break up must be reluctant to miss you, after the breakup, he will put down his face and beg you to stay by his side, a man can put down his face for you and take the initiative to keep you, it proves that he really loves you, because he loves you, so he is not willing to miss you like this!

2. Tears of sadness were left when they broke up

Men generally don't shed tears easily, and what can make men cry must be the people and things he cares about very much. He shed tears at the moment of breakup because he didn't want to lose you, and he didn't want to lose this relationship, because these are the people and things he cares about the most in his heart. There is no way to disguise the emotion in the eyes, and the tears that a man sheds for you when he breaks up proves that he doesn't want to really break up, and only gives up this relationship because of helplessness in reality.

3. Be able to forgive your mistakes after a breakup

If you love someone, you shouldn't care too much, and if a man can forgive you for all your mistakes after a breakup, it means that he doesn't really want to break up. Even if you do something sorry for him, feel guilty and want to part with him, he will not hesitate to forgive you. He loves you so much that he won't let go of your hand easily, and without you by his side, he will feel that life is completely out of pleasure.

So, the man who loves you will forgive you for your mistakes, indicating that he doesn't want to really break up, and he wants to be back with you.

One: I still care about you.

If you have broken up nominally, but after the breakup, the man still cares about you very much and will always find some reason to show that he cares about you. Although the tone sometimes seems indifferent, in fact, I still don't want to break up with you in my heart, because the man's self-esteem is at fault, so I must distinguish it clearly.

Two: Still by your side.

If two people break up, the man still stays by your side with a dead face, always following you silently behind him, at this time it actually shows that his feelings for you are very deep, although on the surface he says more ruthlessly, but from the heart he still cares about you. If a man just talks about breaking up with you, but does not take substantive action, he will still be with you, and then you will treat his words as floating clouds.

Three: Inquire about your news.

When two people break up, it doesn't mean that they don't love each other, they may just be separated because of some kind of misunderstanding. A man who doesn't want to break up with you, after you say that he broke up, he won't cut off contact with you, even if he is afraid that you hate him, he can't control his desire to know your news and know everything about you.

When he is afraid that you hate him, he will definitely not appear in front of you, nor will he send a message to ask about your current situation, women don't think that this is the case, he can't grasp your information, don't forget, you still have friends, he doesn't dare to contact you, your friends he will definitely contact, know your news from your friends, he is always watching you and worrying about you.

When a man can't let go of you and doesn't want to break up, he will inquire about you and want to know if you're doing well.

The performance of not wanting to break up is that he will still spoil you, love you for your sake, do something you like to do, accompany you to watch some dramas you like to watch and some meals you like to eat, this is a manifestation of not wanting to break up, and the others are also in love with you, as long as he still loves you, he will not think about breaking up.

If you don't want to really break up, you will generally have the following performances, first, you will speak yin and yang weirdly, and you will not talk well, second, you will often look at your circle of friends and space, and third, you will often dangle in front of you to attract your attention.

He will still pay attention to your circle of friends and will also browse your social network. It is also possible to ask your mutual friend about your own status and hope that you can talk to him, which is the expression that he does not want to really break up.

Less contact with you. In the early days of the relationship, he would send you n messages every day, and he would talk to you until the early hours of the morning every night, and the relationship between the two was like honey. But when he doesn't love you, he will slowly reduce his contact with you.

From one per day to one for two or three days, and even no longer actively contact you.

If a man really doesn't want to break up with you, and cares about you very much, he will take the initiative to contact you, sincerely apologize to you, save the relationship, no matter how angry you are, he will tolerate you, if the boy can't do this, it means that he doesn't love you anymore and wants to give up the relationship completely.

He will try to get your attention every day, make you not want to break up with him, he will buy you gifts and give you something to eat, etc., and besides, he will talk to you, everyone is very gentle.

The performance of a man who does not want to really break up, for example, that the man still cares about you all the time, cares about you, wants to be with you, etc., etc., is a manifestation of not wanting to break up.

Their performance is often that they will not be silent about all kinds of things you say, and they are very dependent on your eyes, and they basically don't talk back to your kind of scolding or hands.

When a man doesn't want to break up, he just waits to talk to you about his daily life. It's okay, I want to talk to you. I want to hang out with you, I want to eat with you, these are all signs that I don't want to break up.

I think a man, if he really doesn't want to break up, that is, no matter what you say about breaking up, he will say that he disagrees with him or is more cold to you.

If you talk to someone and then there are some problems in the relationship, it is possible to break up, but if the man is unwilling to break up, it is possible that he really likes you, or that he does not want the relationship to end like this.

The man will be very reluctant if he doesn't want to really break up, and he feels that this relationship can still be saved through the efforts of two people.

As long as a man doesn't want to break up with you, he will definitely not agree to your proposal to break up, or if you say something about your breakup, this man will not want to agree, and he will not respond to your request to break up at all. As long as a boy has this kind of performance, it means that this boy still loves you and just doesn't want to break up.

He will be nice to you, better than usual.

He will do what you like.

He will buy what you like.

He'll do what you want but haven't done yet.

He'll buy what you want but don't buy.

He will give everything for you.

If a man doesn't want to break up with you. Then he will change himself. Then I got rid of all the bad habits in myself. And it's going to get better and better for you.

He will be good to you, and will say on the surface that you are leaving, it is a big deal to break up, but this will not be the case in action, he will take the initiative to keep you when you are gone, and will apologize to you.

What will be the performance of a man who doesn't love you and doesn't want to break up with you? The love between two people is beautiful, and there is only each other in each other's eyes. I am not afraid of any problems encountered in life.

Because that person is always by your side and with you. Love is beautiful, but such a beautiful thing has never existed. I said that there is no one who loves you in my life.

The performance of a man who does not want to really break up is as follows:

1. I'll always talk to you.

After a breakup, if a man is dead set on a woman and doesn't love her, then he won't bother the woman and won't say a word of nonsense. In a relationship, if a man always wants to chat with you, for example, he will shush you and ask for warmth, no matter whether you reply or not, he will continue to talk to you. After the breakup, the man has this performance, which means that he has not forgotten you and wants to get back together with you, don't know.

2. He will give you gifts.

After the breakup, if it is Valentine's Day, Tanabata, or birthday, the man will give you the gift you like without saying a word. In fact, men have not forgotten you, and they are just good to you in this way.

Breaking up, maybe it's two people impulsively, maybe one person doesn't love each other, but the man has this performance because he really wants to get back together with you. If you accept his gift and still love him, consider getting back together, and if you don't love him, it's best not to even accept the gift.

3. He always inquires about your dynamics.

After the breakup, if a man contacts you through QQ and WeChat, or asks you through a friend, it means that he loves you deeply. If a man is always willing to inquire about your dynamics, he wants to know all the circumstances after your breakup, which means that he has not let go of you, he just wants to get back together with you.

Because, if a man lets you go and never wants to see you again, he will never pay attention to your movements, and maybe he will choose to ignore you when he meets you on the road.

4. He will hint at waiting for you.

After a breakup, if a man finds a new girlfriend in a short period of time, then he basically hasn't loved you. When you have loved a woman deeply, even if you break up, you will be sad and will not invest in another relationship in the short term.

After the breakup, if the man is not looking for a girlfriend, tell his friends, or post on Moments.

All mean that they have not forgotten you and have been waiting for you. Such a man is very infatuated, he is just waiting to get back together with you, don't understand.

Men don't want to break up, but they also need a woman's attitude. Deliberately let people who see chatting with other girls and don't want to break up with them, if there is a cat between them, they will not let them see the mobile phone, but because of the man's face and dignity, the man does not want to break up, but will be glad to be able to rely on him and vent his inner state of mind. Still around.

There is a saying that men are not bad and women are not loved, but there are usually signs. People who want to break up with each other can't wait to find clues right away. Wasting time and energy, such a breakup is obviously not the real purpose of a man.

Taking things as your own business is a sign of reluctance to break up right away. Protecting one's rights and interests and venting one's inner state of mind are all manifestations of not wanting to break up. If a man does not love, once the man makes up his mind and breaks up, he can understand the pain.

Men who don't want to break up with themselves will be especially nervous and may be hated deeply. Men who don't want to really break up must not want to miss it. Men who don't want to really break up are super accurate, and they will control their bad temper properly.

After seeing the performance of a man who doesn't want to really break up, he will remain ambiguous. The performance of mentioning that the man does not want to really break up has slowly dissipated.

The three behaviors that men don't want to break up are all because they have been with each other for too long.

The behaviors of men who don't want to really break up are as follows: often picking bones in the egg, and the behaviors of men who don't want to really break up include, some men don't want to really break up, don't spend their youth, and sincerely admit their mistakes to women.

It is true that a man proposes to break up, and there is nothing fake, so as long as a man proposes to break up, he should give up.