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In life, we will also encounter such a situation, that is, we are deeply in love with someone, maybe the other party will be with us for various reasons, but only lack of sincerity. Many people will feel very sad and sad in the face of such a situation, in my opinion, if it is a beloved who is reluctant to be with him, he can consider the following aspects
1. Strengthen the daily life of getting along is the so-called long-term love, many times two people in the process of getting along in daily life, slowly will have feelings, since the other party has promised to be with themselves, then it means that it is not necessarily a little feeling, it may be because of some things or reasons to make themselves very reluctant. Therefore, in the daily life of two people, they should learn to really give each other respect and love, and slowly let him realize his love for him, and naturally he can really do it, open his heart, and try to accept his love. Don't be in a hurry in this process, learn to really let the other party feel your love, if you are very impatient, blindly ask the other party, blindly give the other party pressure, then it will be counterproductive.
2. Good communication. If the other party has been in a very cold attitude in daily life, then the best way is to strengthen good communication, only communication between two people can really know what the other party thinks. Learn to communicate with the other party, and slowly and naturally you will be able to gain the trust of the other party, and the other party will be able to really open up and tell their thoughts.
Perhaps in this process, there will be changes between each other slowly, and there will be new turnarounds. <>
3. Let go generously. For a person who does not love himself, there is no need to live with him reluctantly, not only irresponsible to himself, but also irresponsible to the other party. Many times we think that if we miss such a person in our lives, we will never find someone who loves us more, but in real life, it may be because of such a person that we delay ourselves and find a more suitable person for ourselves.
So if the other party doesn't love you, then learn to let go generously, but you can leave a good impression on the other party. <>
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I will choose to give up, reluctant love is not what I want, and even if I get it, I will not be happy.
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I'd rather not have this kind of love, no matter how much I love him, I don't want to be with him so reluctantly, because then he won't feel happy himself, and he won't feel happy.
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I will forget about this matter, there is no absolute reluctance in this world, after a long time, you will find the advantages of the other party, I want to love myself well at the same time, to warm him.
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I'm going to break up, and if he does, sooner or later he'll leave him too, so it's better to leave as soon as possible.
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I might choose to let it go, because I feel that this kind of love is actually a kind of charity, and it is not what I want at all.
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I may choose to part peacefully with each other, I don't want this kind of charity love, I want real mutual affection.
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I may be very disappointed, and I will choose to separate from each other completely, and I will only silently bless each other from afar.
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I might pretend I don't know, because I really want to get the other person, even if the other person is just barely with me.
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Then I will let go, because I feel that it would be irresponsible for me to force him to stay with me.
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I think I'm going to manage my relationship with him for a while, and if he doesn't have feelings for me, then I'll give up.
It will hurt her heart, but it will also bless her.
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