Can you accept your idol s open romance and why?

It's acceptable, I think it's okay to fall in love, the woman's character is good, it's completely OK, I'm afraid of being blind, and finding a bad girlfriend will affect my perception of him.

I can't accept it, I've always insisted on my idol, I will take off my fans when I fall in love, there is nothing to say, depending on who the woman is and whether his own attitude is good or not, decide whether to step back.

Yes, it's a good thing that he's in a relationship, and unless he does something unreasonable, I can't get out of my meal for any other reason.

What does he have to do with me when he falls in love, of course it's a blessing, anyway, I don't feel affected by anything, and I can fully accept my idol's public relationship.

I can accept that if idols meet a little girl with a good face, a solid family, excellent upbringing, a lovely personality and a genuine liking for him, then I will bless them.

It's acceptable to fall in love after the age of 35 and get married publicly, and even if it's an actress, it depends on whether it's what I like, if it's not like to be an amateur.

If you can accept it, I will sincerely bless it! (No matter who the woman is, I will wish him happiness), this is his feelings, I won't mind anything.

To be honest, it is normal to be generous and public, and you may lose some of your girlfriend's fans, but at least it is less than your ex-girlfriend's fans who come to Weibo to hammer off; You can talk about it, talk about it openly, it's voluntary for fans to take off their fans or not, but don't talk about it secretly. If it is made public, depowdering is a psychological problem, and it is still very likely to come back or stay. But it was revealed and denied, that is a moral issue, and it will never come back after taking off the powder.

Many male idol fans know that idols are secretly talking, but they don't make official announcements; It's just a dew relationship, a normal need. This kind of ostrich mentality, in fact, I don't want idols to talk about it publicly. In fact, I think idols can also fall in love, but the current idols are not respectful in terms of business ability, which leads to the fact that they can only sell boyfriend power horns to attract fans and consolidate fans, just like who would not let Jay Chou fall in love.

idols have the right to fall in love, and fans have the right to choose not to support idols who are in love; To put it bluntly, this is the difference between treating artists as "people" and "commodities", on the surface, they feel sorry for fans, but in fact they are worried about losing commercial value.

It's okay, but you can't feel that you should enjoy the rights of ordinary people when you are in love, and at the same time, you can easily earn money that ordinary people can't earn in a few lifetimes just by relying on your face and three-legged cat kung fu; It is also the freedom of fans to take off their fans or not, so I still think that it is a personal choice to watch artists, anyway, I still think artists can be talked about, everyone has seven emotions and six desires, and they all have a yearning for love when they are young, but don't be too young, not if you are underage.

Everyone has the freedom to fall in love, but don't set up your entire public lover, make money by confusing everyone, you must have someone to catch the spicy eye when you fall in love, you rely on your real skills to win everyone's love, you are sensitive to fall in love, get married and have children, everyone likes it, I hope you are happy, that's all. Whether it is public or not to fall in love is a personal choice, some people choose to announce their relationship because they feel that it doesn't matter, so it will be transmitted to the next personal emotional state, and to put it bluntly, it is no different from telling others what to eat today; Similarly, some people choose not to disclose because they feel that their personal privacy does not need to be explained to anyone, both of which are true, but they are two different choices caused by personality problems and acting styles, the most important thing is the fan's own mentality.

I think it's perfectly okay for two people to fall in love and choose not to make it public when they first get together, but after being together for a long time and the relationship is stable, both parties should be honest and open about their interpersonal and social circles, and they also need to be formally introduced to their relatives and friends on the right occasions.

Falling in love is not an unsightly thing, there is nothing that cannot be said, you must laugh and fall in love openly and honestly.

Do you want to make it public in the circle of friends when you fall in love Do you have to post it on the circle of friends if you get off the list?

This is a sign of respect and trust for each other, which can effectively reduce misunderstandings and conflicts, and better promote the long-term and healthy development of a relationship.

The kind of people who have been together for a long time and are unwilling to make their relationship public, unwilling to post things related to their love partners to social software, and who have always been single in the social circle, and who are unwilling to introduce the object to their relatives and friends, unless there is any special legitimate reason and the object is clearly explained, or both parties are unwilling to make it public, most of them have ghosts in their hearts.

Either he is a sea king who steps on multiple boats, casts nets everywhere, and shows mercy everywhere, afraid that his secrets will be revealed after they are made public; Either it's a scumbag who doesn't actually like the current love object, and uses the current object as a spare tire, while being with the current object, while riding a donkey to find a horse, looking for a better one, and when you meet a better one, you will immediately kick the current object away.

Do you have to post it on Moments if you get off the list?

It is not necessary to rush to make it public and introduce it to relatives and friends on the first day of determining the relationship, and it is not necessary for one of the parties to make a unilateral official announcement without consulting with the other party and obtaining the consent of the other party, so as not to cause unnecessary trouble to the other party; Not to mention that one of the parties has not clearly agreed to confirm the relationship, and one of the parties makes a unilateral official announcement on his own initiative.

Because love needs a certain run-in period, it is easy to find that each other is not suitable and break up as soon as the sweet period passes, you can get along for a period of time to see, run in with each other to adapt, and wait for this relationship to be stable, after the two parties discuss and reach an agreement, then make it public, so as to avoid unnecessary embarrassment.

There are only two possibilities for lovers not to make their relationship public.

Do you want to make it public in the circle of friends when you fall in love Do you have to post it on the circle of friends if you get off the list?

The first is that he doesn't love you, and he doesn't disclose it because he has too many fish, and he has to leave a way back for himself. Second, he thinks that you can't take it, and making it public is equivalent to dishonoring his person.

And I'll be honest, in this society, the standards required of men and women are really not fair. Think about it, if a guy says he talks a lot of girlfriends, they will be said to be good, so powerful, so attractive, but what if it's a girl? Many people will want to say, oops, are you too casual Then again, celebrities basically make their relationships public now, right?

Unless it's an idol and it's not allowed to fall in love, what? You are an ordinary person, how many pairs of eyes are staring at you and not letting you fall in love?

I think that falling in love needs to be open in the circle of friends. In addition to chatting and payment, another important reason for the popularity of WeChat is the function of the circle of friends, and now young people like to post all kinds of news in the circle of friends. Of course, if you have a significant other, your daily dynamic will have an extra show of affection.

But not all young people like to show affection in the circle of friends. Some netizens said that their other half doesn't like to post a photo of themselves in the circle of friends, and they don't like to post the sweet daily life of the two people, if that's the case, would you mind?

One, I think that falling in love needs to be open in the circle of friends.

I think that whether or not you need to show affection in the circle of friends is a question that has no standard answer, and can only vary from person to person. So personally, I think that falling in love should be open in the circle of friends. If you don't have the function of turning on the circle of friends, then forget it, if you also post daily updates in the circle of friends from time to time, but there has never been a figure of the other half in the dynamics, then what do you mean?

Do you dislike each other or do you feel that the other party can't get on the stage? Besides, it is a very sweet thing for two people to fall in love, and I think it is necessary to record sweet things.

Second, if my other half is not public, I will mind very much.

My partner and I have been together for three years, and on the day we got together, we posted on Moments, officially announcing this sweet moment. If we have confirmed our relationship, but my partner is not in the circle of friends at this time, and does not tell my relatives and friends around me, I think I will mind very much, because I think this is no different from an underground relationship, and besides, we are together consensually, why can't we make it public? Why can't I receive blessings from friends and family?

Third, I think that making his presence public is a sign of giving the other person a sense of security.

To sum up, I still think that falling in love should be posted in the circle of friends. First of all, falling in love is an upright thing, and there is no need to hide it. Secondly, I think happy and sweet things need to be shared, and even more so need to be recorded.

Finally, I think that openness is based on the other person's affirmative performance, which shows that you have accepted him from the heart. If the other party is an extremely insecure person, he will think that you never show the sweetness of the two of you in the circle of friends. Don't publish his photos in the circle of friends, which will make him think more and feel that you are not serious about your relationship.

It seems to be just playing, and it doesn't take a long-term perspective. If the other party does not have a strong request, you can reduce the number of sharing, but if the other party has a strong request, you must empathize and consider the other party's thoughts, and you can't affect your relationship because of the show of affection in the circle of friends.