What is it like to have a girlfriend who is better than you in every way?

The vast majority of men are better than themselves in all aspects of their ability to meet a girlfriend, which is a very uncomfortable thing. In today's society, everyone is accustomed to the model of strong men and weak women, if women are strong and men are weak, then this man has to bear the criticism of many people, and his girlfriend's emotional intelligence is particularly high, he knows how to give his boyfriend steps, and is not domineering, otherwise the final result can only be a breakup. Here's why:

1. The model of strong women and weak men, boyfriends are easy to be said to eat soft rice. In today's society, where women are strong and men are weak, the psychological quality of men.

The requirements are very high. There is no strong mental capacity.

You won't be able to stand the gossip of others. Especially when men get together, they will laugh at this kind of man. The man was sneered at outside, and he would definitely get in trouble with his girlfriend when he came home.

Second, the girlfriend is strong in all aspects, and the boyfriend is prone to low self-esteem. Men face girlfriends who are better than themselves in all aspects every day, and it is easy for them to become inferior and feel that they are inferior to their girlfriends in everything. After a long time, my heart will become very uncomfortable.

If your girlfriend's emotional intelligence is not high, and her boyfriend often feels faceless by talking and doing things, the relationship will easily come to an end.

3. Many men like their girlfriends to be weaker than themselves. People have their own emotional needs. Men like to be needed and relied on a lot of the time.

If the girlfriend is better than himself in everything, the man will feel that his girlfriend does not need him. If the girlfriend doesn't know how to show weakness, it will make the man feel that he is not needed, and this huge difference will make the boyfriend feel unbalanced.

Therefore, when the girlfriend's abilities are stronger than their own in all aspects, the boyfriend will break up many times. Because of the huge difference, the two people will drift apart unconsciously. Those models of strong women and weak men can get along for a long time, and there must be one party who is very strong in heart and has high emotional intelligence.

People say that if a relationship can't be evenly matched, it will not be able to get along soon.

Many times I feel inferior, but from another point of view, such an excellent girl is willing to be her girlfriend, which shows that she also has a strong charm.

My girlfriend's ability is stronger than herself in all aspects, which can really put a lot of pressure on me, and sometimes I feel particularly inferior.

You will feel very happy, having such a girlfriend means that you have a very good vision, and you can attract each other if you are very attractive.

I think it's a very frustrating and unhappy experience, because the gap with my girlfriend is too big, and it's a little unwilling.

will feel that he is very useless, he can't compare to his girlfriend in anything, and he is eager to improve himself and save face.

I feel like I'm nothing, I hate myself very much, but I can't seem to change anything, it's very contradictory and tangled.

I will feel very lucky, it is my blessing to be able to find such a girlfriend, and I will cherish it.

will feel that I am very useless, I have low self-esteem, and I hope that I can make up for my girlfriend by doing other things.

Let's go hiking together!

There are many kinds of life in the world, and everyone has a different personality. Most people don't want their girlfriends to be stronger than themselves, and they have a big husband in their hearts. But there are also people who want their girlfriends to be strong and are happy to eat soft rice.

Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them.

When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest when ......Or because he loves you.

There is no reason to like someone, and there is no regret to give.

They all think it's worth it, as long as they can be with the people they love.

In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you. I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you.

If you find someone like this around you, please cherish .......

Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful. The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover always understands you best.

In this world, everyone has someone they want to find, and once they miss it, they won't come back.

If you fall in love, don't give up easily. It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life. A life that has experienced love is beautiful, and love that cannot stand the test is not profound.

Beautiful love enriches life, and love that has passed the test is perfect.

I sincerely wish you to find true love.

Have a nice day! Thank you o(o

I think there are still a lot of people like this. Isn't it common for a girlfriend or wife to be better than you? Now it is not a primitive society, it requires physical strength to hunt, and many women are really powerful now.

Basically nothing is wrong with you.

A woman with strong work ability.

Sex generally gives men a sense of urgency, and some men may even feel a little oppressive. A man has such a capable girlfriend, I think to a certain extent, it is a pros and cons.

People with strong work ability are generally more self-motivated, proactive, and full of positive energy. Getting along with such people in life will make people discover their own shortcomings, so that they can learn to find their own problems and find solutions. If you have a girlfriend who is very capable of working, you will feel that you have to work harder to catch up with or even surpass each other.

Because our country is a country where machismo is prevalent, this ethos has a very long history. If a man feels that his ability cannot catch up with his girlfriend, he will become more proactive because of this love, and in order not to lose such an excellent girlfriend, he will improve his ability through various ways to make himself better. Only through continuous efforts to improve oneself can one give oneself a sense of security.

If you really love each other, you will be very afraid of losing, especially when you are facing a girlfriend who is more capable than you, you especially want to prove yourself to the other person, prove that you have the ability to give the other person enough security. A woman, no matter how good she is at work, is still looking for a sense of security, and it comes from her boyfriend or husband. This is a positive response to a girlfriend who is very capable of work, and it is also a relatively effective approach.

Of course, there is also a situation of breaking the jar and breaking, most of these people are not loving enough, and will eventually choose to break up with the excuse that the woman is too strong. They always feel that their girlfriend has to follow them in everything, but a person with strong ability must have his own ideas, and his views on some issues are also more profound and thorough, which will disagree with his boyfriend on some issues, and those who are extremely macho will definitely not be able to stand it, and after a long time, they will break up if they feel that they can't stand it.

In fact, I think that since two people choose to be together, they can't just think about how to play and how to consume, but also learn to learn from each other's strengths and weaknesses and make progress with each other. Two people should work together to help each other, instead of the capable party blindly looking down on and blaming the other party, in this way, two people are already in a state of inequality, so that after getting along for a long time, both people will be very tired, and it will also consume the good feeling for each other.

Therefore, I advise all young friends to think about the good in everything, and the right amount of pressure is easy to make people progress. When two people are together, while they are young, work harder, which is a kind of exercise for themselves, and can also better test the feelings of two people, and the feelings that can stand the test are worth looking forward to.

There's nothing wrong with that. If you don't think it's good, does she think it's good? She doesn't care about her abilities, what do you care about?

Since she is willing to be your girlfriend, you can be her boyfriend. Those who think that men must be stronger than women are actually machismo, and they are all incorrect. True love.

As long as both parties love each other, it is the best result, and there is no need to care who is better at work than whom.

Some authoritative books do not say that the man and the woman must be more capable than the other when it comes to love. Although the books are just theories, even in real life, I think you just feel a little uneasy, and you can't think of anything bad in the end. Of course, pay attention, if she relies on her own ability to be stronger than you, and she is pointing fingers at you, calling back and forth, then it will not work.

People still have to be dignified.

If it were me, I would feel proud and proud of her, and I would work hard!

That's probably thinking that you can be a little inadequate, and not as big as his.