Why do students who were naughty and mischievous when they were young, and who did not get good grad

Have you ever found that classmates and friends who were naughty and had bad grades when they were naughty when they were children often developed better, why is that?

Actually, I don't think that's the case, it's just a psychological hint you give yourself.

For example, if you have a top student, your grades have been very good, and you finally went to Tsinghua University and Peking University, you just think that this is a logical result, because it is within your psychological expectations. However, if he does not develop well in the future, or even embarks on a road of no return,—— such as Wu Xie Yu's murder of his mother, this will be an unexpected result, which will impress you.

And the naughty child with bad grades, generally speaking, everyone will think that this child will be ruined in the future, but he works a little harder, or he encounters some kind of opportunity, and even meets a nobleman, hits a backer, and mixes very well, you even feel that this is an unfair fate, which will also give you a deep impression, "How can he be like this?" ”

A few days ago, when I went to the child's class for a parent-teacher meeting, the head teacher said an example, she said that there was a child who was inconspicuous in elementary school, but when he arrived in middle school, he was a blockbuster, "This is too surprising." This is the effect of the psychological gap.

Actually,If you are proportionally speaking, most of the children with good grades are the ones who have developed relatively well, but the ones you are impressed by are the ones with good grades and poor development.

Most of the bad grades are also mediocre, but what you remember is the child who "soared into the sky".

And the children with good grades and poor grades that meet your psychological expectations are naturally ignored by you.

So, to put it bluntly, it's a matter of probability. One out of ten good students is on a bad trip, ten of the bad students are on a good one, and in the end, we tend to focus on the tenth (or even one percent.)

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Besides, whether the grades are good or not is not the only factor that determines the future direction, people who have taken shit luck, there are always one or two in their social circle, and there are always one or two, "with their own efforts, they finally inherited the inheritance", these are actually not related to the grades.

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Because the students who were naughty and mischievous when they were young, and their grades were not all spent on studying, but developed in an all-round way, they often developed better in the future.

Because these children are more active and braver, because they often fight with people, and such children are born in society relatively early, very rich in experience, such children often make mistakes, more understand love and hatred, and although this kind of child is not good at learning, but his emotional intelligence is very high, as long as he sees an opportunity in society, he will immediately be able to seize the opportunity, so that he can have a good development.

Because the brain is more flexible, there is no dead study, there are more people to see the world, and there are more people to meet, so the development will be good.

A student with poor grades and mischievous mischief does not mean that he has a low IQ, but his talent is not used in learning. This type of person is often ambitious and has a strong ability to resist blows, so the development will be better

Because such children are smarter and not only limited to learning, they will be better in interpersonal relationships and more active in thinking, which will play a decisive role in future development.

Because these students are relatively intelligent, they don't put their energy and mind into studying, and when they take something seriously in the future, they will often be easy to succeed.

The reason why they can develop well has a lot to do with their ability to seize the opportunity or take it seriously, many times a child is particularly naughty, indicating that their thinking is relatively agile.

The main reason is that naughty mischievous people will not stick to the rules, and traditional education is to obey commands, abide by discipline, and implement them one by one. Naughty ghosts who don't abide by the rules, like to fight without constraints, they have no rules in their hearts, they are not afraid to explore new things, and they are bound to develop much better than those who follow the rules.

Students who mischievous when they were young, their thinking is more active, their personalities are more cheerful, they are more able to behave in the world, they are not nervous about doing things, and they can see everything, so they develop better.

What happened to those students who didn't confront the teacher and argued with the teacher? I think there are a few possible scenarios.

1. Misguided and regretted for a lifetime.

Some children are too naughty and do things without thinking about the consequences, which has reached the level of "uneducated". Even if he has entered middle school, he should be sensible, he still loves to fight with people if he is unlucky, this kind of child is most likely to go astray, if your child is like this, you must discipline it well.

2. Develop your own strengths and make a difference.

In fact, those naughty and mischievous children have many advantages, such as being enthusiastic and cheerful, not afraid of life, always looking full of energy, and the little head is very fast, and there are always new ideas coming out. Naughty children may be a headache for parents and teachers when they are young, but as long as they know how to make good use of these strengths after entering society, they will often not be bad. However, parents should also properly guide and discipline, and there is a bottom line for being naughty, but don't let your child be scolded for being "uneducated".

3. Collect your heart and become steady.

Some children were very naughty when they were young, breaking the glass of the Li family today, and breaking the things of the Zhang family tomorrow, in short, everyone shook their heads when they saw it, which made people very uncomfortable. But maybe after entering high school, these naughty children when they were young suddenly became gentle, put away their playfulness and study hard, and many of them were admitted to good universities after studying hard.

It is impossible to judge the character of others when you are a student, but the psychology of a student can affect a person's life.

When I reach the age of going to school, I should be the age to study hard, and I always think about how to play, which is very worrying for parents and teachers. So, what happened to those students who contradicted the teacher and argued with the teacher when they were desperate students?

1. A small hail source heart has embarked on a crooked path and gone astray.

However, there is also a category of children who belong to the scope of "bears" and "bastards", and are not just mischievous, but naughty and mischievous often reach a level of "uneducated".

This type of child is the most likely to go down the wrong path and go astray.

2. Seize the opportunity to develop yourself and achieve enviable achievements.

Most of the children who were naughty and mischievous when they were children belong to the type that is particularly energetic and has a more flexible heart.

These children may be a headache for their parents and teachers when they are young, but their advantages will gradually be revealed after they really enter the society.

This type of person has a more active mind, is more feasty, and is more likely to seize the opportunity to develop himself, and then achieve enviable achievements.

Therefore, children are naughty when they are young, as long as they do not reach the point of "bear" and "mix", parents should do more to guide rather than manage, let the child's character develop freely, and there may be surprises when they grow up.

3. Grow up sensible and pay attention to your heart, and live a down-to-earth life.

In fact, there are many children who are energetic and always naughty when they are young, and even bullied other classmates, but as they grow older, they gradually become sensible and begin to pay attention.

Study diligently, work steadfastly, and live seriously, not to mention how much you have achieved, but you live by your own ability, and you live a fulfilling life every day.

This made Qi Qiqi, a parent and teacher who was worried that he would grow crooked when he was a child, breathed a sigh of relief.

What will happen to naughty children when they grow up, the answer is really surprising, not being good when they are young does not mean that they will not get better when they grow up, nor does it mean that they will not have the ability when they grow up.