I love a guy for 8 years and now he has a girlfriend, please help me!!

First of all, a woman must know how to respect and love herself. Since they have a girlfriend and are getting married, you should still want to seduce them. It's understandable how you want him to remember you.

But since he went on a trip with you, it means that he also has a heart for you. 19 to 27 years old, occupy such a long time, he will remember you, and always remember. But he must love his girlfriend, and if you don't want to interest him, he is afraid that he will be shaken.

If you really love him, why do you want to embarrass him? If you still want to go, it's not because you love him, it's because you're unwilling. I am unwilling to let this person you love for 8 years get married like this.

Relax, time really can be everything.

Letting go is also a kind of happiness, think about your future husband, family.

Why bother... Some love hidden in the heart may be more beautiful... It won't be happy to get it by any means... After all, you said he didn't love you...

Try to love others... Pay attention·· Maybe there's someone like you who has been paying attention to you for a long time.

It's not necessarily better to find someone you love than to find someone who loves you...

Hehe, we just can't forget how we felt at that time, not that person. Now that he is about to get married, shouldn't you also let go of all your hopes for him and start your life well, people, to live in the present and not in the past. It's okay to miss it occasionally, but it's not about anyone.

Just like we once had our first love, even if it is another person who is guarding us now, we will remember the purest feelings at the beginning, remember certain things and certain places, but this does not mean that we do not love the person around us, we know how to cherish what we have now, and missing is a short-term memory, and we still have to return to reality after recalling, because we cannot lose our principles and everything to relive the past feelings because of temporary missing or unwillingness.

Missing out is not a mistake, but a pass. He said that to you, why should you embarrass yourself, if you can't be a couple, at least leave a good impression. Don't ruin yourself, go find your own.

Give it up, one misstep will turn into a thousand hatreds.

Don't be so stupid, someone who doesn't care about you is not worth it.

A very good friend of mine said a very classic sentence: It's hard to love someone, it's fun to love two people, in fact, it makes sense, your college classmates are now in an ambivalence, but mixed with the psychology of joy, joy because there are two people who love him, it means that he is attractive, the contradiction is, how he deals with and faces you and his girlfriend, morally speaking, it is common to fall in love over time, when the relationship between boys and girls is good, the definition of love and friendship is very vague, If one party thinks out of the game circle of two people, then the game is not so fun, such a situation will make you and his relationship awkward, and also make it difficult for him to face, all say that girls are selfish, absolute ownership of the man they love, if you need to pay a price for this kind of possession, and it is at the cost of his happiness now, then the consequences of this selfishness even if you get his heart, in fact, the future life is unhappy or not, because, there is a shadow in the heart. The guy you like is a good guy and definitely deserves to be liked, however, it doesn't have to be had.

If you want to say whether your current boyfriend likes you or not, in fact, as a boy, if I am a good man, I can't do this, doing so is unfair to you and to your girlfriend, men sometimes think about things not from the emotional point of view, there is a certain rationality. After all, for him, two people who love him, no one can afford to live up, so he needs to weigh it.

What I advise you is not to wait, this is good for everyone, how many years can people live in this life, if you think you need to toss several times emotionally, I can't say, but why the same life, you choose to wait painfully, why can't you look forward to the sun, believe that you can meet someone who can be with you until you grow old with you in the future, this is faith. There's nothing wrong with being friends, having common happiness and sharing common joy, but it doesn't have to be based on love.

Then you can only be a closer friend than a friend, because. After all, people have been talking about it for 7-8 years. There is also the pull of feelings.

It's better not to be a third party and destroy people. I hate people like this the most.

If you want to make yourself happy then leave him, maybe it's not his fault, it's the two of you who are used to it.

But if you think about it, it's not easy for women.

For you, for him, and for her girlfriend, let's get out of the happiness of the three of you, how about you like it again? I like to be together to have fun, right?

Give yourself a chance, or let him choose.

Just don't think about him.

Not hanging from a tree?

Men are not the same as women.

Women will want to be friends with people they don't like but pursue themselves, and men won't, they will only draw boundaries with you.

It's good to be friends.

Everyone is in the old age, do you want to be a third party?

If you were his girlfriend, would you feel better?

Anyway, let's be friends.

If you are willing to wait, you can wait, time will not wait for others!!

I'm a layman on this, so I can only tell you what I think. Ask yourself, is that liking for him love? If yes, then go for it.

Or ask yourself in your heart, "Can I give up on him?" "If you can't, then don't care what others think, pursue him, who also has the right to pursue happiness." Since you don't want to pursue him, then wish him happiness and wish them well.

You can only be your best friend, maybe even a close friend, and give them tips after they have conflicts, so that they can be happy forever. There is only so much I can do, others can only give you advice, not decide for you, everything depends on yourself, whether to take or give up, only after asking what you think in your own heart.

I guess he likes you too! It's up to you to be a lifelong friend, and if you don't want to disturb him, you should let him go, so that he will be ...... to you

If you know that there is no ending, don't wait any longer, it's better to let go and forget about him than to waste your time

While accepting love, be prepared to be betrayed.

He likes you, he just doesn't want to hurt anyone else and he doesn't want to hurt you!

He may like you, but she doesn't want to hurt you.

Don't like him because he's nice to you, some guys have that personality. Don't even think in your heart that he actually likes me, but he doesn't find out. Let's find someone else, lest it only add to your sorrow.

Don't do anything that a third party intervenes, a person with a girlfriend is still so good to others and says that he is fraternity, and such a man can be a friend everywhere, not very a boyfriend.

The man with a heart of flowers, hehe, you can't control him. Think carefully!

This problem is up to you, he is very hidden, master, method 1, you can not contact him in the future, let him take the initiative to contact you. Then said I broke up with my boyfriend. Something depends on his reflection.

Method 2 is to create an opportunity to meet alone, use your charm to oppress him, and see what he has to say at the end.

Seven years of marriage, another seven-year itch, there will be a crisis, you have been eight years, if you break up, it will be difficult to recover.

It depends on what broke up because of something, and who proposed to break up, these are all very important, if you propose to break up, there is still a little room for redemption, if it is he who proposes to break up, there is little hope, if it can't be recovered, be happy to give her a blessing.

After eight years together, the relationship should be very deep.

Whoever started the trouble should end it. Start with the reason for the breakup, as long as you meet your girlfriend's requirements. It should be possible to reunite.

I wish you lovers to be married. Happiness for a lifetime.

It's useless to rely on everyone's help in this matter, see what the situation is, this matter has to be solved by yourself, and I have been with my girlfriend for eight years, I have to analyze what situation broke up and whose fault it is.

Eight years together, it's not a short time, it should have been seven years of itching, how did you break up? I didn't say the detailed reason for the breakup. Whoever proposes to break up first, if it's you, you won't be saved, a person who can be with you for eight years can say that you can break up, how do you let the other party accept it, if she brought it up first, it depends on what the reason, if she has another new love, there is no need and can't be saved, if it's a momentary anger, a man, it's OK to coax the other party.

Our best friend is ourselves, and we must not only treat ourselves well and forgive ourselves, but also be strict with ourselves, improve ourselves, and maintain a balance between morality and law, and we must not deviate from it. They should remind each other, wake up and alert us, and guide us into the right course of life.

Eight years! It's a pity to break up with the same age as the Anti-Japanese War, and it should be redeemed. If there is no major conflict, there should be no problem in salvage. Your relationship can be said to have developed to the purity of love, and you can learn from your girlfriend very well, take the initiative to be generous, and embrace the love you deserve.

First of all, it depends on who proposed the breakup, if it is you who proposed it, then what is the reason for the breakup, it also depends on whether your ex-girlfriend has a boyfriend now, if there is really no feeling, just want to be together for a long time, it is not necessary, after all, the future will be long, since the breakup, don't be indecisive, I wish you happiness.

After being together for a long time, I know each other too well, and I feel that I am a part of myself, indispensable, have you thought about any reason for not getting married after talking for so long? How many eight years a girl has been grinding with you. What is the reason for separation, it is not impossible to be together if you can talk for so long, or that others are dead.

I don't know what your girlfriend thinks. If it were me, I would not hate because I loved it. But it's absolutely impossible to be with this person again. Even if you are worth more than Jack Ma in the future, it is impossible.

In fact, a relationship will inevitably go through separation and integration, and after separation, if you want to save the other party, it is not possible to stalk, you must establish a second attraction. When two people are together, they must be attracted to each other to last.

After eight years of long-distance love, it is a pity that you have broken up now, if you want to save this relationship, you must first think about why you broke up, such as your life plan and commitment in the past eight years. Not living up to her expectations of you, girls are older and want a stable home, you can't give her a safe haven, etc. Treat your own problems, make up your mind to correct them, and realize your life plan in a down-to-earth manner, maybe you can save your love.

You must have had feelings for so long, and you broke up because of something. If it's a problem that can be solved, it's solved.

You and your girlfriend have been together for 8 years and have broken up, and they are not married, it's a pity, why don't you get married earlier, love is running, your parents didn't know before, you can get married after talking for so long, this may also mean that you don't love each other so much, there are always some reasons to feel that you haven't gotten married, you want to redeem, think about whether she doesn't like you so much, hey, it's not easy to say, let it be fate, it's not yours and don't force it, A life is still a long time, and you will meet people who love you, good luck.

It's been a long time to be together for 8 years, even husband and wife are familiar with each other, what you have to do at this time is to play the emotional card, care more about her relatives and friends, start from the details, ask more from her parents or girlfriends ** to persuade them to help you, this will get a lot more results with half the effort, work hard, boy.

There is no right or wrong in the relationship, and since you have decided to break up, a decent breakup is the last responsibility of both parties in this relationship.

A decent breakup is not only to fulfill the other party, but also to fulfill yourself.

The breakup must be decent, which is not only worthy of the person who once loved deeply, but also gives both parties a chance to start over.

You must have a good life, or I'm sorry for not bothering me. ”

After all, breaking up is the fault of two people, and giving dignity is not only a respect for that relationship, but also an end to what you have paid.

The smallest difference between people is IQ, and the biggest difference is persistence.

You don't have to say anything about this, like why you broke up, whether it's your fault or hers, or if it's a misunderstanding, or if it's a personality incompatibility or something, how do we come up with an idea?

For you, you have to dare to love and dare to do. For love, there must be an end of moths to the fire. But I advise you not to look for such a boy. Because he's not a man. A real man is one who takes responsibility for the decisions he makes.

See, the person in charge downstairs tells you he's a man, not a boy. A man's decision is different from a boy's decision, even if you're together. In the future, he will also break up with you because of other women.