I want to see my first boyfriend, do you want to find him?

Of course, it's easy for past lovers to become confidants.

However, it is limited to becoming friends again, and even if there is hope of getting back together, you must start as friends again. I have to remind you that the feeling of first love can't be recovered, that is to say, even if you are reunited, you must have a new understanding and new development to be happy, otherwise you will inevitably be dissatisfied after a long time, after all, there is a wound there that needs to be healed to return to normal.

Why did they break up? Is it because it's not suitable, just because you're lonely and want to get it back again? I don't know how you see yourself, how you look at him, and how you look at the relationship Maybe it's the end of the second relationship that makes you feel lost, so you feel that your first boyfriend makes you trust the most, but now you want to date him, do you know your purpose for dating him?

Whether you want to reconcile or don't want to lose this friend, I think you should sort out what you want You don't understand the purpose, and you will only make the other person look down on you.

Look forward and feel lonely, tired, don't go back. There's a lot more to the scenery ahead, but you don't see it

Think it out for yourself.

If he wants to, of course he can. If he doesn't want to, then you will only bring shame on yourself by doing so.

Since it's divided, I feel that it should be divided thoroughly, there is no need to break the thread, and then I went to find my first boyfriend, what does my current boyfriend think, even if it's nothing, won't there be a misunderstanding? I don't feel the need to go for those troubles!

Everyone's first love is beautiful, don't look for it, it's good to have a little distance!

I don't think it's better to look for him, you guys won't be the same as before.

You take a break, think about it before you make a decision.

You won't be so afraid to be alone.

Girls have to be able to think.

Be reserved, too. There will be fewer injuries.

Go ahead, you can afford to put it down.

There is no grass at the end of the world, the first love is beautiful, but it is not final.

Do you see him as a savior?

You... Very... Self... Private...

If I were your first term, I wouldn't want you to go back.

Summary. First love is unforgettable, and it is always warm and sad in retrospect. I feel that if I really want to see him, I can meet him if I have a good grasp of myself.

I want to meet my first boyfriend.

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Good morning, dear! Yes, but you have to make sure that your first boyfriend has a partner now, if not, you can make an appointment, if your first boyfriend is willing to come out to accompany you, there is a great possibility that you can get back together.

First love is unforgettable, and it is always warm and sad in retrospect. I feel that if I really want to see him, I can meet him if I have a good grasp of myself.

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I think there is only one reason, and that is that his married life is actually not happy. If he lives very happily after marriage and the family of three lives very harmoniously, then what other reason does he have to come to you, an ex-girlfriend? So I think he must have something bad in mind about you.

This bad thought may be that although he is married and has children, he still wants to associate with you. It's the kind of relationship that is sneaky and unsightly. Otherwise, I really can't think of a decent reason.

It may be that after your first boyfriend and his current wife got married, they suddenly found that the two parties were not suitable, and found out that you were good, and wanted to be with you, but they couldn't divorce for the sake of the family. That's why I often chat with you, I think such a man is too scumbag, too bad. I think any man with a family and children chatting frequently with other members of the opposite sex is a very scummy sign.

There may be many people who argue against Tong and say that they can still be friends like this after breaking up, even if they are married, they can be friends like they used to be friends. Isn't it okay for friends to keep in touch with each other? OK.

But I don't think it's good to keep in touch with friends of the opposite sex who already have families.

I think it doesn't matter if it's a boy or a girl. As long as it is the first love, I must be deeply impressed. Because it was the first person I loved, and the feelings I gave at that time were very pure, without any complicated feelings, many people are unforgettable for their first love.

But isn't it the most basic morality to keep a distance from married people of the opposite sex?

Since your first boyfriend is married and has children, but he is still in contact with you, I think he has the idea of developing you into a third party. To avoid this outcome, I advise you to cut off contact with him as soon as possible. If you still like your first boyfriend, I hope you will break off with him quickly, because women who fall in love are prone to make stupid things, if you really make stupid things, not only will your family hurt you, but you will also hurt yourself, do you really bear to destroy a family?

Can you bear to let an innocent child not be able to enjoy the full love of father and mother at a young age? It was an innocent child, would you be willing to be cruel to her like this? And there is a saying in society that says that feng shui takes turns, and sooner or later you will be punished for the bad things you do.

If you don't like your first boyfriend and cut off contact with him, let him return to the family completely, stop chatting with other friends of the opposite sex, let him love his wife well, and let him love her children well. Let him be a good husband and father with responsibilities.

In fact, I really yearn for that kind of emotion of being a couple for a lifetime. Why did China not have a high divorce rate before. And now the divorce rate is getting higher and higher, because when there were conflicts and conflicts between husbands and wives in the past, the most important thing was communication and communication, and now when couples have conflicts and conflicts, they are directly cold and violent.

The first love is unforgettable, and there has been no contact for 10 years, and suddenly they are connected. This man is generally nostalgic for the number of books.

After losing contact for 10 years, suddenly WeChat contact wants to be friends with you again. He should know from his friends that your condition is not good, and out of concern and comfort for you, he hopes to be friends with you again.

In addition, be clear about your attitude, whether it is if he can't let you go or come to see your jokes. You have to be clear about your attitude, and since you've broken up, there's no need to be friends again. It's been 10 years, and both of them have their own lives, so they shouldn't bother each other.

There are already scars in my heart, and if they are healed and uncovered again, they will still be bloody and more painful than ever. If you still approve of him, think that his meadow is still green and nutritious, and it suits your appetite, you can go back and eat it again.

If you know that there is a big pit or a trap waiting for you behind him, no matter how deep you are with him, please do not get involved in it. When your first love contacts you again after many years, no matter what your mental intentions are, you still choose carefully. After all, the rivers and lakes are sinister, and people's hearts are separated from their stomachs.

Don't see each other, it's better to miss that they have already broken up, and there is no need to meet again.

If you leave, you will never see each other again, and it will be difficult to reunite after breaking the mirror.