How did it feel to find a workaholic boyfriend

The boyfriend of a workaholic will have little time to accompany him, and he will sometimes suffer from gains and losses, and he feels that his boyfriend does not love him enough, and he must learn to adjust his mentality at this time.

It's annoying that he often works overtime, and when he's busy with work, he just ignores me, and when he's so busy that he can't care about replying to my messages, it will make me extremely upset, but I'm embarrassed to bother him. After all, it's for us to have a better future, and I'm not the kind of person who doesn't know anything and makes trouble.

My boyfriend is a workaholic, I don't see each other for three days, and I have a boyfriend who is almost the same as if I don't have a boyfriend and only talk to each other occasionally. It feels like it's called a heart-piercing.

Every morning when the alarm clock goes off, you must get up and start work against all odds; When I see something related to the work I am interested in, I will be very excited, and I will immediately take a note on a piece of paper or take a picture with my mobile phone; The room is often not cleaned up, and I fall asleep when I am tired from work; I often say that I don't want to stay up late, but I always stay up late to work.

He felt that he had no sense of existence and need, and that all he had in his eyes was work. Although his friends persuaded him to have a better future for us, what is the use of having a career and a gap between the two people.

My boyfriend is very busy at work, usually travels a lot, ten days and half a month without contact is commonplace, let alone meet, usually no word of concern, no word of greeting, send him a message, he always delays replying, or reply "I'm busy", we don't have the same heart as before, and now we are living our own lives, I don't know what the other party is doing, hey, helpless.

I feel that I spend little time together, but I am a very responsible and responsible person.

The workaholic boyfriend fell into a state of madness, he thought that being with me would drag me down and push me away, we have been separated for a month now, I will think about him every day, and I will think about fighting for it again, and then keep it, but thinking about the last few times we met, he only had the sentence "you go" every time, and he didn't have the courage to look back.

I got up on a Saturday morning, thinking about the weekend, he should be able to say a few more words if he doesn't go to work today, maybe he can also make a **TV**, the show he watched the night before was so funny, I want to talk to him, I bought a new dress, I want to show off with him, I want to take advantage of the weekend to go out for a walk, I have already thought about a lot of work to talk to him, things to do with him, and then ask him "what is the arrangement today", he replied, "work", and instantly his heart was cold.

I've been with him for a long time, and I rarely have time to hang out with me, so I asked him to go out with me, and he agreed, but on that day, he went to work again, and he had one day off a week, and sometimes he had to go to the company during the break.

Eating alone, shopping alone, watching movies alone, and playing ** is always at work, which makes me feel the urge to break up.

I think he's quite self-motivated, and he probably wants to make your life better by working hard.

He is rarely at home and doesn't take me around on holidays like other boyfriends. I sometimes feel that in his heart, work is more important than me.

I went to bed in the middle of the night, and suddenly found that my boyfriend was gone, and I called him **, he said that he suddenly remembered that the unit had something to do, so he left in the middle of the night.

I've always been quite considerate of him, but girls have the weakest side, sometimes I complain to him, thinking that he is so accommodating that I am busy outside, or so that I can live a better life in the future. I don't think I can always complain to him, but it's still hard to think about.

A man who is very busy with his career likes two kinds of women like Heng Xiangnai.

The first type, the independent woman.

Independent women are open-minded, financially independent, have their own lives and careers, do not want to cling to men all day long, and will give men a lot of personal space.

The second, clingy women.

Most clingy women are gentle and loving, and they are very dependent on men in terms of thinking and life, and can give men a sense of self-satisfaction and feel that they are needed.

Talking about a workaholic boyfriend, in fact, when you talk about such a boyfriend, sometimes you are happy, sometimes you are annoyed, because it has two sides, he is a workaholic, first of all, it means that he can work well and improve his position. If the job title also improves his ability to work, then he will be able to get promoted and raised, and he will be able to bring more income to his family, so the living conditions of his family will be better. But at the same time, there are a lot of troubles, because he is a workaholic, maybe he will take very little care of the family.

Then there will be less time with you, and less time with your own children, then you will also feel annoyed, because he has less time with you, and you will feel that he has neglected you. The relationship between you will seem to be weaker or lacking in the other. Those couples are so romantic, and so vigorous, so you will also feel annoyed.

Once said that I wanted to come back early, I waited for him early in Xing's father, but as soon as he came, he sat down and opened his notebook to work for two hours. But I can't say anything, he did come out to accompany me, just by my side, very speechless, but looking at his serious work, he is really handsome.

said that he would play with me during the three-day holiday of the military parade, but I went to the office to write ** for two days, and I mentioned things to him about, and I will answer you: I work overtime to have time to go out with you. It's that any request you ask him to accompany, to play, or even to chat with him will become unreasonable and ignorant with him, and there will always be only one reason:

I'm fighting so hard for us, you have to understand.

has no sense of security, always feels that everything is carried by you, and what happiness and sadness are digested by yourself, even so, every time I quarrel, I feel that it is my fault, and I am inconsiderate of his work, even if this is the case, I will excuse him.

When something happens around you, whether it is happy or sad, you call him, if he picks him up, he will tell you, wait for him for a while, he is busy, but, when he is busy, a long time has passed, you have nothing to say, this is my daily life.

My boyfriend started a business in an Internet company, and dating is on the same schedule as work. See each other twice a week for now, but after the date is a few hours, he will continue to go to work at the company to make up for it, such as the appointment until 12 o'clock, he will continue to go to the company to work overtime until three or four o'clock in the morning, and continue to work the next day. I'm not diligent in sending messages or anything, and it's very brief, but at least I'll say good morning and good night.

Dating is more enthusiastic, basically he asks me out, because it mainly depends on his time.

Finally, during the holidays, he will start to make a work plan. When the alarm clock rings in the morning, you must get up and start work against all odds; When I see something related to the work I am interested in, I will be very excited, and I will immediately take a note on a piece of paper or take a picture with my mobile phone; The room is often not cleaned up, and I fall asleep when I am tired from work; I often say that I don't want to stay up late, but I always stay up late to work, revise over and over again, and I am not happy if I am not perfect and satisfied. When I wake up in the morning, I will see a message from him at three or four o'clock.

It's like that, it's painful and happy.

Nothing is as important as work, everything has to give way to work. Although in the dating, you will also ruthlessly leave your tears to deal with unexpected work situations, not only do you not comfort when you leave, but even become strict with you because you have this intention to keep him, thinking why you are so ignorant, and then leave without looking back. Working and socializing every day, it is more difficult for two people to date alone than meeting the Cowherd and Weaver Girl.

The reason is very simple: I just love him, and I only love him in love, that is, I love him deeply.

No matter how busy he is, no matter what kind of workaholic he is, he still has me in his world and our future. He's paving the way for me, for our future, a path that won't make it too hard for me.

Therefore, I will also choose to work hard and work together. Let him cope with his work comfortably and without worries. I can handle the things around me myself, independently, and not tsundere.

When he needs pampering and relaxation, he always comes back to me. Although he is in love with work, his heart is still mine, and it has never changed.

People are very good, sunny and motivated, and they know that let me, don't smoke, don't drink, don't play games, and buy a car soon if you have a house.

It's just too selfish, there is only work in life, from the beginning of the relationship to the present, I have hardly been with me well for nine months, there are only one or two formal dates, and the rest are all after work at night and have a hurry to eat and watch a movie.

He started his own business, and I can understand that he is busy, but I don't think I can hold on to this endless busyness. And even when I'm dating, I'm always thinking about his work. Originally, there was not much time to meet, and the quality of the meeting was low.

Other girls say something in passing, and their boyfriends will remember this kind of treatment, which I have never had.

Yesterday, I saw that Chen Ming's speech stinged me, he said, "You can't be so selfish, can't you give them a little time for those people around you who love you, can't you give them a little mental space"". Yes, he's just that selfish.

As for the problem that the boyfriend is a workaholic, seriously, in my opinion, it is not necessarily a bad thing, at least it is much better than those attentive boyfriends, as a girlfriend, I give you a few pieces of advice:

1.First of all, you should watch more movies. Watching some light-hearted, humorous and funny movies helps to relax the body and mind, your boyfriend is usually very tired from work, pressure from family, social pressure, watching more of these movies is conducive to improving life and happiness, and promoting the improvement of quality of life.

Watching more movies is conducive to improving the quality of life.

2.Secondly, you should listen more. The soothing ** is conducive to relaxing the nerves and relaxing the body and mind.

Literary and romantic music is conducive to the relaxation of people's nerves; The high and uplifting style of music is conducive to the upward movement of people's spiritual life and the continuation of a better life. Boyfriend has a lot of work pressure, suitable for listening to some light-hearted **. Listening more** is conducive to improving the quality of life.

3.Finally, you should travel more. The motherland has great rivers and mountains, beautiful scenery, and picturesque, and it is inevitable that you will be physically and mentally exhausted in your own narrow work circle.

The deep ancient alleys are conducive to the relaxation of people's body and mind, and forget the difficulties and pressures of urban life; The rushing waterfall is conducive to stimulating people's ambition and promoting people to be more positive. Traveling more is conducive to improving the quality of life.

The boyfriend is a workaholic, which shows that he is responsible and hopes to make this home better, and the subject is very happy!

Communicate more, don't pester him anymore, it will make him disgusted with you, you have to calm down, doesn't he ignore you, and you don't want to contact him more. This is one way, and you also have to be more motivated to work and be busier than him, and put more enthusiasm into your work. Let him start to worry about you, too.

Sometimes men are like this, the more you pay attention to him, the more he will snub you. If you love him so much, just look up to him, do your job and career well, he will appreciate you more, otherwise, he will really set his sights on other women. Hope it helps.

I don't think it's wrong that your boyfriend is busy with work, you can talk to him when he is resting, so that he can usually take a little light on the work side. Give yourself some relaxation and don't put too much pressure on yourself. Usually, if you take a break, you can also take him on more trips to slowly let him put down his work.

Try not to have some conflicts with him or something, and you need to solve them through chatting more.

Nowadays, many girls are very hardworking, they are completely a workaholic, they want to find a boyfriend, in fact, it is quite difficult, but you can start from these aspects, you can still find it, share it with you.

Find someone from your own unit. Only if two people have the same personality, such people will get along very well, both of them are workaholics, then you will have common hobbies, common interests, then you will be very happy together, so you should find some people who especially like to work and especially like to work to make friends.

Make more friends on some dating**.

If you have to work together every day, it will be easier to be together, if you have to fall in love with each other in a similar way to a blind date, I think it is incomplete in life, not to the last step, don't do it, blind date is the last way, so pay a little attention to it when you work, if you don't think your personality is suitable to try.