With my boyfriend, what should I do if others don t think favorably of us?

I think it's just a matter of two people being together, if both people feel that there is nothing wrong with each other. Of course, from a rational point of view, not the attitude that you have nothing wrong with each other when you are in love. Then there is no problem.

After all, the two of you will live together in the future, and you will not be someone else, so why care about other people's opinions.

It depends on what you think, if you think the relationship is worth it, then don't care about other people's eyes, if you really love him, try to maintain the relationship.

Others are not optimistic, and your love has nothing to do with you, you have to know, love is your own business, the family of the two parties, and then it has nothing to do with other people, if it is because your parents do not agree, then you should take practical actions to prove that you are true love, do not want the influence of others, you love each other This is a thing to be proud of. ‍‍

Do you know the reason why you are not favored? Is it because your boyfriend's conditions are not good, or the family is not good, or the character is not good, at least you have to have an accurate judgment of your feelings, whether you are really suitable, sometimes it's not that you don't listen, but you need to refer to it, they all say that you would rather demolish ten temples than not get married, if you think that he is your true destiny, then you don't think about it so much, just cherish the person in front of you. ‍‍

Actually, I don't think it's necessary to let others be optimistic, as long as the two of you think it's OK.

Others persuade you, many of them are their own subjective consciousness of persuasion, in fact, I don't know your experience and feelings, you have to have your own ideas, is it worth it, will you regret it in the future, if you won't, then stick to yourself, if you are still hesitating, then you still have to think about it.

Adults, you have to have your own opinions and the ability to take responsibility, everything is like this, so you have to feel that you are suitable, then you can be together well, and slap them in the face in the future. ‍‍

When two people are together, the most important thing is to work hard and pay for each other, and they don't have to mind too much about the eyes of others.

It's good to be yourself, why care about other people's opinions, not to mention that other people's opinions are not necessarily right. Now that you have identified that person in your heart, it's good to stick to it.

If it's a family member, then you need to communicate, if it's someone outside, including seven aunts and eight aunts, it doesn't make sense, just ignore it.

Love is your own business, it is you who are in love with him, what do you have to do with others. It's good to think about what you want. ‍‍

It's you with your boyfriend, not someone else with your boyfriend. Just figure out why you're with him. ‍‍

It's you who talk to him, what does it have to do with others, don't bother yourself.

It's not someone else who lives your life, it's you, just feel good about yourself.

1. Distant marriage. The general obstacle to this factor comes from parents. Most parents don't want their families to be too far apart, especially the woman's parents.

They are afraid that their daughter will have no backing when she marries and is bullied, and they are also worried that their daughter will rarely meet after marriage. And this is indeed the case, we must be cautious when marrying far away.

Since when did you start to understand that you can't marry far away?

2. The other party has a history of marriage. There are many reasons for the failure of a marriage, and a failed marriage must have a reason for both parties, so how did he deal with it and what this marriage brought him. For some people, a failed marriage brings him growth and improvement in the ability to deal with gender relations, while for others, it is an eternal pain in his heart and a psychological shadow that cannot be walked out.

If the other party still has children with their ex, the problem is indeed many times more complicated.

3. Character. Love can secrete a variety of hormones, blinding your brain, so that you can't look at the partner around you rationally, but the people around you can look at him very objectively. Or maybe his attitude towards you is not so similar to the way he treats your family, friends, or colleagues that they think you are being fooled.

Therefore, it is clear that you are not optimistic about the imitation core, the problem lies in the end, whether it is necessary to continue, it depends on the relationship between the two of you, whether you have enough confidence to deal with this problem, and whether you can face such a test together.

How is it not favored, the difference between the two people.

Take a closer look at your relationship and see if you really like it in your heart.

There are always too many reasons to like someone, and it's an unexplainable condition. But sometimes, the so-called liking is just an illusion, a disguise that you want to get out of your lonely life.

You talk about a boyfriend, and the friends around you think he is unreliable, whether you accept this statement or not, whether you accept this statement, this is the general impression of your friends around him.

And this impression often comes from the practices of his daily life, which shows that he must have done a lot of very excessive things in his life. You are from a couple's point of view, and you will always give yourself too many reasons to forgive him.

But from an outsider's point of view, his judgment is often objective and natural. No one wants to offend people, everyone actually wants you to be happy, and giving such an evaluation shows that this boy is really not good.

The beauty of a relationship, the blessings of relatives and friends are important。We may be able to give everything for love, but often those who only have love left in life will not be very happy.

We always have to live in this group and always communicate with our relatives and friends. Although sometimes they don't need to care about their opinions, it is still necessary to think carefully about their life choices.

For the major event of marriage, it is impossible to be too cautious. Since the friends around you have the same feeling, I think you should also take a good look at this relationship to see if there is real love between two people.

Every relationship is worth cherishing, but I don't think it's necessary to insist on love that is destined to be hurt. The choice is yours, and you don't regret it.

If your friends around you are not optimistic, then you really need to pay attention, after all, everyone's eyes are bright.

Now that you are caught up in love, it is easier to lose your way, and you can only see the good side of your boyfriend, and you will not see the other bad aspects of him for a while. But others are different, others are not carried away by love, so their observations may be more objective and more complex facts.

Therefore, it is recommended that you calm down, observe your boyfriend objectively, find some of his problems, and then see if I can tolerate these problems.

1. Listen to the evaluation of the people around him, there is always a reason for the bad evaluation, and then observe the bad aspects, and don't force yourself if you can't stand it.

2. Take him to meet familiar and experienced elders and listen to their opinions.

3. Give full play to the sixth sense, the sixth sense of girls is very strong.

I think if you talk about a boyfriend and the people around you don't like him, break up, after all, the authorities are obsessed.

I think you should reconsider whether you want to be with this person, if your friends don't like him, there is a high probability that you are blinded by momentary love.

You still have to consider the suggestions of the people around you, but they don't know him as well, so you make the right judgment yourself, why are the people around you not optimistic about him? Then you think about it yourself and make a decision.

I'm thinking about it myself, asking my friends what he doesn't think about it, and then thinking about it for myself. After all, like a person drinking water, he knows his own warmth and coldness.

You yourself feel that you really know him, and you really think that it is appropriate to come together, and you don't care about other people's opinions.

In my opinion, I know best what my boyfriend is like, but it shouldn't be the turn of others to say anything. Why do you like each other and use others to point it out?

If everyone is not optimistic about him, you should reflect on it and think about whether what your friends are saying is right.

I think it's my business to talk about my boyfriend, and my friends around me don't think well of him. It doesn't make much sense.

In fact, everyone has friends of the opposite sex, and if your boyfriend does not allow you to play with your friends of the opposite sex, it may be because some of your behaviors anger him a little bit and make him feel very insecure. If this is the case, you should try to keep your distance from friends of the opposite sex, and the relationship between you may not be like the relationship that a friend should have.

In fact, boys are more sensitive to these things, they will think that it is normal for women to have friends of the opposite sex sometimes, and they will not care at first, but when you introduce two people to each other, your boyfriend will feel a sense of crisis, and this is the beginning of men's jealousy, and they will continue to think cranky. But it also shows that they care about you, and they don't want any intimacy between you, which is understandable.

In fact, you can think about it empathically, if your boyfriend also has a friend of the opposite sex who has a good time, will you feel very uncomfortable in your heart, and then you will think about temper. At this point, you will understand why your boyfriend would make such an unreasonable request.

In fact, such a request is not so unreasonable, he just doesn't want others to get too close to his girlfriend, and you also have to show understanding. If you really have a pure friendship relationship, and you are sure that the boy has nothing else in mind about you, you can continue to get along with him, of course, if your boyfriend agrees, even if your partner does not agree, you should inform your boyfriend in advance before you meet again, so that he will not be too embarrassed when he learns about it from other people's ears. In fact, friends and objects of the opposite sex are things that are difficult for two people to maintain a balance, and if you can really handle it well, then you are a successful person.

If you have a boyfriend, you should keep your distance from friends of the opposite sex, otherwise it will be misunderstood, because not everyone knows what your situation is, and it doesn't matter if you are good friends.

You say you have a good friend of the opposite sex, how good can it be? Someone has said that the interaction between the opposite sex that is not for the purpose of marriage is a hooligan, there is some truth in this, do you think your boyfriend is important or your friend of the opposite sex is important, so it is recommended that you still be sensible.

You can play with him, but keep your distance, you can't be as good as before, after all, then your boyfriend will think more, after all, if your boyfriend has a good friend of the opposite sex, you will also be jealous.

I think you should listen to your boyfriend, because only men know men best, and there must be a reason why your boyfriend doesn't want you to play.

It is estimated that boyfriends who are not sick don't like their girlfriends to play with other friends of the opposite sex. You don't need to ask what to do, think about whether this relationship is worth your life.

The moment you choose love, you need to keep your distance from friends of the opposite sex. He is jealous because he loves you. When he is no longer jealous one day, it is the day when this short relationship comes to an end.

Now that you have a boyfriend, you can only maintain an ordinary relationship with other friends of the opposite sex.

This is a very natural state of mind, and empathy is understandable. So, you should know what to do. Avoid causing unnecessary suspicion or contradiction.

If it is indeed a normal male acquaintance, you can also let your boyfriend communicate together, and you can really understand each other, and it would be better to become close friends.

Tell your boyfriend not to bother you every time he has something to do, just give him more independent space!

Then you just have to maintain a good friend relationship with him, after all, you are also a person with a boyfriend, so you should pay attention to your words and deeds.

Everyone is a friend of the opposite sex, and it is normal to grow up, don't make trouble because of a little thing, everyone should be calm.

In fact, boys will definitely be hostile to your male friends, so you still have to keep a little distance from your friends.

Take your boyfriend with you when you usually play.

If he doesn't want to go, rule out the reason for work, then you can find another time to go.

Find a good face for your boyfriend.

Friends are precious, but love is even more valuable. If it's for your lover's sake, it's best to think clearly!

In my opinion, I have a good friend of the opposite sex, but after all, it is better to keep a certain distance from the other person after all.

I think since my boyfriend doesn't like you doing this, then just don't do it.

It's not easy to judge, introverts talk less, they don't necessarily think less, it is possible that they think a lot, but they are not good at expressing, not only can not express in language, but also make people feel his changes, such people are not easy to socialize, and once they are in a relationship, usually they will not change their minds, and this kind of personality is called depressive in behavior.

There are a few things you can try:

1. See if your boyfriend is outstanding in a certain field, especially in art, such as **, art, or chess and cards, if there is, then it can be basically determined that it is depressive, and your next job is to determine whether you have really made friends with this person;

2. He is not good at words, you can take the initiative to ask, and say what you originally wanted to hide in good faith, it is better than hiding it in your heart and letting the other party guess, excessive guessing will evolve into suspicion, rather than making these things a hidden danger, it is better to speak openly and honestly in advance, even if you are not good at communicating, at least you can express your basic thoughts ......or show some horses and flaws;

3. Interview to find out what views and ideas his family has, know the son Mo Ruo's father, know the son Mo Ruo's mother, you can't directly learn the information from him, you can get information through other channels, this is not distrusting him, in order to be able to better live with him;

As for the opposition in your own family, first determine whether your parents' opposition is out of your own intention, or there are other relatives blowing the wind in your ears, if it is the original intention of your parents, you need to be careful, if it is the wind in your ears, you can ignore it, the old people have soft ears, and they like to chat about idle days, it is not a big problem.