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In general, there are 5 reasons why young children are reluctant to go to kindergarten:
1. I don't want to be separated from my parents. For children, parents will have an incomparable sense of security when they are around. After entering kindergarten, it is not difficult to imagine that children will feel lost, anxious and overwhelmed when they have to face and deal with problems alone.
2. Fear of unfamiliar environments. Accustomed to the familiar home, but now having to stay in a school full of strangers for a long time, children will feel inexplicably anxious and uneasy.
3. Unable to adapt to group life. When the child arrives at the kindergarten, he must abide by the norms of the group, the things he wants need to be shared with others, and he has to queue up to eat snacks and play with toys, and there are restrictions everywhere, so that the child feels that the kindergarten is not fun.
4. Can't keep up with the progress of the group. If your child can't keep up with the progress of kindergarten, he or she will feel frustrated, and it will also cause psychological pressure and nervousness at the thought of going to kindergarten.
5. Interpersonal frustration. Children crave friendship and can play with many children in kindergarten, however, after really going to kindergarten, if they are bullied and excluded by other children, children may not want to go.
Parents have their own ways to deal with the problem of children crying and refusing to go to kindergarten. But the most important principles are: parents should insist on pick-up, communicate with teachers frequently, be consistent with the home, and find and solve problems in a timely manner; Encourage and praise your child to develop independence and self-care skills.
If this continues, the baby will gradually like to go to kindergarten, and the parents' problems will be solved.
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On the surface, it is distressing to the baby, but this will make the child's adaptation to the kindergarten process virtually lengthened, no matter how the child cries, one.
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Generally depends on the baby's degree of adaptation, entering a strange environment, contact with new faces, children need an adaptation process.
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As we all know, children's hearts are more sensitive, so after entering the kindergarten, they will be very uncomfortable, so there will be crying. This crying phenomenon usually lasts for 1 to 2 weeks, and during this period of crying, parents must help their children realize the importance of going to kindergarten. In addition, you can also convey some positive emotions to your child, and you should also describe the benefits of going to kindergarten to your child, so that your child will get better and better.
When children go to kindergarten, it is understandable that they resist. After all, staying with your parents for a long time, going to a strange environment, and coming into contact with unfamiliar teachers, you will feel insecure, so you may cry at this time. Some parents will not bear it, so they do not let their children go to kindergarten and take their children home, you must know that this practice is not for the good of the child, but for the harm of the child.
Therefore, it is recommended that if the child cries, let him cry, but also pay attention to the child's physical health. When your child goes to kindergarten, you can promise your child to buy toys or snacks. <>
After all, children are still relatively easy to coax, and most of them can kill the child's crying with a fun toy or a delicious snack. Before going to bed at night, you should also tell your child a story or read a picture book with your child to let him know that going to school is the only way for every child. In addition, in the kindergarten, not only the teachers teach the children the corresponding knowledge, but also can play games and toys with the teachers.
In this way, children will be very eager for kindergarten life, and some children with strong adaptability will be able to become independent in two or three days. <>
Finally, I want to say that the phenomenon of crying in the first week of the child's defeat is very serious, so parents must hold on. Only if you don't care so much about the child's crying, then the child's withered jujube mood can quickly stabilize and be able to obey the teacher's instructions like other children. If parents fish for three days and dry nets for two days, then the children will be lawless, and even the future character development will be hindered accordingly.
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For children who have just entered school, crying generally lasts for about half a month; If you want to make him better, parents must communicate with their children, exchange and inquire about their children's inner thoughts, and express understanding and respect for their ideas, and adopt relevant incentive policies to effectively improve their children's enthusiasm.
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Probably crying for a week or so; When the child is in the kindergarten banquet is defeated, you should communicate with the child well, tell the child that you can make a lot of friends in the kindergarten, and you can play with good friends and Zen friends, so that the child will be better.
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Generally speaking, children will be able to adapt to kindergarten life in about 2 weeks! In order to alleviate the separation anxiety of new kindergarten babies, when the child first enters the kindergarten, you can pick up the stupidity from home.
One or two children's favorite toys or a photo of Dad's parents and children**, take Chong to accompany them to the kindergarten.
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Most of the children in kindergarten will cry for various reasons, and they are not used to leaving home and going alone in an unfamiliar place.
Children who go to kindergarten will not cry for a week at most, and there are many children in the school who play together, eat snacks and fruits, and have teachers to play games together, so they will not cry when they get used to it.
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Every child will go to kindergarten when he is three years old, and there can be a lot of friends in the kindergarten and learn a lot of things, but when the child first enters the kindergarten, there will definitely be crying. How long does it take for a child to cry in kindergarten?
After the general child is sent to the kindergarten, most of the time will not cry for about 7 days, of course, there are some children who will cry, but since the parents have decided to send the child to the kindergarten, after the child cries, you must rest assured to hand over to the teacher, and the general child will stop crying after the parents leave.
If the child is brought home because of crying when the child is dropped, then the child's crying will become more and more serious when the child is sent to kindergarten again. The best way is to wait until the child and his classmates and teachers get used to it when he or she first arrives in kindergarten, because the environment is relatively unfamiliar, and it will be fine until the child and the surrounding classmates and teachers get used to it.
Let children experience the life of kindergarten in advance, take children to kindergarten to play every day, or parents and children adapt to kindergarten for a few days, and slowly get used to it, every child needs to go through this process. Only a few children do not cry when they are sent to kindergarten, and such children have strong self-care skills.
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At the beginning of each year, there will be new babies entering the kindergarten. And this is also a lot of "mental torture" for parents, they are worried that the baby will adapt to the life of the kindergarten? Will you cry?
In fact, I can understand these concerns of parents. For new kindergarteners, this is the first step for them to enter kindergarten and society.
The baby comes to the kindergarten from home, from a familiar environment to a strange environment, encounters a strange teacher, a strange child, the baby needs a familiar process, and crying is also an instinctive reaction to protect himself.
This is the parents must cooperate with the kindergarten to insist on sending the baby into the kindergarten, can not "three days of fishing and two days of drying nets", so that on the surface it is distressed for the baby, in fact, it lengthens the process of the baby to adapt to the kindergarten. There is also the fact that when sending the baby into the kindergarten, it must be given to the teacher to leave, and it cannot be left outside the window**.
Generally speaking, the baby will adapt to kindergarten life in about two weeks. In order to alleviate the baby's separation anxiety, parents can take one or two toys that are often played with at home or ** of mom and dad and baby, which can reduce the baby's separation anxiety.
Secondly, when parents take the baby home, they should communicate more with the baby, and you can also play the game of "going to kindergarten" with the baby to stimulate the baby's desire to go to kindergarten tomorrow.
During this period, the baby's crying is easy to get angry, so you can let the baby eat some light food, such as vegetables, fruits and so on.
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For new kindergarteners, this is also their first step towards kindergarten and society.
Children come from home to kindergarten, from a familiar environment to a strange place, a strange teacher, a strange child. Children need a process of adaptation, and children's crying is also an instinctive self-protection. At this time, our parents must cooperate with the kindergarten to insist on sending their children into the kindergarten, and must not "fish for three days and dry nets for two days".
On the surface, it is distressing to the baby, but this will make the child's adaptation to the kindergarten process virtually lengthened, no matter how the child cries, must insist on entering the kindergarten. After handing over your child to the teacher, leave immediately and do not come back to see your child. Because at this time, the baby's focus is on the window, and the teacher's focus is on the child, which often causes the situation of "the teacher doesn't see it, but the child does".
Children will mistakenly think: as long as I cry, Mom and Dad will come back! The child will cry "persistently".
Generally speaking, children will be able to adapt to kindergarten life in about 2 weeks!
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