What are some of your concerns about parenting?

The baby began to go to kindergarten this year, so I wanted to ask for the baby's opinion, but the baby told me very positively: "Mom, can you buy me a big cake for my birthday?" I want to give every child to eat", it turned out that the baby wanted to celebrate the birthday with her little classmates, so I was very happy to agree, the baby was happy to dance, every other day asked why it was not his birthday, and then on the birthday he and the cake together with the kindergarten, found that he was not very satisfied, and later learned that they themselves got the cake everywhere, so that the teachers are very troublesome, kindergarten is a place that parents can not take care of, and there is no way to teach anything, What worries me the most is my child's performance and life in kindergarten, and I am always worried about what will happen when I am not in front of me.

Even if we don't like our parents to compare ourselves to the "child next door", every mother will silently compare her child with other children after all. And weight is the focus of young babies. "Her child is so good-looking, white and chubby!

My child's weight is also a concern for me.

Recently, I often have stomach troubles, sometimes a pull is not good for three days, I see that I am anxious, make me very uncomfortable, see in the eyes, anxious in the heart, I don't know what to use the medicine, often just three days to run to the hospital.

Parents need to know:Acceptance and effective attentionThat's the whole point of parenting!

99% of parents don't know that acceptance and effective attention are the key to parenting!

What is Acceptance?

For example, if the child goes to play, you can understand the child, he needs to play, you will not control him, dirty, the danger is in your hands, his happiness will be gone, when the happiness is not, she is very sad.

What about concerns?

For example, if you take your children to play in the community, or play in nature. You feel that you are accompanying her, but if the child is playing, you are not watching at all, you are looking at your mobile phone, you are dealing with other things, your kind of companionship is called ineffective, then if you pay attention to him, you can see that when he is playing with a child, it is a certain action, you can feel that he is caring for other children, he is seriously exploring, when you give back to him what you watch, he is full of confidence.

He will continue to communicate with you later, which is called effective companionship, for example, if you are like a child, you want to tie a shoelace, then you look at him, oops, she tied her shoelaces today is different from yesterday, he will go around a flower so meticulous, when you pay attention to you and give him back, he will feel that she is happier than you when you grow up, and she will get this college notice.

I think I have a lot of concerns about parenting, because I think it's a very important issue for children's education. For example, when I was a child, I had the health problem of milk powder diapers. Then there is the problem of going to school, and the problem of psychological construction.

I feel like there are a lot of issues that I need to pay attention to.

I feel that educating children is a crucial issue. It's that in terms of educating children, I'm afraid that I'll spoil her, but if I choose him, I'm very reluctant, I'm afraid of doting on him.

Their health is my primary concern when it comes to parenting. Because I think there are some diseases that are caused by not paying attention to them from a young age, so we must pay attention to the health of our children. And I think it's very necessary to give them a good education in terms of childcare.

Our role in homeschooling is also very important, so we must pay attention to this issue

I have some concerns in parenting, for example, I pay attention to what children should eat to be more nutritious and make them grow up healthily, and what toys to play with them on a regular basis to make them happy.

I have a lot of concerns in parenting, such as how to develop parenting is the most useful for them to live a better life in the future, and I also pay attention to their diet.

First of all, I think I have to pay more attention to a lot of knowledge or problems in these aspects in this regard.

There are many times when parents educate their children that they feel powerless, after all, even if you are for the good of your children, but your children don't listen to you, you can't do anything. Sometimes the child's temper comes up, and it is not good to say it lightly or seriously, and the child may not listen to the advice of adults, and it may hurt the friendship between you and the child. What should I do at this time?

As a parent, how can you do it right? Let's publish a little bit of opinion, interested mom and dad can come together.

1. Respect children's individual growth.

Every child is an independent individual, and we can't force our children to be just because we want our parents to be what they want them to become. We can guide the child's temperament and character step by step, but we can't force the other party to change the child's own characteristics. Therefore, parents should respect the characteristics of their children at different stages and not suppress their children's development.

Only when they see that their children may develop in a bad direction, parents can actively guide their children back to the right path.

2. Understand the child's inner world.

Before we educate our children, we should have a correct understanding of the children's thoughts, so that we can give correct guidance. For example, once when I was chatting with my son who had just started kindergarten, I asked him why didn't you comfort the teacher when he was sick. He said that if he tried to comfort the teacher, he would disturb the teacher, so he didn't comfort the other party.

If I didn't know how to understand the child's real considerations and didn't know the child's heart, I might think that the child didn't know how to understand the teacher, and didn't know how to care for and protect the teacher. Unexpectedly, the child was afraid of disturbing the teacher, so he finally did not come forward to comfort the teacher. At that time, I felt that in the matter of parenting, I had to understand the child's true thoughts first, so that I could clarify what kind of mentality I should face this matter and how to solve it.

3. Treat children as equals.

Why is it that many times when we educate our children, children will be dissatisfied with their parents? Because in the eyes of children, parents always say one thing and do another, what they want from their children, but they have no requirements for themselves. Therefore, it is difficult for us to stand up before we set a good example, and our education is very arrogant in the eyes of children, because parents can't do it at all, so why should children be required to do it?

So, when we ask our children to do the same, we hope that our parents can do the same. Treating each other equally in this way is the best way to get along. Only this kind of education and guidance can really be effective.