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Don't talk too much about secrets or anything, low EQ just don't know what to say, what can't be said, don't treat people with low EQ as trash cans that spit secrets. Low emotional intelligence is also generally reflected in the fact that friendships are too easy to be destroyed by one thing between them, or even turn against each other. Because he has low emotional intelligence, the effort of your feelings is often unequal.
People with low emotional intelligence are not easy to be grateful, she may not be able to feel it when you help her, and sometimes she thinks that she is lucky. A little favor can help, if you are still friends.
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My friend is also super low EQ, always thinking from his own point of view, never empathy, nor thinking about others, very naïve, and can't listen to criticism, last time we had a conflict, friends around him said he was wrong, he didn't want to be friends with me, and he just finished arguing, I scolded him fiercely, and it all broke out. But it's hard to say that you can't say that he is not sincere, but if you think about it, you are the same with him, you don't owe each other, you are emotionally invested, you can say if you are wrong, and you will never be patient.
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Although sometimes I will be angry and scolded, my friend will know that he has done something wrong, and he will become a little sheep and remain silent. And I'm the kind of strange human who doesn't hold grudges after scolding. This kind of friend is really love-hate at the same time.
I sometimes feel very sorry for those who have low emotional intelligence and are very kind, and hope that the people they meet in this life are good people. I sometimes envy such kind people with low emotional intelligence, because they will be unconditionally forgiven for their mistakes.
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People with low emotional intelligence can't be friends with me, and I won't be able to mess with me every minute. Because this kind of person has no way to judge the impact of his words and actions on others, it makes the communication very unpleasant. My friends are all people with high IQs and exquisite faces, and I'm pretty straightforward compared to them, maybe they think I have low EQ.
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If low EQ makes you unhappy, then it's okay to say it directly, it's still a good friend to correct it next time. I have mentioned many times that if there is no change, you can use this reason to alienate him, and also throw off the burden of your own interpersonal relationships, making friends is a matter of two people, not one person, and he treats you as a true friend does not mean that you should do the same.
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I used to have one by my side. Chatting with her can not support the words of the scene, write the scene lyrical, flashback, interpolation, chapter display, symbolism, association, response, allegorical in the scene, support the words of the object, contrast, contrast, set off, support the rise of the object, the beauty of the sorrow, rendering, the combination of fiction and reality, side description, indirect lyricism, all words must be directly expressed, positive description. Otherwise, it's hard to understand.
I always feel that my talent has nowhere to be used, and my full of routines can't be displayed. Probably other people will be full of grievances when they chat with her.
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If you are an adult with low EQ, and you still make the people around you uncomfortable, and there is nothing to be desired in other places, you can just pull it down, can't you make some friends with high EQ? Being friends with her directly affects your own way of speaking and doing things, and indirectly affects your image in the minds of others.
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If it's just low emotional intelligence, I'll stay away from her. But what I'm most afraid of is the kind of friend who has low emotional intelligence but is very kind. People are good people, and they don't care about things.
But he can't speak, and he can't do things clearly. But my mother often said that when you are angry, you should think more about the good of others. So after getting angry, I calmed down and remembered that this person was kind to me, and I understood that she didn't mean to do this.
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A person with low emotional intelligence is someone who has difficulties or challenges with emotional management, self-awareness, social interactions, and relationships. For this kind of person, we should look at it with an attitude of tolerance and understanding, rather than seeing it as a defect or an obstacle. We can look at it from the following aspects:
Understand:First of all, it is necessary to understand that people with low emotional intelligence may be caused by their living environment, family background, etc., and they may not have received enough emotional education, or lack self-awareness and self-regulation ability.
Respect:We should respect everyone's differences and characteristics, including those with low emotional intelligence. Everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, and we should respect their existence and not discriminate against or ridicule them.
Help:Cultivate:We can help people with low emotional intelligence by nurturing and guiding.
For example, you can offer emotional education courses or participate in emotional management training to help them learn to better manage their emotions and manage relationships.
We should respect each person's differences and characteristics, and help them grow and develop by helping and supporting them.
That is to do what you should do, try not to trouble others, and try not to take anything others say, try not to take it to heart, because sometimes it may be unreasonable, so don't pay attention to it. If there is anything else at work, try to help him, do your best, and don't be afraid of trouble.
It's good to go online and learn how to improve emotional intelligence.
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