Why do so many women want to earn something at home for nothing?

Because these women have more outdated ideas, they believe that a woman's responsibility is to teach her husband and children, be a good wife and mother, and take care of the family. For men, it is the man's responsibility to provide for the family and leave the earned money to the woman for safekeeping. This is also a lifestyle that many families are following nowadays.

This kind of woman has an absolute place in the home. Such a woman can only rely on men to live, if she leaves a man, she will not be able to support herself, she is completely incapable of gaining a place in society through her own efforts.

Maybe it's because they've been influenced by this. That's why they take this kind of life as the life they want to live. They appreciate this way of life and want to be her wife so comfortably at home.

Every day without having to work, you can enjoy everything that your husband has come back from working outside.

In the final analysis, it is due to their ideological inertia. They saw the marriage as a trade in exchange for material life. Just like the sentence I said before, marry a man and marry a man, dress and eat. However, times are changing, and this sentence is becoming more and more untenable.

Because today's girls have been pampered by their parents at home since they were young, they have no habit of wanting to do housework, and they don't have the intention of going out to earn money, so they like to stay at home without work.

And because parents nowadays dote on their children, they will say to their daughters since they were young, you don't have to work hard when you grow up, just find a good husband. It is precisely because of this sentence that many girls don't want to work hard. They think that if they find a good other half, they will entrust them with their whole lives, so they are not willing to struggle at all, they just want to get something for nothing.

And it is difficult for women to gain a foothold in this society, if they want to succeed, they have to work hundreds of times harder than boys, but girls also have such perseverance, so they think that they can't do it in the process of hard work, so they naturally give up, and then choose a good family, so they will be content for a lifetime. And girls are very satisfying animals, so they don't want to be too tired.

Personally, I think that women themselves especially like to get something for nothing, because when a woman marries a man, he thinks that this man should work hard in his career and take care of his family, then of course he wants to earn money at home through her husband and then support him. Every woman will think like this, even the kind of enterprising woman also wants to have this kind of life, but he knows that this kind of thing can't be wasted, everyone is so active and hard, you work hard for his career, so women want to get something for nothing, in fact, men also want to do this, but men are not qualified to do this, women can sometimes not come to the bill, to this kind of life is very rare. So these just want most girls to know that it is impossible in reality, so they will still work hard to support the family.

One, lazy. I have seen some girls who have been staying at home since graduating from college, even if they go out to look for a job, they will not do it for a few days, they can't endure hardships and can't stand it, no matter what work they do, they will feel hard. However, what job in the world can make people feel easy?

They who haven't gone out to work for a long time have become more and more lazy.

Second, whether you have skills or not, and the salary is too low to go out to find a job.

There are some women who have little education and have no opportunity to learn some skills. So when I went out to look for a job, I ran into walls everywhere, and finally I had to squat at home.

Three, I once read a short story about a husband complaining that his wife doesn't go out to work, which is what others see as unearned gains. However, in fact, when his wife is at home, she has to do housework, take care of the children, and take care of the family's daily life.

Housewives, in the eyes of most Chinese, are also the kind that do not work, even they dare not admit it, in fact, they will also create a lot of wealth in this society.

Both women and men, there are many people who want to work hard at home.

Who wouldn't want to reap the rewards without having to work their own? How many people go out to work hard now, do you think you like it very much? It's not just to support the family. Do you go to work to satisfy your hobbies?

It's not that people spurn for nothing. It's a channel for getting something for nothing. If you have a magic ring that can make you do everything you want, without having to work at all, and can achieve what you want, would you like to get something for nothing? Is there anyone still spurned?

To say that women want to get something for nothing is nothing more than to say that women who are kept in custody and women who are engaged in improper industries.

A woman doesn't want to go out to work, she wants to be supported by a rich man. Then you must be naturally beautiful, and have the means to please men. In fact, he is not unearned, using his innate conditions to make men feel very happy, and he is willing to spend this money for her.

A woman who engages in an unfair profession and who trades her body and health for the money. Didn't it also pay the price?

So it's not that they get it for nothing, it's just that the way they get money is despicable.

Such women are only a few, maybe these women are lazy, or it may be because they have been too spoiled by the family since they were children, they don't want to work hard at all when they grow up, they don't want to work hard at all, they just want to get something for nothing.

I don't think it is possible to use two examples to summarize all people, so it is partial and comprehensive, it is not accurate enough, some women do make people feel particularly annoying, they only want to get something for nothing, they don't want to work hard and study hard, such people are not ashamed of everyone, but such people are only a small number. Most girls are still willing to study hard and work hard in exchange for a better future, at least most of the girls around me are like this.

And today's girls are instilled with the idea that you may not have to work well, but you must marry well, and if you marry well, then you will not have to worry about food and clothing for the rest of your life, I have never known why it is approved by many people, what is the difference between girls and men? Aren't they all people with two eyes and one mouth? I don't think there are any different things that boys can do, and most of us can do it, so why don't we girls want to study and work?

The one who can ask this kind of question is definitely an old straight man, and the straight man coefficient is very high. There are some people I can't deny that they do want to spend a lot of money, eat and drink spicy food every day, and buy all kinds of luxury goods, but this is definitely not a representation of everyone.

Dude, I just want to ask, what are you marrying a daughter-in-law for? Based on your idea of a straight man, it is estimated that women are used to give birth to children, do housework, and make money by raising a family like you? <>

If a girl is willing to do this, it is self-reliant and willing to pay for the family, so what we didn't say, if the woman just doesn't want to go out to run business and work, what's wrong? Didn't you marry a daughter-in-law and bring it back just to be pampered?

If a woman has to give birth to a child and has to take care of a child, can she directly ignore the sins she suffers physically? If she doesn't earn money, doesn't she pay for this family? It is said that men and women are equal, but in fact they are equal?

There's nothing wrong with your household income not being that extravagant waste.

You will be uncomfortable if you spend a little money, just don't marry a daughter-in-law, you can live by yourself, how good it is to earn money and spend it yourself, women still have their youth to find others.

Every woman wants a stable life and true happiness at home.

And this kind of happiness makes me dispel my real goal, and I always want to get a real wealth at home, so that I can live a stable life.

And as time goes by, such women often give up their real lives, let themselves consume their youth every day, have no real success, and make their lives very tired.

This is when a woman really loses confidence in life, making herself always think that pie can fall from the sky, and let herself always think that she can get rich in one day.

Life is not like this at all, when a person really works hard, he can improve his life, and the current efforts are all for the sake of living a good life in the future.

When everyone really works hard, their mood will also improve, so that they will have plenty of time to do something meaningful every day, and let themselves bring a lot of happiness every day.

This is that people choose differently, people who work hard encounter difficulties, they will never be afraid of the bumpy road ahead, and they will always move forward bravely and move forward towards their goals.

And people who want to get something for nothing always want to take their own shortcuts, slowly wear down their will, make themselves lazy, and become bleak in their lives from then on.

1.Advancement of women.

With the difficulty of China's reform and opening up, the status of women has gradually improved. The improvement of women's status will naturally lead to some new types of problems, and the fact that girls are more willing to work at home is a new type of problem.

In fact, in the past, women have never had a status of unearned gain. Because in ancient times, women were also needed to work, otherwise an unvirtuous woman would definitely be divorced.

But now it's different, it's a society governed by the rule of law, so once you get married, you will be protected, and the woman will become fearless, because it is impossible to divorce him casually.

And as a woman's status increases, she will feel that she is obliged to be taken care of, so she will think about getting something for nothing.

2.It's just a small percentage of women.

Not all women want to get something for nothing, because most women in society still want to be independent, self-reliant, and prove that they are not weaker than men.

To be honest, I admire this kind of self-reliant and self-reliant girls very much, they are more attractive and more pleasing to men than the kind of girls who like to get something for nothing.

And women who like this kind of unearned income are only a few after all, and they will never become the public.