Love masters, I care about my girlfriend s past, what to do

Updated on psychology 2024-04-30
34 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    She's so honest in exchange for so much of your concern

    There will be no happiness for those who hold on to the past

    What you want is the future

    That's what I want to say

    If you still can't get rid of the knot, it's better to break up.

    It's a relief for you and for her

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Just because you're the first time, do you fancy her for the first time?

    If it weren't your first time, wouldn't you care ...

    Do you like her dripping feeling more than that for the first time...

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    How to say it, just one sentence:"If you really love her, if you set the selection criteria as ten, then the girl's past must be ranked last within these ten points. "

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    She said she didn't love you, in fact, she just wanted to keep her dignity, otherwise why would she be so good to you. The reason why she says she doesn't love you is because she doesn't want to be rejected, in fact, she will be afraid that you will give up on her because she didn't have the first time.

    I believe she is a good woman, otherwise she would not be so frank. So you have to believe what she says.

    If you really love her, don't care who she gives it to for the first time? Have a good talk to her and make sure that her heart is with you now.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Since you care so much, it's worth it.

    I won't be happy in the future.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    What is this. Ask. The point is that the question is finished. If it's not the answer you want. What do you do.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Passers-by just ... Finish it early and start looking again ...

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I care a lot about my girlfriend's past, it may be that you have a problem with your mentality, in fact, there is no need to be like this, anyone has his own past and experience, since the past has passed, there is no need to be too entangled, and there should not be too much psychological pressure, as long as you are good now, the relationship is particularly good, and you are sincere to you, don't embarrass yourself, life is not easy, two people meet together is fate, should be cherished.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Then change to a clean one, everyone has a past, of course you care about the reason for the past, if you can't get by, then change it.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you care, don't be together, in fact, your girlfriend's past is all in the past, you shouldn't care, and you don't need to care, as long as the relationship is good now.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you care a lot about your girlfriend's past and are sure that you can't cross this threshold, you should learn to let go, don't deceive yourself, and if you are reluctant to let go, you must accept your girlfriend's whole story, including her past, present and future.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If you're concerned about her past. Just let it go. Because even when you're together, you're going to fight a lot.

    If you are still a pure person. Just look for one. You like the pure person of it!

    If you don't care about her past. Be inclusive of everything she has.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    See if you really love her, then when you face her, you will also think of her past, and then come to torture yourself and torture her. Because you mind, there will be a gap between you and each other, in fact, everyone will have a past, why bother with the past, since you love each other, you should cherish it.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    This needs to be adjusted by yourself, ask yourself if you love her, love her to tolerate everything about her, measure the past you leave her now and entangle her past, which makes you more painful, if you can't bear to lose her pass, please let go of the past, go forward with her, as long as now, you are true love, it really doesn't matter if anything else matters, after all, what you have is her now, and what you love is her now.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I care a lot about my girlfriend's past, it's not advisable, the past is gone, if you've been struggling with the past, grievances and grievances, the two of you won't be happy, if you want to be with him, let go of the past, look forward to the future, and do everything today.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Since you care about her past, don't continue to talk to her, it will affect your future. The future of the two of you depends on good love to have a future, and you are always entangled in the past. After that, you have no future.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Some things should be let go, if you can't let go, I think in your heart will always be a pimple will always be a hurdle that cannot be overcome, so forget the past and face the future.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    People's whole life is looking at money, no one goes back, the past is a passing cloud, a few years later, you will feel that your ideas are very unnecessary!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If you care a lot about your girlfriend's past, then you give up this relationship, otherwise it will be unfair to you and her, and if you like her, you have to tolerate everything about her.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Do you also care what your girlfriend should do when she goes by? Where there is no past, let's go in the beginning. In the past, there was a little, maybe 1 or 5.

    Dear, you just don't inquire, there's nothing bad if you don't fight, you don't care about anything, you don't have to worry about this, people say that you can't go to whatever girlfriend you play. You have a little bit of the past, you think you have a little bit of the past, you are not tired, shouldn't you care so much? Thank you!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    The reality of life, the past has passed, care about the present, people are constantly changing, mature and steady, responsible, tolerant, as long as your girlfriend truly loves you, happy and happy, grow old together.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If you are particularly concerned about your girlfriend's past, break up decisively, her past is a thorn in your heart, you can't escape, you can't forget, only separation.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I think if you care too much about not being together, it may be a kind of torture for yourself, and it is not fair to the woman, she may be able to find a man who loves her and doesn't care about her past.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Re-examine the relationship: if you love him, then accept her past, create a time that belongs to both of you together, and if you can't let go of your heart, then give up, otherwise you will fall in love in a tangled way, painful and uncomfortable.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    You care a lot about your girlfriend's past, you should think a little more openly, and if you want to be together, then you should forgive her past.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If you really like her, you have to be brave enough to face everything about her past. If you can't cross this hurdle, then you give up on her.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Everyone has a past, youth and ignorance have made mistakes, if you really care, just give up, it's not good for each other to be reluctant to be together.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    If you really like your girlfriend, you don't care about his past, everyone has a past, you should care about him, whether it's good for you or not.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    You have to give your girlfriend a sense of security, just say that the past is gone, everyone should look forward, you love her the most.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    That means you don't love her very much, otherwise there is no need to care about her past, because you haven't appeared in the past, you just need to care about what is with you, everyone has their own past.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Friend, since you have chosen, you must face it bravely, we don't have a story yet!

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Then you have to understand each other, if you don't understand each other, you will definitely have conflicts with your girlfriend, and it will be difficult to be together in the end.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    I'm very concerned about my girlfriend's past, what should I do? Now that you have a relationship with him, you don't need to dwell on his past anymore, you should be open and good to her.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    The first thing to be clear is that everyone has their own emotional journey, including you and your girlfriend. Her past does not mean that imitating her present will have any effect on you, nor should it be an obstacle to your relationship. Therefore, it is not necessary to mind the emotional history of your girlfriend.

    If you really mind your girlfriend's past, it is recommended that you try to communicate with her calmly and listen to her explanations and opinions. However, please pay attention to the late link, respect her privacy and feelings in communication, and avoid asking questions that are too offensive or infringe on her rights.

    In addition to communication, you can also try to let go of mind and prejudice, and trust your girlfriend to be a responsible, trustworthy person who has the ability to handle your emotional relationship. If you truly love her and are willing to spend the future with her, you should face the problems you may encounter in the future together on the basis of openness, tolerance and understanding, and support each other and help each other grow.

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