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Everyone has a love for beauty, and every woman will always fantasize that she will give birth to a baby that is a hundred times more beautiful and cute than herself before she becomes a mother, but not every mother can make her wish come true. Every baby is just bornIt's ugly, like a little old manAnyone who has been a mother knows it. I'm also a mom,My appearance and my husband's appearance are relatively high, but the first time I saw my daughter was embarrassed, I felt that I had given birth to such an ugly child, and it was a little difficult to accept!
I wondered if the doctor was holding me the wrong one. But the old man next to me told me that children will grow more and more beautiful, and I saw that she still looked disgusted. I didn't hug her much after getting along for a month, and my feelings didn't increase much, I still disliked her very much, and I didn't take pictures of her, nor did I take photos with her, nor did I post them on Moments.
The relationship is deep, after all, your daughter gets along with her day and night, so her appearance will not be cared about, all you think about is to hope that she will grow up healthy and happy.
In addition, as a parent, you must learn to educate your children in response to this situation. Children are naïve, and there is no point of view whether they are beautiful or uglyDon't mislead them with adults' thinking and beauty and ugliness standards, the beauty of the soul is the most important thing. If you still care about it, you can only comfort yourself like this.
I believe that most parents still love their children, no matter how beautiful or ugly their children are, even if the children are born with disabilities or intellectual disabilities, they are not the same as feeding their children one bite at a time. In contrast, if the daughter is just ugly, she is still lucky, at least she can take care of herself.
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What does it feel like to have a beautiful mother, but an ugly daughter?
Very, very, very bad feeling, my mother is very beautiful, very, very temperamental. But I'm not so good... I'm more biased towards my father, so it's bad, it's bad.
I'd rather look like my mother or have a temperament, but I don't seem to have inherited it completely. This bad feeling is that I don't look like my mom very much.
In the past, when I went out, I usually didn't think I was like my mother. Once my aunt and my mother and I were walking down the street with my cousin, and most people thought that I was not born to my mother, but my cousin was born to my mother. Sad, sad, sad, sad with a capital letter.
Generally, if the mother is better looking than her daughter, she will say, "Oh, you look like your mother, but in fact, it is against your will, and you generally want to say that you look like your father." When I started to see you with my mother again, I still wanted to see your mother, and my mother said, "Oh, this is my daughter." She'll say she looks more like your mom?
It's cute, it's growing so fast. I was so embarrassed that I wouldn't say anything, standing behind my mom.
If you're with my dad, someone will come up and say, "Oh, this is your daughter, it's beautiful!" So speechless, helpless.
But I also have a good feeling when I go out with my mother, and that is every time I feel like pulling my mother out. The psychology is to show off to countless people, this is my mother, this is my mother, this is my mother. Hee-hee, my mom looks good!
Hee-hee, super happy! Super happy!
That's how I feel!
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I also saw a Weibo yesterday, which listed that although the mother is very beautiful, she can't bear the father's genes are too strong, resulting in her daughter not looking good. Moreover, **: one is Jackie Chan's junior and their daughter**, and the other is a photo of Wang Feng, Zhang Ziyi and their daughter.
I think this is ** making fun of his father's appearance. In the same way, don't you have a good look on the outside now, do you blame your mother for not being able to pass on your beautiful genes, and blame your father's genes for being too strong? This aspect of human genetics is not something we can control if we want to control it, and my mother has not been able to let you inherit her beautiful face, which is not my mother's fault, and it is very irrational to complain about my mother's approach.
In the same way, doesn't a father want his daughter to be beautiful and lovely? If they had a choice, they would want to mold you perfectly. It's not their fault, don't blame them.
And the way a person feels is certainly not just determined by one appearance. I once remembered watching a movie called "Heartbeat", in which the female protagonist was attracted by the male protagonist's eyes since she was a child, and she fell in love with the male protagonist. But the male protagonist hates the female protagonist very much, and even does something to hurt the female protagonist.
The heroine's father talked to the heroine about how to look at a person correctly when he was painting, and he didn't look at a person's part, just like painting a layout, not just a simple grass and cows, but looking at the layout of the whole painting. In the same way, the evaluation of people should be measured by the concept of the whole, some people are greater than the parts, and some people are often less than the sum of the parts. Therefore, it will be very painful to look at one's appearance in isolation and ignore the advantages of other aspects of oneself, and it is better to try to become a person whose whole is greater than the sum of its parts.
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It shows that the mother's own genes are too strong. Most of the children avoid the genetic characteristics of the father, so they directly inherit the mother's appearance, and the mother's appearance can also be inherited to the child from an early age, so that the child's appearance inherits the advantages of the mother, as well as words and deeds, actions and expressions are more inclined to the characteristics of the mother, and when the child grows up, the similarity of the facial features will be closer and clearer, so that we often can't tell whether it is a sister or an interesting phenomenon in the relationship between mother and daughter.
In addition to the inheritance of appearance and body shape characteristics, there is also a very important point is the inheritance of disease genes, that is, the genetic disease.
This kind of disease is generally caused by sex chromosome gene mutations or changes, if both parties have a large family genetic medical record, must be cautious, premarital physical examination or physical examination before preparing for pregnancy must be done, it is to the family, but also to the future child's life path to bear.
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Good. The daughter looks like her mother, which means that the child has inherited more genes from her mother, and her practices and temperament are similar to her mother in all aspects, and she will be better disciplined in the future.
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Summary. My dear, I'm glad to answer for you. Your daughter must be beautiful. It's normal for her to always feel bad-looking, and many people will feel that they are not perfect enough and want to make themselves more beautiful. Everyone has a love for beauty. <>
My daughter is actually very beautiful, but she always doesn't feel good-looking.
My dear very tall cong is leaking to answer for you. Your daughter must be beautiful. It's normal for her to always feel bad-looking, and many people will feel that they are not perfect enough and want to make themselves more beautiful. The heart of Zhengzhou, which loves beauty, is shared by everyone in the tomb. <>
Extended Information; Everyone has a love for beauty. Even talking about tomato plastic surgery is getting younger and younger, which shows that Aimei's sense of loss is getting younger and younger. In fact, children are in a critical period of growth, and cultivating "spiritual appearance" is more important than external appearance.
What is "spiritual beauty". In layman's terms, it is connotation and self-confidence, manners, words and deeds, and so on.
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First of all, the mother's statement may only be her personal opinions and feelings, and may not necessarily represent the real appearance or value of her daughter. Perhaps the mother has other stresses or reasons that cause her to be anxious or dissatisfied with the appearance of herself and her daughter.
Second, mom's attitudes can be influenced by societal and cultural expectations and pressures. In some cultures, women's physical appearance is given high value and significance, while in some societies, people with poor appearance may be discriminated against and ostracized. These factors may cause mothers to have higher expectations of their daughter's appearance, and may also cause her to be dissatisfied with her appearance.
In addition, the mother's statement may also be motivated by a kind of love and concern. She may want her daughter to appreciate her appearance more, maintain a healthy lifestyle, or increase her self-confidence and self-esteem. However, if the mother's way is too harsh or negative, it may have a negative impact on the mental health of the girl, so it is recommended that the mother should pay attention to the way and tone of voice when expressing her thoughts and opinions, as well as respect her daughter's feelings and wishes.
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Because it's the same as if you didn't want to be bright.
1. It may be that they themselves are okay, and they feel that their children should also be okay, but it backfires.
2. It may be that their other children are all growing up well, but the only one is not very good, and they feel very disappointed when they meet the envy of God.
3. It may be that the expectations are too great, the disappointment is too great, the quality is not enough, and the children are often vented and picky.
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Don't rob me, I'll answer!
Well, you can't grab it.
Let's put a few photos of my mother's ** when she was young, the younger brother of the house said before that my mother was really a beauty when she was young, and she looked good compared to other mothers when she went to a parent-teacher meeting, and the house was not as good-looking as her mother was when she was young.
I think, who made my mother make me so ugly, I'm ugly, but I have wisdom.
No shame).
Today, I invited my mother to the school cafeteria to eat my favorite omelet rice, (although I am already a college student, but I can get to the school when I leave the house) to walk with her, holding her like a child.
It seems that my mother has not raised me in vain for so many years, and raised me to be a cut higher than her.
I just want many people to see my tender (old) mother, ah, it was my mother who insisted that I say she is tender, obviously in her fifties.
But she's still very young in FACEU.
Love you, I hope I can get rich soon, and then buy you a lot of beautiful dresses!
Perhaps, Mom is the goddess who accompanies us along the way, although she is slowly getting older, you always want to expose her.
good night~
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Appearance is a time, and morality and cultivation are a lifetime.
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I'm sorry, I'm sorry, my hand slipped and stepped on, I didn't find how to cancel, my mother is beautiful
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