What has been the biggest blow to your life in the past few years?

The thing that hit me the most was when I gave up my first job. I think the two happiest things in life are finding someone who understands you and meeting someone who loves to do a job. When I talk about my work, I always think about it, and I sigh about this experience.

There are very few people in this life who can do what they love to do. Although I don't have a high diploma, the job I choose must be the most sacred and reassuring for me.

I am a preschool teacher, and before I went to Shanghai, I found a kindergarten that I thought was very good and worked there for a year. Through my efforts, teachers, parents and leaders are very positive and recognized for my work. Later, when I decided to go to Shanghai for development, I called the director of the kindergarten two months in advance to ask for resignation, but to my surprise, she did not let me go and withheld my salary for three months, and threatened me that if I did not stay, not only would I not have my salary, but I would also have to make up compensation.

But there was nothing in the contract that said how long in advance to ask for resignation or deduct wages, and when I asked her to show her the contract we signed, she said that it was a rule in the garden, and since it was set by herself, it had nothing to do with the law.

In this way, I am already in Shanghai, but this matter has not yet been settled. Later, I almost went to the legal route, but I didn't want to make things bigger, and then I negotiated with her that if I didn't give me the salary, then I wouldn't give up. I've never encountered such a grievance when I'm so old, I think I could have made an impression on each other, and I'm very grateful to the garden for giving me the opportunity to exercise.

But I didn't expect it to end like this, and this incident hit me very hard. Although I got my salary later, I still couldn't get rid of that knot in my heart, how could such a large unit have such a rogue director who treats the law as their family? It's been more than two years since this incident, but I still can't forget the scene when she quarreled with me in **.

It's just that I was too young at the beginning, and I was angry to find a black garden with three or five qualifications to silently dedicate my youth and be smeared!

"Life is never easy, if you think life is easy, then someone must have supported your hardship for you! ”

My life is quite peaceful, but recently I encountered an incident that made me very shocked and sad.

My grandfather's family and my family both live in the same community, and as time goes by, several of our children have grown up, and the health of the two elderly people is getting worse day by day. Grandparents' children began to take turns to take care of them, and our younger generation all went to work in other places, went to school, and occasionally went back to see them when we were on vacation.

In **, I learned that my grandfather's health is not very good, so we will come back when we have time, and my cousin and I planned to come back to see it during the Qingming Festival holiday, and said that we would hold on until we came back and could see us for the last time.

It's the best we could hope for. However, God did not go in the direction we expected, and at about 5 o'clock in the morning on Friday, we received bad news from home, saying that Grandpa was gone, let's go back quickly.

After receiving the **, I was stunned for a few seconds, and tears instantly flowed out of my eyes, which scared my roommate and asked me what happened. She also saw me crying very sadly, and I couldn't speak.

After a few minutes, I calmed down and started to refund my ticket the day after tomorrow and buy the earliest bus home. I contacted my cousins and cousins and they were all packing their things and getting ready to go home as much as I did.

When I got home, I saw the adults all wearing filial piety robes and standing downstairs at my grandfather's house. I thought it was all a dream, and I really wanted to wake up from it right away. But this is the reality, what I see in front of me is no longer a living grandfather, but a synthetic ** without flesh and blood.

When I got home, my grandfather's body had been transported away and was never seen again.

One after another, our relatives in other places have come over, a few of our juniors are in the grandpa's mourning hall to keep a vigil for him, when no one comes, we look at grandpa's ** in a daze, when I was a child, and grandpa and their life together have poured into my heart, but then I think about it, grandpa is no longer there, I can no longer eat the fried balls made by grandpa for the New Year, I can't drink the red bean porridge cooked by grandpa, and I can't make trouble when grandpa makes dumplings.

In the evening, my cousin and I volunteered to stay for my grandfather's vigil for the last night, and after a sad day, we were both a little tired, and we talked about some other things to ease the bad news that came suddenly.

Hello friends, in the past few years, the biggest blow to life has been ignorance.

Because when I was young and strong, I was not self-motivated, and I was more troubled about studying. That's why I can feel that I can't become a man without knowledge in life.

There is knowledge all over the world, ignorance is difficult to move an inch, this sentence is very reasonable, in life you must reach a certain age to understand this truth, so it is very difficult to life.

What's the one thing that has hit you the hardest in your life? A: One of the biggest things I did was when I first entered the society, the biggest thing in life was to work, how to support my family without a job, so what kind of life is there to talk about, so in my opinion, the biggest thing is to have a stable job.

It was very difficult to find a job in my modern era, and at that time, begging my grandfather to tell my grandmother to find a job was the biggest blow in my life. Because this is an experience, it does not represent anyone, because everyone's situation is different.