What s the biggest disappointment in friendship?

In friendship, the most disappointing thing is to deceive in order to satisfy vanity.

I have a friend who is from the same village as me, and the two of us have been playing since we were children, and we talk about everything.

When the two of us are getting bigger and bigger, this originally pure relationship has quietly changed. <>

Her vanity grows larger depending on her surroundings, and she always likes to exaggerate what she buys.

A year ago, I saw that she couldn't get a job, so I took her to where I worked, and where I worked, she quickly got along with my colleagues.

Always consciously or unconsciously, she exposed her valuable things, and after that, my colleagues would envy her.

At first, I thought it was nothing, girls, it's normal to be a little vanity.

But, later, she exaggerated a little too much.

She wore a pair of shoes, my colleague thought it was very good-looking, so I asked her how much it was, she opened her mouth and came to "6800", my colleague was shocked, so he came to ask me if it was true. <>

I also feel very confused, I know her family's family background best, her family is not poor, but she is definitely not rich, she also has a younger sister, her parents, how could they help her buy a pair of shoes for 6800?

My colleague said that she said that she was from South Korea, and I thought to myself, it could be 6800 won.

So, I went to ask her if it was RMB 6800 or Korean won 6800, and she told me seriously that it was RMB 6800.

I tested her a few words, and I said, you still have a sister, your mother is willing to buy you such expensive shoes? Her eyes flickered, and then she triumphantly told me that her boyfriend had bought them for her.

Her boyfriend, I'm not unseen, and he's just the son of an ordinary family, not to mention, the two of them haven't gotten married yet, a man, unless the family is particularly rich, it is impossible to buy such a valuable thing for that woman, not to mention, it's still a pair of 6800 shoes?

Later, the shoes she wore gradually became popular, and I saw many people wearing the exact same shoes as hers, and my colleague also bought two pairs.

My colleague told me that the shoes were only more than 100, and she said that when she went to buy shoes, she asked the clerk if the most expensive of these shoes might be 6800, and the clerk told her that this kind of shoes, even if they are genuine leather, only cost a few hundred yuan.

If you want to say a few hundred dollars, it's really possible, 6800? Come on, say it, no one believes it at all. <>

I was so disappointed that she and I didn't even speak a word of truth and deceived me in order to satisfy her own vanity.

In friendship, I was most disappointed that before I knew it, she stabbed me in the back. <>

People's lives are inseparable from family, friendship, and love, and they all have times when you feel warm. People will meet a lot of people in their lives, and they will also make friends with various different types of people, deal with them, and make friends. When there are happy things, they will share them together, celebrate happily together, sometimes they may go out to eat a big meal, and express the happiness in their hearts together in their favorite way; If there are troubles and sorrows, they will also confide in each other, share them together, find ways to solve the troubles together, sometimes they may hug each other and cry, sometimes they may get drunk, and if they are not drunk, they will not ......returnShare joys, sorrows, and sorrows.

Most of the time, friendship brings people a beautiful feeling, and what you experience is warmth. But people will always have many friendships, and friendships with different people are also different. Most of my friendships are very close and beautiful, but there are also one or two friendships that bring me more disappointment.

I still remember that at the beginning, we had similar interests, had a lot of topics to talk about, and played with two friends at school, and we had a good relationship. During class, we work hard together in the classroom to encourage and learn from each other; At the end of class, we go to eat together, play and exercise happily together; We would discuss the handsome guys in the class or the next class together, and we would deliberately meet the handsome boy; They will share delicious things, and they will share all the joys, sorrows, and sorrows......

Until one day, the roommate's hundreds of dollars in the dormitory disappeared. That roommate is very strange, she hid her well, how could she not see her! I searched all corners of the dormitory, but I still couldn't find it, and finally ruled out all possibilities.

She felt that her money must have been stolen, and that the dorm room was usually closed, unless there was an insider.

At this time, the roommates in the dormitory exploded and began to talk and suspect each other. Everyone started to say that they were innocent, and I was also guessing about the possibilities and wondering what was going on. When I wanted to say something after I thought of some eyebrows, the friend who was usually very nice to me spoke first, and she said to me:

After school that day, you said you weren't feeling well and went back to the dormitory first! Isn't it you! "When I heard this, I was stunned and thought to myself:

Oh, my God! Why does she think so much about me!! I was dumbfounded by the sudden remark, and after a moment I relented and replied:

How to ......How could it be ......It's me! The atmosphere suddenly became very stiff, and then I was innocent with tears in my eyes, and I could only call the roommate who had the money stolen and say, "Okay!

Then let's go to the teacher to search for everyone's gods, and the truth will be revealed when we check! Later, the teacher came and searched everyone's beds and bodies, and the results were shocking, I never expected that it was the friend who played well with me on weekdays! Maybe I'm too innocent!

I was disappointed by this! I treat her as a friend, and she has done bad things to slander me! After that, I was very careful with my friends, and I was more cautious about making friends than before.

I think the most disappointing thing in friendship is betrayal, because in a friendship, the personal meaning you have the right to me is a long-lasting, eternal, and can go on forever, even until the moment before I die.

But if friendship is betrayed, it does deal a huge blow to a person, and what kind of betrayal is it in particular? Probably you treat him as your good friend, tell him all your things, and then tell him, and then he shares these things with others as a laughing stock, and finally other people let you know about these actions of your friend through some means, which will be very disappointing, and this behavior is also summarized by me as a betrayal, because he shares your things with others when he gets along with others, treats your things as a laughing stock, and ** with others** like this, Personally, I think it's the biggest disrespect for myself, and it's also a re-evaluation of my friendship status in his heart.

That's why I'm the most taboo when I'm with others, and I never share the secrets I've been told with others, and that's why many people are willing to share their inner world with me. But I've had my share of my heart with other people, but they told other people about it, and it put me in a particularly awkward situation, and the friendship between the two of us may have come to an end.

Because there is too much to expect, or you are not getting the same reward for what you give.

Everyone is an adult, and in this world, except for your parents (most parents) who do not ask for anything in return for their children, any other relationship needs a certain amount of return.

Friendship also needs to go both ways, for example, what you think is good-looking, what is delicious, what is suitable for the other party, you buy and buy for her, if you are a normal person, you will need feedback, if your family conditions are good, you can not need material feedback, but you must need spiritual or emotional feedback, which is similar to the nature of falling in love. For example, you are friends for many years, you have different people in contact with after entering the society, you are in a state-owned enterprise and the other party is in a private company, or you are in a small place and the other party is in a big city, you accept different pressure, and the content you can talk about is not the same, when one day, you just want to talk to him about the recent life, complain about the leader, but he is busy, he did not have time to reply to you, what will you think? It's okay once or twice, but what about too many times?

When you grow up, everyone will come into contact with different friends, you think she is your best friend, and your only one is her, but then you find out that you are not her only one.

When one day you asked her out to play, only asked her, thinking that you would go shopping, eating and watching movies together, but I didn't expect her to ask someone else, you are just her friend for a period of time.

One day, when you are not rich, you save money to buy her something she likes for a long time for her birthday, and on your birthday, she even forgets to tell you happy birthday.

Don't say that it's wrong to have expectations for the people around you, you didn't do anything wrong, because people are social creatures, we need feedback, we need to pay in return, you are not wrong, I can only say, I hope you understand, you really give, you can, just don't regret it.

What is the most indestructible thing in the world? What is a friend to oneself? As an adult, you must understand that this world is really unreliable except for yourself and money.

If you're disappointed in friendship, work hard to make money and buy what you want, so you don't have to expect someone to give it away.

Not many people can get along with very good friends are hard to find, find a like-minded friend, many people, play well, but can not withstand the wind and rain, can not withstand the experience of time, let alone the conflict of interests. Friends, sometimes so vulnerable.

I used to have a good friend, who was in the same class for three years in high school, and I kept in touch until college, one day, he said that he was short of money recently, and asked me to borrow 2,000 yuan, and it happened that I had extra money at that time, so I lent it to him, and he promised to pay it back at the end of the month. When the end of the month came, he didn't pay it back, and another two weeks passed, and it was the middle of the second month, and he still didn't pay it back, not only did he not pay it back, but he didn't tell me the reason why he didn't pay it back after the promised date. I comforted myself at the time that maybe he had forgotten, but another voice told me that if I borrowed 2,000 yuan, not 20 yuan, how could I forget?

2,000 yuan is not a small amount for a student. After another two weeks, I finally couldn't help it anymore and asked my friend, and I asked him why he promised to pay it back at the end of the month and why it hadn't been paid back for almost a month. He said he didn't have any money now, I said, you don't have any money, you should tell me if you can't pay it off on the promised date, he blamed me a little, he said, you're not, why are you so stingy, and it's not that you don't pay you back.

After a wave of three festivals, I finally got back 2,000 yuan after three months, but we are no longer friends.

I can ask you for a meal of 100 yuan, and I can even buy you a gift of 1,000 yuan, but you must pay it back if you borrow 10 yuan from me. It's a credit issue, and if it's just an ordinary acquaintance, I don't mind much, but if it's a good friend, I think it's going to be disappointing, and I hope my friend will be a heavy commit. Based on the essence, friends borrow money and do not pay it back, many people are holding the psychology that you dare not open to him, he will feel that you will not destroy their friendship for this money, yes, if it is a special situation, such as you are sick and have no money to pay for medical expenses, I will not cut off friends with you because of this money, but you borrow money and do not pay it back, I will break off the relationship with you not because of this 2000 yuan, but because of your credit.

I hope you should pay attention to your credit, as the saying goes, there is a loan and a repayment, and it is not difficult to borrow again, even if it is true that it is not repaid on the promised date, it is necessary to explain the reasons in time, so that your friends feel that you have been paying attention to this matter psychologically. Don't ruin your credibility with a little money, you'll lose a lot of money.

There is also jealousy of friends, which is more common among girls, girls will always often be jealous of their best friends, such as the clothes she buys are more expensive than mine, his boyfriend is more handsome than me, his family is richer than me, I have even seen a lot of girlfriends turn against each other, mostly because of the word jealousy. But what I want to say is that this kind of friendship is not real, it is just for need, it may be to play together to relieve loneliness, at most it can only be called mutual use, real friends, when they see each other's good, they are happy for each other, they will envy, but they will not be jealous.

Don't disbelieve in friendship, sometimes it's just that you haven't met it yet, manage yourself with your heart, have your own principles for doing things, I believe that there will be like-minded people who will walk through your life with you, rather lack than abuse.

Friendship refers to the feelings of friends other than relatives, that is, friends, friends are using each other, it is not very good when it comes to the critical time, relatives often can help you unconditionally at the most critical time, and friends are not, it is normal to be disappointed in friendship, and you will understand when you take more roads.