Regarding getting married and buying a house, should the man ask the woman to pay for it?

The woman can pay, there is no problem, but this requirement should be realized by the girl herself, not by the boy very bluntly, so that the image of the boy in the girl's mind will be dropped.

I think that if you buy a house before getting married, the man should not ask the woman to pay, because this is only the most basic condition for a man to marry a woman, if a man can't even guarantee your residence after marriage, then why should I marry you; Of course, if you buy a house after getting married, the man can ask for it, after all, this is the time to work together for the future of the two people.

The man should be happy if the woman is willing to pay, and the boy should not be forced if the woman is not willing to pay. After all, since ancient times, it has been men who buy houses, and it is reasonable for girls not to pay for them.

First of all, if you want the other party to pay, then you should write the other party's name on the real estate deed, which I think is indeed the way to do.

If you are rushing to get married and the other party is willing to add your name to the real estate certificate, you can ask the other party to also pay, as for how much to pay, that is your own negotiation, it should be noted that if the name and proportion of divorce is a very troublesome thing! Think carefully!

Although the status of women has now been improved, they have become a veritable half of the sky in terms of social treatment, family treatment and spiritual treatment. However, after all, the difference in social attributes and the difference in physical strength between men and women is a fact that cannot be changed, so men are still the main responsibility of society or family. Men and women in love, husband and wife in marriage, family, and society, can't jump out of this circle, and can't get rid of this model.

What's more, thousands of years of traditional thinking, coupled with the shackles that people now put on themselves. It is necessary for a man to marry a wife, buy a house and buy a car and give a bride price, and it is natural and righteous, and there is no question of whether it should or should not be.

Not to mention whether it is money or not, the man asks the woman for money one by one, whether it is the role of the man himself or the family, it represents the man himself! It's a bit shameless, it is estimated that there is a problem with morality, and it will calculate people, you will not get true feelings in this kind of family, and it is just a relationship of interest, it is not recommended to continue to communicate, and evacuate early, otherwise you may be hurt even more. Survival of the fittest, at least find a man who can overcome it by himself even if he has no money, instead of blindly embarrassing the woman, at least he doesn't know that people who do what they can are unreliable and not worth entrusting for life.

Generally, the man is responsible for buying a house, and if he can't pay the full amount, he can make a down payment, and if the down payment is not enough, the man can find a way to solve it by himself, after all, it is not the full amount. This kind of behavior makes people feel that there is a problem, and they are reluctant to spend money and want to marry a daughter-in-law, which is rare in this society now, and it is estimated that it is too easy for the woman to succeed, and people look down on it, just calculated.

I think it depends on ability, and at first two people will not be together for money, don't make two families uncomfortable because of this kind of thing.

It should be, but if the woman doesn't come out, won't you marry? So on this issue, the general man is in a weak position and can only pay for it himself, and the woman can do whatever she wants, and she can't come out if she doesn't want to.

Are you going to get married? Is there still parental consent? If one party does not agree, the money cannot be paid to the woman, otherwise there will be a lot of trouble in the future!

It's the same for you and for girls. At the same time, you ask the girl to pay for the house, please ask whose name is written on the house, first of all, you don't have a marriage certificate, you can't write the names of two people. But if you only write your name, will the girl agree?

The same girl paid for it, and she said that she wanted to write her name and not yours, would you agree? It's a real problem! I don't think many men would agree!

In reality, there are many people who marry naked between men and women, they are not secular, not kitsch, and do not take the road of economic marriage, what they want is mutual understanding, mutual tolerance, and joint growth, rather than a lot of things and enjoy their success. There is no right or not, two people and two families, just discuss and deal with each other, there is no immutable phenomenon and explanation.

In the matter of buying a house, if you love each other and trust each other, this should not be a problem, if you love her, you will naturally do everything you can to give her an ideal home, if she loves you enough, she will do her best to share it with you.

This is the time to consider whose name is written on the title deed. Write the names of both parties, you can communicate and buy a house together, if you write your own name, forget it, after all, if you are not married, no one knows what will happen in the future. The above is a personal opinion only.

I think the same should be true for women, but most of the responsibility lies with the man.

You can look at the man's family conditions, and the house after marriage is also where the two of you live, if it is really difficult, you can put it forward.

Legal analysis: If the house is registered in the woman's name before the marriage, the ownership of the house belongs to the woman; However, the woman shall pay you the discount of the house after the increase in value according to the proportion of your payment in the total house payment. It is recommended to entrust a lawyer to intervene to collect relevant evidence first, and then if the negotiation fails, you can sue the court for processing, so as to protect your legitimate rights and interests to the greatest extent.

Legal basis: Civil Code of the People's Republic of China

Article 1046:Marriage shall be completely voluntary between a man and a woman, and neither party shall be allowed to coerce the other, nor shall any organization or individual interfere with it.

Article 1047:The age of marriage shall not be earlier than 22 years for men and 20 years old for women.

Article 1048:Marriage is prohibited for lineal blood relatives or collateral blood relatives within three generations.

Article 1049 A man and a woman who wish to marry shall apply for marriage registration in person at the marriage registration authority. Where the provisions of this Law are met, they shall be registered and a marriage certificate shall be issued. The marriage relationship is established after the marriage is registered. Where marriage registration has not been completed, the registration shall be re-registered.

Article 1050:After marriage is registered, the woman may become a member of the man's family, and the man may become a member of the woman's family, in accordance with the agreement between the man and the woman.

Article 1051 Marriage shall be null and void under any of the following circumstances:

a) bigamy; 2) Have a family relationship that prohibits marriage;

3) They have not reached the legal age for marriage.

I think it is necessary for the woman to provide some financial support, which will be of great help to the happiness of the two people after marriage.

When a couple comes to the threshold of marriage, buying a house is a dilemma that most couples have to face. In real life, it is generally the boy who is responsible for buying a wedding house, but this is a huge pressure on the man's family. Whether a girl pays at such a moment or not has a great impact on the future life of two people.

Married life requires two people to run together, and the mortgage is a large part of the living expenses of two people. I have a friend who lives in Jinan, and he and his daughter-in-law have just gotten married, and in their lives, the mortgage expenses can basically account for more than half of the living expenses.

Of course, the marriage house was bought by a boy, but the mortgage expenses in life need to be borne by two people, which causes a lot of pressure on two people. For ordinary families, it is not easy to make a down payment, and there is no ability to pay more.

But for a young couple who have entered into marriage, it is impossible to pay off the mortgage in a short time. Two people can only work hard to earn money and save money in life to cope with the pressure from life.

I think it is necessary for the woman to contribute part of the money to buy a wedding house, which is very helpful for married life. Everyone should understand a simple truth, the more you make a down payment, the less you will borrow, and the less you need to repay the mortgage.

If the woman is willing to pay a part of the money, then the real estate certificate can be written in the names of two people openly, and no one will object; The mortgage pressure of the two people after marriage is not so great, and the economy will not be too tight; Buying a house together with two people can reduce a lot of pressure on the man's family and make the boy feel the love from the other half.

In fact, girls have too many concerns about paying money, which I can understand, but you have decided to enter into marriage with a man, and if you have the ability, you can contribute some money when buying a wedding house, I think it is also necessary.

In fact, in real life, the confidence of the husband and wife lies in their respective economic income and contribution to the family. When the woman is willing to contribute part of the money to buy a wedding house, in this family, she is more confident to speak.

It is the freedom of girls to pay or not to pay, and this is in the future married life, and girls' money will be spent in life sooner or later.

It is also necessary for the woman to pay for the purchase, and the woman can also pay for the marriage house with her husband, and the name on the real estate certificate must also be shared by the two of them. Nowadays, many people think that marriage means that the man pays for the marriage house, and the woman can move in directly, which is a wrong understanding of marriage.

It depends on whether you want to write your name on the wedding house, if there is your name on the house, then you should pay for it. After all, buying a house is a lot of money, if the house has half of yours, it is better to pay for it, after all, it is not easy to buy a house now.

This depends on the specific situation, if the woman pays the money, the name of both the man and the woman should be written on the real estate certificate, so as to facilitate the division of property in the future, if the man wants to buy his own marriage house, then the woman does not need to pay, and there is no problem of property division in the future.

It is necessary, love is mutual, marriage is composed of many factors, in case of blindly giving, love will change after a long time, and the woman will be very confident to contribute some money.

You can pay for it, because after all, you have to live together after marriage, and if the woman really has no money or the man is financially good, it is okay not to pay.

There is certainly no need for the woman to pay for it, it is a pre-marital property. If two people get married, the woman can pay for it.

It is necessary because the rest of life is lived by two people, and there is no reason for one man to pay, unless it is determined that only the man's parents will be supported.

I think there is, the marriage house is the housing of the husband and wife after marriage, and both husband and wife should pay for it, which is not only fair but also a guarantee for the future.

Marriage is a matter of two people, buying a house and buying a car must be discussed by both parties, and everything is beautiful to communicate well.