What is it like to have an unreasonable aunt?

<> my aunt was paranoid and unreasonable because she had come out to work early and hadn't read much.

1. There is no right or wrong in things, only elders.

Once my aunt had a conflict with my cousin, it was good at first, but I don't know why, my aunt suddenly lost her temper, and then scolded my cousin, at first my cousin endured, but she didn't give up, and then continued to scold, at this time my cousin couldn't stand it, and scolded her a few words, at this time my aunt felt particularly wronged, felt that my cousin was not filial, and actually dared to contradict the elders, and then wanted to die or live, saying that he had no status in the family, in fact, from the perspective of the person next to me, my cousin was right, My aunt can't just because she is an elder, and then take it for granted that the elders should teach the younger generations a lesson, and then the younger generations should not fight back, scold and not return the mouth, now people need to be reasonable, using their identity as an elder to let others accept something unreasonable, parents may not be able to do it.

2. Indiscriminate, only regional.

When my aunt evaluates a person, it is not directly based on other people's character and observation, but people are also cloudy, others say that only everyone is a fellow countryman, a local will be kind, some people in other places, especially those in other provinces, will be very bad, treacherous in their hearts, and then my aunt is very stubborn to think so, although I have met a lot of very good friends from other provinces, after my aunt knows, she will also remind me intentionally or unintentionally, let me be careful of these people, so as not to suffer losses, I also explained to her many times from an objective point of view, but she couldn't listen to it, and said that she didn't listen to the old man, and suffered in front of her, well, no matter how much explanation and dispute was useless, otherwise I would blame me for not respecting my elders, it was better to find a way to get along with each other.

<>I really feel sorry for my sister and my brother... Stand up to my aunt's unreasonable mother.

My eldest aunt was notoriously unreasonable, and I really couldn't find a second person other than my good-natured uncle, who could put up with my aunt. Growing up, I always saw my sister and my brother being reprimanded by my aunt, my sister was relatively gentle, and even if she was scolded, she would not quarrel with my aunt. But my brother is indeed a hot-tempered person, and he is very assertive, and as my brother gets older, the difference between the opinions of the two people becomes, and the number of quarrels increases.

My aunt is a very strong person, and she likes to give orders, if anyone disagrees with her, then she will not care if you are right or not, she always wants you to listen to her, if you don't listen, it will be endless quarrels and nagging, and she will not stop until her goal is achieved. The most unbearable time should be my brother's change of girlfriend.

My aunt wanted my brother to find a girl near home, saying that she knew the roots, and people were at ease, but my brother brought back a mushroom cool, and the first time I came to the door, the family was persuaded for a long time before I was willing to let people in, and then no matter how people showed goodwill, my aunt was a straight face, and kept persuading my brother to change his girlfriend. made the family unhappy, and even later, despite the opposition of the family, he insisted on introducing my brother to someone, and almost made my brother's marriage, alas...

Now that my brother is finally married, my sister-in-law is very good to my aunt, and my aunt is slowly changing her attitude, I also think that the family should get along in harmony, so that it will be happier, or I feel sorry for my brother, I hope they are happy!

<> felt like I had met a shrew. My grandmother gave birth to two daughters, an eldest aunt and a second aunt. But the two of them have completely different personalities.

It's a world of difference. The aunt has a short temper and a tough personality, and she gets angry when she says she is angry. The second aunt has a gentle personality, is reasonable, and is also relatively weak.

My aunt used to love me, and after my parents divorced, she often bought me clothes to wear and took me to live in his house. But then the relationship between us faded a lot. Maybe it's because she had a falling out with my father.

I don't know the specific situation, because I was still relatively young at that time, and I didn't understand the world. I remember one time, my grandmother was a matchmaker for the people in the village, and the meeting place was set at my house. There were many people in the family, and my grandmother was the key person.

But she would go to someone's house. Then my aunt happened to be there, so I asked my grandmother to go to **, and I said let's go to the door. She told me to get my grandmother back.

But I was doing my homework and didn't have time. She thought I was embarrassed to go to someone else's house. Tell my grandpa I'm such a shit!

OMG! I was so angry that I cried. Since then, I have not had a good impression of my aunt.

The most infuriating thing is that she made my grandmother angry with a cerebral hemorrhage. So far, he is slumped in bed. I remember that it was my grandfather's birthday, and neither my aunt nor my brother-in-law came to my grandfather's birthday.

Mainly because the day before her birthday, she and my grandmother had a fight, so after she left, she said that she would never come to see you two again, and that we would go our separate ways in the future. My grandma thought she was talking casually. I didn't expect it to be true.

So in a fit of rage, I had a cerebral hemorrhage. She regretted it, but it didn't help.