What do we think when we are confused?

When people are confused, they hope to be accompanied by relatives and friends, chat together, drink wine, and perhaps the guidance of relatives and friends can make them have an epiphany. When people are confused, they hope to go out, take a look, take a look, even if they are absent-minded and wandering around, change the environment, change their thinking, maybe they can suddenly open up. In any case, when people are confused, they are often the most entangled, the most difficult to identify, the most headache, the most painful, and the most tired.

There are always many confused times in life, and it is crucial to think carefully, weigh the pros and cons, make the best choice, and walk well every time in life.

When I am confused, I think about my parents, how hard they worked to farm in the countryside, and how much they have to support their family at the age of retirement in order to make it easy for us to move forward, so I am no longer confused.

What do people think when they are confused? I've been confused myself, but for a while I couldn't do anything. No matter what you do, you can't get the approval of others, and you feel like you're doing something wrong.

I also tried hard, and I struggled, but it just didn't work. And the more you do it, the more you lose confidence, and the more you do it, the more disappointed you become. I have paid for myself, but I can't get the approval of others, I feel very helpless, I feel that no matter what I do, I can't lift my spirit, I am very decadent and confused, and I often have an idea in my head, I want to get out of the dust city, stay away from the noise, I want to free myself, and go to a no-man's land to be a hermit.

But in the end, it didn't work out, because there are parents and children, you can't just be a hermit without asking anything, right? People don't live in this world just for themselves, they can't be too selfish, and they can't be too selfish. That's what I thought when I was confused.

People in the rivers and lakes, things that don't go well occasionally happen, setbacks or choices are also common, confused, often because you can't see the way forward, where to go and where to judge the helplessness of a moment. Either you can't find the way forward, or you can't decide on something important, or you are too frustrated to extricate yourself, and confusion must be a knot that makes your mind difficult to untie for a while. When I am confused, I will think quietly alone, or talk to my confidants and friends to listen to the understanding and opinions of outsiders.

You can also find a landscape, take a break, and find a way out for yourself. When you are confused, the most taboo is to be depressed and drill the horns of the bull, which will deviate the problem and may not find the fighting spirit.

Everyone will be confused at every stage, and they will be confused until they die, and confusion is the normal state of life. When you feel lost, it is probably because you suddenly can't find your life goal for a period of time and don't know what to do. Control your emotions, cut off the negative ones, and don't go in a worse direction.

It's easy for people to be cranky when they're confused, and crankiness and confusion actually complement each other, and the more you think, the more confused you become. It is extremely difficult to understand the future, but it may be easier to know yourself. If you know yourself well enough, you will know what kind of options will make you comfortable.

Listen to me, don't make any discouraged decisions when you're confused, be calm, be calm! For example, when I was studying in Russia, I didn't have anything to do, and I thought every day: What am I here?

What am I doing? What's the point of me doing this? I'm dropping out of school!

I want to go home! According to my experience, I still have to enrich myself and do what I can, such as studying hard.

When I saw the confusion, my heart trembled, and I trembled terribly, because I was the one who was confused. I wanted to do something, but I couldn't think of anything, not only did I have no money, but even my brain seemed to stop. Rigidly dragging day after day down.

I want to work, but I am reluctant to enter the factory, and the time inside is too long, and my brain always has an endless breath of air. Do a kind of sales, I don't feel like I have the heart to insist, I go home after dividing five by two, and even go out by myself and am afraid of strangers inexplicably. It's really tiring to be confused, and you only dare to raise your head when you're in your own home or alone.

When you are confused, you go out and turn left and you don't know the way back.

Think about what you really want, and only when you understand what you want can you move firmly in one direction.

When you are confused, you may be irritable, you may complain, you may give up your original intention, and when you are confused, you are in a low state, and it is easy to do something you regret.

When I'm confused, I usually think about the good things in the past or the people I like and miss.

At the beginning, I was also confused, and when I was confused, I calmed down and then planned my life well.

Fresh graduates who are new to the workplace may have nothing but a diploma in their hands. When I first started working, I was very confused about the future, I didn't know how to work hard, and I didn't have a direction. I even think that the knowledge I learned when I was a student seems to be useless.

A few years of expertise may not be as good as the one or two years of work experience that others have. Compared with the confusion in life, the confusion in the workplace may bring us more anxiety and anxiety, because it is related to whether we can get a sense of accomplishment in our work, whether we can get the life we want through our own efforts, and even closely related to our survival, status, and recognition in society. Therefore, even if it is an "old fritter" in the workplace, more or less Sodou will go through several periods of confusion in the workplace, just like a child will have a rebellious period when he reaches an age, and it is generally impossible to avoid such a thing.

So how should we get through this phase?

Empty yourself. In fact, the most important thing to do when you are confused is not to rush to "do something", but to be able to cool down first and give yourself a period of "empty" time.

A large part of the reason why people are confused may be that they do not have "a skill", or they are not confident in their existing abilities, so they want to change the current state, thus affecting the future development trend, but they do not know where to start and cause a kind of "depression" that arises from the powerlessness. It's just that if you want to hurry, you can't reach it.

Is the "direction" that has been determined too hastily and urgently is really what our hearts want? Before carrying out a baptismal "confused reflection", what is more needed is a truly relaxed "emptying" stage.

Be clear about your purpose. Everyone does everything for a purpose, just like playing a game, the ultimate purpose of playing a game is to get happy, whether it's fighting a boss to blast out the equipment you want, or ranking with friends, it's all an act to get happy, and this direction is clear.

Setting goals for yourself is actually about finding a sense of direction. You can set a short-term goal for yourself, generally speaking, long-term goals are difficult to set in a short period of time, especially during the period of confusion. But short-term goals are easy, even if it's just a small thing, such as in life, I want to stick to daily fitness; At work, I will insist on reaching the work target every week during this month.

Experience the confusion. Confusion exists in stages, and it is very difficult to get out of it eagerly. Because everything is unknown, there will be periods of confusion, and life is a staged experience, experiencing all the stages, all the joys, sorrows, and sorrows.

Caught in the confusion period of the workplace, everyone seems to be crossing the river in the dark, but life always has to go on, we should find problems, solve problems, take the current confusion as a gift, maybe wait for the day of epiphany, you will thank yourself for being confused. When the fog that plagues us clears, I believe that everything will be refreshed.

The period of confusion is something that everyone has, or have to heal themselves, go out for a walk, travel to see the outside of the Yuchun world, I think it is the best way for Jane Nai. Secondly, you can exercise to destroy the body, to read, to improve yourself, not to make yourself into a vicious circle, you are happy the most important thing!

Thanks for having me! I graduated in '08, and what I want to do most after graduation is advertising design, after all, it is my major. Then I started looking for a job, and that time was the most confusing time of my life.

I have submitted a lot of resumes on the Internet, but there are few responses, fresh graduates, no relevant work experience, and many companies do not want them. And I can't look down on the recruitment of general workers in those factories, after all, I have read books for so many years, and I can't stand the gap of running to be a worker. Later, all the living expenses were exhausted, and I had no choice but to do it under pressure, so I went to Sohu to do online game promotion, ran an Internet café every day, and could walk tens of thousands of steps a day, which was particularly tiring, especially in Wuhan, a furnace city, for eight months, and I usually saved money to save about 800 yuan in addition to rent and daily expenses, and then I quit my job.

During this time, I feel that my mentality has changed a lot, and I feel that it doesn't matter what you do, the most important thing is to make money. During the Chinese New Year, I went home once, and at the class reunion, I saw that many high school classmates were mixing well, as we all know, this kind of party has a great impact on my mentality for students who have just graduated. After resigning, I saved some money in my hand, and began to set up my own stall, living in Wuchang at that time, buying some cups from Hankou, and selling them at the gate of the university at night, I could probably earn seven or eight thousand a month, and this situation lasted for a year.

Later, I met my current wife, and I needed to be more stable, so I embarked on the road of commuting on time again.

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1.Reduce the options.

When people are confused, they are always undecided, they don't know what they should do, and they don't know how to plan their future, and the reason why this happens is because there are too many choices in front of them. Because there are so many paths to follow in front of us, we are always afraid that if we choose one of these paths, we will find out that it is the wrong path, and we will not be able to bear the consequences.

If you don't dare to make a choice just because you're afraid of the outcome that hasn't happened yet, then you'll never get out of the confusion period. Why not reduce your choices and choose the path that interests you the most, you can avoid a lot of hesitation and worries, and believe that everything is the best arrangement.

In fact, the most important thing in your future life is not your choice, but your own ability, capable people, even if they choose the worst path, they can also walk out of their own "flower road".

2.Enrich yourself.

People are easy to be anxious and anxious when they are confused, and instead of letting their thoughts fill their brains, it is better to calm down and read and study, and use this period of confusion to enrich which acres to rent themselves.

People should never forget to learn, whether you learn through books or through the Internet, the process of learning is the process of your understanding and cognition of the world, and it is a process of your self-improvement.

Through learning, you may be able to find a way out of the confusion, even if you don't find it, it will make you more confident and determined, and it is only a matter of time before you clear the fog in front of you. To enrich yourself is to recharge yourself, and when you are full of energy, you will have the strength to fight against the world.

3.Stay confident.

When a person is in a period of confusion, it is easy to fall into self-doubt, I don't know what I should do, and I don't think I can do it well, so I will wrap myself up and reduce my contact with the outside world.

Therefore, it is very important to maintain confidence at this time, and only by believing in yourself and having confidence in yourself can you maintain your enthusiasm for things. When we come to a moment of true despair, faith is the only way out, and faith enables us not to give up and give our all even in moments of despair in external circumstances.

When people are confused, they are always prone to doubt themselves, indicating that they have not established a correct self-awareness. You can choose a character benchmark. This benchmark object can be your friends, relatives, idols, elders, etc., see hope from the benchmark, and gradually move closer to each other through their own efforts and interests, and learn the strengths and advantages of the benchmark.

So there is a goal.

It is advisable to try to review and reflect. If the current situation is not as you want, then please think about what you have done that has led to this situation, what considerations are inappropriate, look forward to the future, which ones I should do, which ones should be abandoned, and arrange what you need to do to act now. A person with concentration naturally bids farewell to confusion.

Lingfan Chong.

Man lives. In order to experience joys and sorrows, birth, old age, sickness and death, in order to understand what people live for?

In order to realize their own ideals, pursuits, goals, desires and values.

It's very tiring and hard to live because society is very unfair, it's very helpless to live, sad and sad to cry, and if you find something to do, it's not boring.

Because, life is like this.

No one's life is smooth sailing, as long as you work hard, it is wonderful!

Be optimistic about anything and keep a normal heart.

Life will inevitably fall and wait, you must be brave to look up, the sun is always after the wind and rain!

I'll give you advice, can you see it?

1.Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you were walking, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day".

2.If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't need to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ......

3.Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down.

4.Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax.

5.Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, silently reciting "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale.

6.Concentrate your attention on everyday objects. For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties. Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it.

7.Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water.

8.Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand.

For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping in the drain bush, listening to **, watching TV, etc.

9.Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy. Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful.