How hard can I get my former beloved girlfriend back?

1. It takes a certain process for two people to get acquainted, know each other and fall in love, and a lot of things may happen in the middle. So, what if a couple breaks up after being together for one reason or another, and the man still likes his ex-girlfriend and wants to get it back? In my opinion, you can try the following methods.

2. First of all, think about why you broke up. Is it because of one thing, or because of your personal reasons. If it's because of something, find out why it happened and find an opportunity to sit down with your ex-girlfriend and have a good conversation.

Explain what happened and why, as well as your opinion, and how to solve the problem. Try to make your ex-girlfriend as happy as possible, if the matter is resolved and your ex-girlfriend is also very satisfied, then there is a high probability that your chances of getting back together with her will greatly increase. At this time, you can talk about some of your thoughts and feelings for her, and then say that you are reluctant to part with her.

In the end, he said that he hoped to get back together with her, and he would take more care and love for her.

Third, secondly, if it is because of your personal reasons. You should find the problem in yourself, is it not giving your girlfriend a sense of security? Or is he not careful enough about his girlfriend and doesn't make small surprises from time to time?

No matter what the reason is, after finding it, conduct deep introspection, and summarize your own problems, and how to correct them in the future. At this time, you can find an opportunity to set up a composite scene for your ex-girlfriend, and then prepare some small surprises. It should be noted that it does not need to be gorgeous, it only needs to be small and fine, and the most important thing is sincerity.

Then he made an appointment with his ex-girlfriend to the location, confessed to her, and explained that he would get rid of all his shortcomings and love her well in the future. I think that through the above two methods, you can greatly increase the chance of getting back together. Finally, I want to say that it is not easy for two people to be together, and we must cherish it more.

You should use some gentle ways to chase your ex-girlfriend, and you can't harass each other often and frequently. Also prepare some surprises for each other, and also remember the anniversary before the two people. You should also buy some gifts for each other.

You can buy some items that the other party likes, you can buy some flowers for each other, you should take the initiative to care about each other in life, you can also help each other do some small things within your ability, you can buy some jewelry for each other.

1. Don't choose the Cold War, otherwise it will be really cold, you must reply to the message in seconds, send a message every few minutes, if the situation does not allow, commute to work, and send a message when you have free time. That way she'll feel like you care about her.

2. Don't say things like "why are you always like this" or "why can't you consider my feelings". This kind of thing should be discussed with her when you are not angry. When a girl is angry, reasoning is the most useless.

3, sweet words are indispensable, it's a girl, I can't stand those fleshy love words like you, love you, etc., how many times I say it is not enough. But don't say the same thing every time, it's counterproductive.

First, don't force yourself to play and exaggerate your efforts.

Some people fall into separation anxiety after a breakup. Because there is no way to accept the fact that I was broken up and denied, and there is no way to accept that I am the party at fault. At this time, they will continue to exaggerate their own efforts and put themselves in the role of a victim, and this kind of victim thinking is to feel that they are not wrong, and it is the other party who is wrong.

Second, reduce your own input and focus on yourself.

We all know that the premise of loving others is to love ourselves first. People who love themselves are independent, able to identify with themselves, and will not feel uncomfortable, feel hurt, and become sensitive because of others' accusations and criticisms or excessive words, thus reducing their self-identity and self-worth, so they should focus on themselves first and learn to love themselves.

Third, break up because you have conflicts, and all you have to do is change your mindset.

For example, when the other party has emotions, we have to restrain our emotions, which is to challenge ourselves, overcome ourselves, and become a better self. In this process, you have to overcome a lot of your own character flaws, so recovering it is a process of improving yourself, knowing yourself, getting yourself right, solving yourself, and making yourself more perfect.

Fourth, make yourself more valuable, because this is the nature of feelings.

Two people are together because of attraction, but the time you spend together and the quality of your relationship still comes from your own value. Just like driving a sports car, it is definitely more able to attract more people of the opposite sex than Wuling and Hongguang.