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Forget. A heart-wrenching question.

In the end, forgetting the past is deceiving yourself and others, and as long as you have a little bit of something that can be related to the past, you can't forget the past. Don't run away, it's useless to regret ... Isn't there a saying that says?

You may meet someone in 1 second, fall in love with someone in a day, but forget someone in a lifetime... That's love!

Deliberately forget, will remember deeper, so don't deliberately forget, let everything tend to be flat, what to do, don't let yourself often be alone and think, as time goes by, it will slowly fade away... Instead of trying to forget, it is better to keep yourself busy, to make your life full, and to let yourself have no time to miss. Don't deliberately forget, if you deliberately will only make yourself remember more ...

Try to expand your circle of friends and contact as many people as possibleTry to discover your hobbies and do something you enjoy to play an empathetic role. I believe that one day in the future, you will find that when you think of TA again, your heart will no longer ache, and it turns out that before you know it, TA has become "that person".

Many things are always experienced before you know that you can't afford to gain or lose. Just like feelings, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; If you are stupid, you will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner. Let us learn to give up, turn away before we cry, what we exchange for tears is not reliable; Let's learn to give up, bury yesterday in our hearts, and leave the best memories; Let's learn to give up so that we can all have an easier start for each other.

Holding on to it will only make you indulge in memories and pain and become sluggish. Let go of your hand, let it pass away with the wind of memory, you will find the other side of the sky, you will re-read the fragrance of life flowers, feel the warmth of the sun... Giving up is not evasion, not cowardice; Giving up is an open-minded attitude.

Think about it, how many people and things a person has to experience in his life, and if you don't know how to give up those things that have been lost and irretrievable, how can you grasp what really belongs to you? If you find that the only door in your world is no longer open for you, you don't have to linger in front of the door or hit your head and never wake up. Learn to give up and turn around and look for a skylight that opens for you, where you can also see the stars ...

For what is happy is equal to what has already been done (psychologically satisfied). Unpleasant things have not been completed (that is, they are not psychologically satisfied). And people only focus on unfinished things, and only when they complete it will they get psychological satisfaction.

So it's easy to understand that the root cause of your unhappiness is that you haven't solved the objective facts that hurt you.

So how should it be solved? 1.If you can solve that objective fact, it is better to solve it.

2.If you can't solve that problem, you have to interpret it from a different angle. (For example, the current humiliation of your predecessor said that you still snatched your lover in the end, you can interpret this matter from another angle, just when I slept with your wife for a few years) This will be much better for your psychological comfort.

Hello friend: There is a feeling called forgetting, and legend has it that there is a soup that forgets everything after drinking. Forget all sorrows, forget all hatreds, forget all unpleasantness and what you want to forget in your memory, and of course forget your love, forget your love, and forget your ......

If you forget your sorrows, you will have no sorrows, and you can stretch your frowning brows and worried faces. All the unfairness and unhappiness in ordinary life will disappear with forgetting, and people will become clearer, as if the sky covered by dark clouds suddenly turns blue.

If you forget hatred, you will be far from hatred.

When the mind is not blinded by hatred, when everything becomes a passing cloud, people will be completely relaxed, forgiving others and saving themselves.

If you forget love and love, you will forget everything you don't want to remember. When you are struggling for someone to love, when you are helpless and hesitating for a relationship, what a great happiness it should be to suddenly forget.

No one can be so free and easy, no one can really forget! The days that have been loved, hurt, and painful can never be erased, and the passage of time has increased the pain in the memory. It makes the pain clearer, makes the heart more haggard, makes love turn into hate, and love turns into resentment......

If you learn to forget, you will learn to forgive yourself and save yourself. Since you have loved and have no regrets, separation always has its helplessness. When people go from naïve and ignorant to thinking that they have seen through the red dust and this society, it is a mental journey.

Actually, no, there are too many truths on paper, and too little is really understood. Complaining about others and feeling sorry for oneself are all human nature, and most people are selfish.

Life is just a few decades, why are you so tired, why not learn to forget? Blindly pursuing perfection, and in this world, there is no perfect thing at all, perfection is a kind of defect, and defective things are truly perfect. Life is even more so, people who have no regrets in life are not happy.

Therefore, the pursuit of perfection is actually the pursuit of a perfect mentality.

When a person's life comes to an end, he will go through the cycle of grains; When the reincarnation of a human being passes through the Nai Ho Bridge, he will drink something called Meng Po soup, he will forget the memories of his previous life, and he will become happy in this life. Does it have to be until then to really forget? What is happiness, happiness is in **, people have been struggling to seek, finding, happiness is actually in that glance, happiness is actually in that forgetting.

Unhappy things happen every day, but they are big and small. If your life is always tied up by these unhappy things, then you will not live happily in your life. You should forget about the unhappy things and don't think about it, because it will also have a certain effect on the person who will come into your life later.

Don't deliberately try to forget, have you heard? There is a saying, that is: maybe just before you know it, what you originally wanted to forget is forgotten like this.

Go out on a trip.

Listen more to the relaxing**.

The way to forget is to read the books that interest you, do the things that interest you, and you will forget about it immediately.

If you can't forget, don't forget.

Deliberately want to forget, because you mind yourself, or care that when you don't care anymore, you won't think about how to forget, if you don't want to forget, you will never forget, you will always be unhappy.

If you don't mind, even if you can't forget it, it won't affect your current mood, because those unhappy things are in the past.

You want to forget. It's because you don't want to face it.

I want to open up a little bit of freedom.

Could it be that you can really lose your memory?

When you find out that you remember, you have already begun to forget!

Maybe one day you will ask, suddenly you can't remember something, and that's when you remember!

You don't need to be deliberate, you will forget what you should forget, and you will definitely remember what you will remember!

If you deliberately forget, you can't forget, and as time passes, those who once will gradually disappear from you.

Because the past hurt you a lot, you can't forget it until now! But have you ever thought that if you hold on to a sad past like this, is there anything else for you besides sadness? There's no need to forget about it!

Let it run its course! Cry when you want to cry, and when you feel tired one day, then it's time you forget it, in fact, many people have an unhappy past! But the past is the past after all, and it can never be the present, and it cannot become the future!

Since you've had unhappy past, why bring it to the present, to the future? Is it worth using your present and your future to reminisce about those unhappy pasts? Don't you feel tired?

When you're sad, watch TV at home and buy more discs to watch at home! Distract yourself! That way it's not so sad!

In fact, what can make you so sad is not your past but yourself! It's you who can't let go, it's you who can't forget! If you don't let go of your past, then you will never have the present or even the future!

When you let go, it's time for a new life to begin! It's also time for your new feelings to begin! Forget about the past!

After all, it's gone!! Aren't your present and your future more important than your past?

And you just want to do the opposite.

I'm a frequent forgetful of the past.

Why should you care so much?

The past is gone.

It's just in the past tense.

Now is the most important thing for you.

I think forgetting is a much deeper memory. Therefore, don't deliberately forget, everyone has their own journey, there will be all kinds of passers-by in the journey, every relationship and every experience is the mark left by life, whether the memories are beautiful or painful, they have already happened, learn to thank everyone in life who has met or parted. The best forgetting is to cherish everything that has been, only in this way can we learn to give up, to remember what should be remembered, to forget what should be forgotten, in order to transform the pain of the past, so that it becomes an experience in life, a realization, a wealth, rather than pain, so that we can truly forget and face the past calmly.

Let time go to the wounds of the past, as time goes by, everything is no longer as unforgettable as it was at the beginning, adjust your mentality, life is short, you will not have too much time to wait to reminisce and pain, face everything with a normal heart, you will have more energy to face the future!

You can turn all the beauty into a memory, people always have a time to part, want to open a little, even if your father is in heaven, I want to see your smiling face.

In fact, the sky is very blue, and the clouds will always disperse].

In fact, the sea is not wide, and this shore connects the other shore].

In fact, dreams are very shallow, and everything is natural].

In fact, tears are also sweet, when your heart is as you wish].

I believe that whether you are happy or not at this moment, seeing these words will make you feel much more relaxed!

In fact, people living in this world can only experience a lifetime if they taste all the ups and downs, and how can they know what happiness is without pain and trouble!

So friends, you have to learn to mediate your emotions, live bravely, and believe that fulfilling every day will make you feel happy! ~

I wish you happiness.

Time is the best medicine, as time goes by, everything is no longer as unforgettable as it was at the beginning, adjust your mentality, life is short, youth is limited, you will not have too much time to wait to reminisce and pain, face everything with a normal heart, you will have more energy to face the future!

Forgetting is a much deeper memory. Therefore, don't deliberately forget, everyone has their own journey, there will be all kinds of passers-by in the journey, every relationship and every experience is the mark left by life, whether the memories are beautiful or painful, they have already happened, learn to thank everyone in life who has met or parted.

Learning to forget is not easy to do, because many sorrows and shames that cannot be forgotten are unforgettable. Then, we need to treat the problem with a normal heart. Since it happened, it is destined to be irreparable.

When you're crying over missing the sun, you're also missing the stars.

When you're lost and sad, it's best to learn to forget. Don't care about the road under your feet, the scenery ahead is more charming.

You can sleep, the fundamental solution is not to want to, even if there are unhappy memories in your mind, you don't have to force yourself to forget, try to see if you can learn something from it.

And mom is there. People can't be resurrected after death, and they miss replacing their love for their fathers for their mothers. In this way, the father in heaven will be happy to see it.

You have to make yourself happy, and your dad doesn't want to see you unhappy. Let everything run its course, don't think so much. You have to be happy, if you are not happy, think about what it is like for you and your dad to be happy, how you got over. Do you understand?

Wishing you: Happy everyday!