A crush is not a stupid contribution to itself, what does the most rational crush look like?

Personally, I think the most rational crush is to pay silently for the other party, be willing to be the person behind it, care about the other party, and care about the other party when needed.

Although we weren't together then, almost a decade has passed, and now I feel like the throbbing in my heart is still there. I feel that having such a person at a young age, even if it only exists, always gives you the power to go up. "

When I have a crush, I always want to wait for myself to get better, to be able to stand side by side with the other person, to be the same shining person, and then to appear in front of the other person. Some psychologists say that unrequited love is a process in which emotions oscillate between depression and ecstasy. It's like sweet torture.

From everyone's discussions, combined with my personal experience, one can't help but sigh at how apt this description is.

This feeling of unrequited love is to continue to love someone on the basis of not getting a response, and it is very likely to end in tragedy. So, why are so many people willing to choose unrequited love? When the object is the other half and is extremely good in one aspect (e.g., intelligence and outstanding appearance), people are still willing to silently pour their love into it, even if the likelihood of becoming a lover with him is slim.

In short, he's so nice that you don't care if you can be with him or not.

Others are willing to silently give their time, energy, and love because they feel that the likelihood of the other person responding to their wishes is high. It's hard to believe that most of the time, this feeling is inaccurate. In this case, the person who is secretly in love releases kindness and words, which usually causes some misunderstanding and thinks that the other person also has a crush on you.

However, they may just "not want to hurt each other". Therefore, the crush will always feel "hopeful" and unwilling to give up.

Loving someone silently without expecting anything in return will also bring a psychological self-emotion and happiness to many people. When people are immersed in a crush, the people around them may see them as romantic and tragic heroes, who enjoy such a kind of "silent giving" and "not loving". They fell in love with the feeling of "loving someone".

Like someone recalling their secret love experience, they will say, "I may not like you, but I like people who like you; I may not miss you, but I think of myself when I secretly love you. ”。

The most rational crush is that I will always pay attention to all your dynamics and will secretly visit you, but I will not do anything for you, because after all, this is a relationship that is destined to have no results, don't let yourself pay in vain.

The most rational crush is to let the other party see their own efforts, if I take the initiative to fall in love with myself, so that I can get the love I want.

The most rational crush should be to silently regard the other party as your goal, and then make yourself better.

Rational crush is to silently accompany another person to grow up, and in the process of crushing, you can also get small responses, and these responses can also encourage you to keep forging ahead, which is a very rational crush state.

You should have your own dignity, be able to keep your bottom line, express your love when you should express it, and strive for your love.

A crush is a crush that is hidden in your heart and will not express your liking to the other party, but there will be involuntarily shown Eyes or movements that can't help but confess the mood Rational crush should be a crush that will never let the other party know.

Think about the strengths of the other person and set positive goals for yourself.

At the same time, tolerate the shortcomings of the other party and provide help within your ability.

Hello, it may be a silent blessing, not bothering, not showing, just silent attention.

<> get closer to you step by step peacefully, even if your heart is surging.

The most rational crush is one that likes but doesn't bother. Read the books you like to read, listen to the songs you like to listen to, walk the road you often walk, and pay attention to you silently. Approaching you when you are able to help you; Silently pay attention and encourage you when you are apart.

In our youth, we may have all had an ignorant and youthful crush, and we like the sunny boy with excellent grades and a cheerful personality, bury this in our hearts and quietly approach him. Maybe one look from him will make your heart skip a beat, and a word of encouragement will make you happy for days. For this reason, you have also made changes, improved your grades, and wanted to discuss problems with him more in common; Pay attention to the stars you don't know, in order to talk more about them.

A crush is a person's chaos

We have seen a lot of sweet campus romances, but in the word "secret love", the first is Zhang Wansen's silent protection of Lin Beixing. Netizens even shouted that they were eager to meet such a good Zhang Wansen.

The crush is silently guarded behind him

I believe that compatriots who have watched this drama know that in order to save Lin Beixing's brother, Zhang Wansen disappeared into that lighthouse. After the college entrance examination, he held up an umbrella to cover her from the rain, took the same bus on the way home, silently followed her home to protect her safety, and protected her in time when danger came. Zhang Wansen never asks for anything in return, buries his love in his heart, and waits for his beloved girl in obscurity.

A crush is a willing giving

We envy Lin Beixing's fate, and we are even more moved by Zhang Wansen's selfless dedication. Lin Beixing mistakenly deleted the record back to 2010, no matter how many times she went back to the past, Zhang Wansen's choice was always just that one, giving everything for Lin Beixing. Countless times, subconsciously protect her, even her family.

A crush is a love that you don't dare to say openly

Zhang Wansen's surging love is only known to himself, and no one knows. His love is a rabbit head rope that has been carried for many years, a word in a diary that he does not dare to make public, a good but dare not send "I like you", and a church parrot confessing but not daring to face the person he likes. His liking will not change no matter how many times the time is repeated, which makes people emotional, admirable, and tearful.

Lin Beixing, I like you, and I have always liked you.

Maybe the love in TV dramas is always so touching and tear-jerking, but it also symbolizes our desire for a beautiful love. Zhang Wansen is the ceiling of the crush world, his love is rational and forbearing, he never complains about his efforts, never destroys Lin Beixing's life, but chooses to guard silently, and in the end, they also have a relationship and finally become a family.

We can't be as selfless as Zhang Wansen and don't ask for anything in return. However, a crush is not a shackle that locks our confident hearts and locks us in the pace of progress. We should look at our feelings rationally, like but not bother, and make our love less cheap.

Here, I still suggest that you confess when you meet someone you like, climb a mountain, chase a dream, and love someone.

If Zhang Wansen's crush has a voice, then Lin Beixing's world must be deafening.

A crush is a man's chaos, thatWhat does the most rational crush look like?

In my opinion, the crush on the orange sheng Huainan insideLuo Zhi's crushIt's the most rational crush, so to speakThe ceiling of the crush

A brief description of "On Rational Crush":

Crushes are never just a one-person thingAloneSilently pay attention to the people you like,AloneRack your brains to create an opportunity to meet,AloneSilently remember all his preferences.

Rational crushes are even more so, because you won't know if your liking will be an interruption to others, whether it will be a psychological burden for others,So, the first step to a rational crush is not to bother too much.

In the crush on Tangerine Sheng Huainan, Luo Zhi is such a person, who has been secretly in love for many years silently, although she likes Sheng Huainan very much, butI always maintain my pride in my humble crush.

Crush on someone, you can't just just humble like, secretly pay attention,The person you like will be happy to jump around when you say a nice word, and what we should think about is how to attract the attention of the person you like, shouldThinking about how to make yourself good, a rational crush, you must maintain your pride in the crush.

Stay proud and don't slowly lose yourself in your crushAnd don't blindly change yourself for the sake of other people's preferences.

If you like butterflies, don't catch them, what we should do is plant flowersWhen the flowers bloom, the butterflies naturally come. The truth of this sentence is the law of attraction. The same goes for thatIf we have a crush on someone, then make ourselves better, and after being better, we will naturally attract others.

For a person to slowly get better is a rational crush,To be more worthy of that person or to attract that person, for whatever purposeA rational crush is to meet a more perfect self in a crush.

Secret love is a person's chaos, it is bitter with a touch of joy, I hope we can all remain rational in the secret love and not lose ourselves.

In my opinion, the most rational crush is to like but not bother, half-sweet and half-sour but not decadent and inferior, and give but not move yourself. When the two met by chance, they would hide their little nervousness, and naturally took the initiative to greet him, with a sunny smile and a little shyness.

A crush is the story of a person, and there seem to be two protagonists. The so-called secret love, that is, the story of a person hidden in the bottom of his heart, staged countless exciting and romantic moments, but finally became an illusion.

A crush is a person's chaosWe hide our little secrets and hide our emotional reactions, for fear that others, especially the person we like, will notice something wrong. When I met him, I was full of joy, and I would shyly bow my head and walk slowly, never daring to raise my head to greet him, even though this scene had been demonstrated countless times in my heart.

Our accountants have not been effectively rewarded for their own feelings, and we are only nervous and at a loss in the same place.

And what about the most rational crush?

Even if they still hide their thoughts, they will not be timid or cowardly, they will smile and confidently raise their heads to greet him and talk to him. Occasionally, because he hasn't remembered me, hasn't spoken a word to him today, and doesn't get a response from someone he likes, ......And sad and painful, will recall the bits and pieces of the past and begin to calculate the gains and losses. But after that, we slowly put away our tears, picked up reason, and did not move ourselves.

The clouds cleared, and it was a good sunny day. Because of him, life has another piece of sunshine. Slowly, we will try harder and harder.

Because of him, there is motivation, because of him has armor, not afraid of wind and rain, do not ask about the future, we will always progress, become better and better, and finally achieve ourselves at the same time let go of the obsession in our hearts.

Most crushes end up in nothing. We are sad, we are sad, we are immersed in the sunshine that that person brings and cannot come out.

And the most rational crush will teach us what it means to stop in moderation and what it means to stop losses in time. We don't wallow in the sadness of being rejected or missing out or not daring to express our hearts. Instead, we'll be grateful for the prologue and can't end crush because it makes us better and more successful.

A crush is a beautiful thing that belongs only to you。And the most rational crush is beautiful with a little rationality. The collision of sensibility and rationality is intense and romantic.

I have time, sit down, look at the night sky outside the window, the starlight is faint but brilliant, I can't help but recall that I liked a person back then, courage is as small as the light of fireflies, but it can break through the darkness, has been persevering, has been working hard, when the black fog fades, dawn breaks, joy and fireflies are hidden, and they are getting better and better.

The most rational crush is to be overjoyed to see it, but self-restraint is just right.

When I was in high school, I was in the sixth class of the regular class, and there was a boy in the ninth class of the Olympiad who was particularly good, and he was on the honor roll of every school term. And he has a very good geography and looks very handsome, the first time I saw him was at the opening ceremony of the sophomore school, when someone took a picture of his ** and sent it to the confession wall, from that moment on, the crush in my heart began to take root.

Later, I knew what his name was, it sounded very good with his name, I think it is also a family with a deep Chinese background to take such a good name, he is particularly excellent, once a language monthly exam his essay evaluation, was copied by the office teacher to each class and every student, although it is copied, but the font on it is indeed written by him, worthy of being an excellent person, the words are also written super good, he may be the youth of many girls, he stands on the stage **, he doesn't know that I am offstage, Later, I met him during the exam, I was in the exam room next to him, and I was nervous to walk past him, thinking every day if I could meet him, it didn't matter if he didn't know me, and then I was in my third year of high school, and I graduated, and he still didn't know me, who made me so small and ordinary, and people like him should be worthy of the best girls, and I was never worthy.

After graduating from high school, I took a graduation photo, a whole graduation photo, every class, I found his **, I thought it would be very handsome, I didn't expect the photographer to capture his not very good-looking expression, hahahahaha, I didn't expect her to be such a good-looking person would also make such an expression, I seem to be equal in my heart, it turns out that he is also an ordinary person, the college entrance examination is over, I don't know that he went to **, he must have played very well and went to a good school, no accident I will never be able to touch him again in my life.

He was in my youth, although he didn't say a word to him, he didn't try it, he didn't have the vigorous crush written in **, I didn't dare to take the initiative, I was afraid of being ridiculed, he wouldn't have a beer belly, he wouldn't have gray hair on his temples, he wouldn't have wrinkles on his face, he would always be youthful, always that teenager, engraved in my youth.

I'm glad I met you today, it's okay if I don't see you, we will always see each other in a school, but after graduation, we will never see each other again, and I will not have unrealistic dreams, fantasizing that you will like me, I didn't tell anyone this secret, because how good you are, and how inadequate I am when I say it.

You don't know me at all, but you became the hero of my youth, and I can think of you when I mention high school in the future.

In the end, I hope that everyone's crush will come to fruition, don't think I'm so cowardly, and in the end he doesn't know that there is such a person as me, I can't do it, so I wish everyone what they want.