Am I actually not very happy? 50

Happiness is comparative, relative. You may not be happy, but you may still be happy compared to others.

You will feel that you are unhappy compared to people you feel are better off than you, but you may also not see the pain behind those people. Compared with people who you think are not as good as you, you can feel that you are still lucky, happy or unhappy, in fact, it is also a mentality or desire too much, life, there is nothing that cannot be given up, and nothing can be fully grasped, so you must know how to give up some and grasp some.

The key to a person's happiness lies in your state of mind. No matter what happens, look at it with a healthy, positive and optimistic attitude. That way you won't feel unhappy.

Happiness is only the most beautiful fantasy, and it is good to be satisfied with the bumpy road of life.

What is happiness?

Some people think that it is happiness to be able to contribute to the society, my people think that it is happiness to have endless money, and some people think that it is happiness to live a rural life alone...

I don't know what happiness is, but I do know that living a solid life is real!

How many happy people are there? Actually, they all feel unhappy, but what is happiness? In fact, it is very simple, that is, you can see and think about it, and live a happy and happy life.

It's good to be happy, don't think so much.

Are you truly happy? Or do you just look happy?

If you are still happy to put on your long-desired Armash one second, and feel awkward, embarrassed, or even frustrated when someone wearing Armani walks in front of you the next second, it may only mean that our left atrium is empty and our right atrium is not very full. If happiness has already taken root in your heart, then you are not afraid of being disturbed by anyone or anything! And the only thing that can make happiness bloom like a flower is your rich and abundant soul!

The only thing that can break our inner peace, tranquility, and sense of abundance is ourselves. He is an employee of the company, she relies on the stall to supplement the family, they cherish each other, affectionate, life is dull and hard, but the two of them have never felt tired. Every day after work, he would always bring a unit dinner and give it to her in his arms.

Holding a lunch box with her husband's body temperature every day is the happiest time of her day, and she has always felt that she is the happiest woman in the world. Until one day, an old lady came, glanced at her lunch box, looked at the greens, bean sprouts, and a few small hairtail fish, sighed and expressed great sympathy for her: "You work so hard every day, wind and rain, squatting on the ground for dinner to eat this?"

What a pity! Looking at the old lady's distant back, at the lunch box full of cold food, at his rough hands, at the shoes on his feet that had long been worn out. She put down the lunch box, tears rained down, she felt that she was really pitiful, it turned out that she had been so unhappy, and she had been stupid and happy for so many years, the more she thought about it, the more aggrieved she became, and the more she thought about it, the more sad she became.

Since then, she has lived in self-pity and self-pity, living in complaining, and happiness has been driven away by her. Everyone's happiness is different, and naturally they have different sensibilities for happiness. The most terrible thing is to give your happiness to others to compare, authorize others to define your happiness, and allow others to dictate your happiness.

It's supposed to be happy, but why do you always live a happy life just looking happy? Vanity, comparison, insatiability, face, etc., are not ordinarily destructive to happiness. Maupassant** "The Necklace" The Maupassant in "The Necklace" either to satisfy her vanity, not to let herself lose her dazzling light at the banquet because of the lack of expensive jewelry, let alone to be treated coldly, to be underestimated, to be compared with others, thus losing face and inner happiness, so she borrowed Mrs. Forestier's necklace to participate in the party, and as she wished, she got the attention, flattery, and goodwill of the audience, but because she lost this necklace, it took her ten years to desperately save money with her husband, Finally, I returned an identical diamond necklace, only to be told that the necklace was only a fake diamond necklace of 500 francs.

I have to admire Maupassant's pen strokes, a necklace, woke up countless people who were almost lost on the road of happiness exploration and couldn't find a sense of happiness belonging. Vanity, one of the weaknesses of human nature, can be had, but it is good not to pass it. Comparing the heart, in fact, should be a positive magnetic field that inspires the fighting spirit.

You chase me, so that you can be good and I am good