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In friendship, the most disappointing thing is to deceive in order to satisfy vanity.
I have a friend who is from the same village as me, and the two of us have been playing since we were children, and we talk about everything.
When the two of us are getting bigger and bigger, this originally pure relationship has quietly changed. <>
Her vanity grows larger depending on her surroundings, and she always likes to exaggerate what she buys.
A year ago, I saw that she couldn't get a job, so I took her to where I worked, and where I worked, she quickly got along with my colleagues.
Always consciously or unconsciously, she exposed her valuable things, and after that, my colleagues would envy her.
At first, I thought it was nothing, girls, it's normal to be a little vanity.
But, later, she exaggerated a little too much.
She wore a pair of shoes, my colleague thought it was very good-looking, so I asked her how much it was, she opened her mouth and came to "6800", my colleague was shocked, so he came to ask me if it was true. <>
I also feel very confused, I know her family's family background best, her family is not poor, but she is definitely not rich, she also has a younger sister, her parents, how could they help her buy a pair of shoes for 6800?
My colleague said that she said that she was from South Korea, and I thought to myself, it could be 6800 won.
So, I went to ask her if it was RMB 6800 or Korean won 6800, and she told me seriously that it was RMB 6800.
I tested her a few words, and I said, you still have a sister, your mother is willing to buy you such expensive shoes? Her eyes flickered, and then she triumphantly told me that her boyfriend had bought them for her.
Her boyfriend, I'm not unseen, and he's just the son of an ordinary family, not to mention, the two of them haven't gotten married yet, a man, unless the family is particularly rich, it is impossible to buy such a valuable thing for that woman, not to mention, it's still a pair of 6800 shoes?
Later, the shoes she wore gradually became popular, and I saw many people wearing the exact same shoes as hers, and my colleague also bought two pairs.
My colleague told me that the shoes were only more than 100, and she said that when she went to buy shoes, she asked the clerk if the most expensive of these shoes might be 6800, and the clerk told her that this kind of shoes, even if they are genuine leather, only cost a few hundred yuan.
If you want to say a few hundred dollars, it's really possible, 6800? Come on, say it, no one believes it at all. <>
I was so disappointed that she and I didn't even speak a word of truth and deceived me in order to satisfy her own vanity.
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In friendship, I was most disappointed that before I knew it, she stabbed me in the back. <>
People's lives are inseparable from family, friendship, and love, and they all have times when you feel warm. People will meet a lot of people in their lives, and they will also make friends with various different types of people, deal with them, and make friends. When there are happy things, they will share them together, celebrate happily together, sometimes they may go out to eat a big meal, and express the happiness in their hearts together in their favorite way; If there are troubles and sorrows, they will also confide in each other, share them together, find ways to solve the troubles together, sometimes they may hug each other and cry, sometimes they may get drunk, and if they are not drunk, they will not ......returnShare joys, sorrows, and sorrows.
Most of the time, friendship brings people a beautiful feeling, and what you experience is warmth. But people will always have many friendships, and friendships with different people are also different. Most of my friendships are very close and beautiful, but there are also one or two friendships that bring me more disappointment.
I still remember that at the beginning, we had similar interests, had a lot of topics to talk about, and played with two friends at school, and we had a good relationship. During class, we work hard together in the classroom to encourage and learn from each other; At the end of class, we go to eat together, play and exercise happily together; We would discuss the handsome guys in the class or the next class together, and we would deliberately meet the handsome boy; They will share delicious things, and they will share all the joys, sorrows, and sorrows......
Until one day, the roommate's hundreds of dollars in the dormitory disappeared. That roommate is very strange, she hid her well, how could she not see her! I searched all corners of the dormitory, but I still couldn't find it, and finally ruled out all possibilities.
She felt that her money must have been stolen, and that the dorm room was usually closed, unless there was an insider.
At this time, the roommates in the dormitory exploded and began to talk and suspect each other. Everyone started to say that they were innocent, and I was also guessing about the possibilities and wondering what was going on. When I wanted to say something after I thought of some eyebrows, the friend who was usually very nice to me spoke first, and she said to me:
After school that day, you said you weren't feeling well and went back to the dormitory first! Isn't it you! "When I heard this, I was stunned and thought to myself:
Oh, my God! Why does she think so much about me!! I was dumbfounded by the sudden remark, and after a moment I relented and replied:
How to ......How could it be ......It's me! The atmosphere suddenly became very stiff, and then I was innocent with tears in my eyes, and I could only call the roommate who had the money stolen and say, "Okay!
Then let's go to the teacher to search for everyone's gods, and the truth will be revealed when we check! Later, the teacher came and searched everyone's beds and bodies, and the results were shocking, I never expected that it was the friend who played well with me on weekdays! Maybe I'm too innocent!
I was disappointed by this! I treat her as a friend, and she has done bad things to slander me! After that, I was very careful with my friends, and I was more cautious about making friends than before.
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This will be divided into an early bench stage, and when you go to school, you may value friendship very much, and you think what will happen if you have a bad relationship with someone. But when you really enter the society, you will find that people are very realistic, except for a few who really have good relationships, other "friendships" are hypocritical and interest-oriented.
It is enough to have three or five confidants in life. You really can't ask for too much, the more you want, the more disappointed Lu Qinlu will be.
When you don't have such big expectations, and don't base your happiness and mood on relying on relationships with others, there will be no so-called loss of hope and pain.
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Hello!!! At the time of my encounter, I was particularly disappointed in friendship, in this society, everyone is busy with their own things, especially when they need help the most, when there is no money, at this time it can be seen that friendship is really very fragile!
Especially when borrowing money, it may be the most realistic one, the previous intimacy has been broken from the introduction, more and more strange, and even does not speak, Hong Oak Hail can't imagine that the sisters who used to talk about everything have become like this!
I have always believed that friendship is the most important thing in addition to family affection and love, and I accept it again and again, and finally I am disappointed, after going through these processes from close friends to classmates and even strangers, you begin to become less afraid to be too good to others, colleagues and classmates or good friends, and meeting is always a temptation, although you are disgusted, but you can only accept it, and force a smile.
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At each stage, you will meet different people, sometimes the heat you meet in the morning is like fire, and sometimes the cold is like ice. You never know what role you play in someone else's life.
For example, in a self-centered circle, you are the guide. In other people's circles, you are also a bystander. Three people traveling together, you may be lost as they go away the moment you tie your shoes.
Listening to them talk about topics they don't like, making jokes they don't like, wanting to melt but not wanting to melt in. This was the beginning of the disappointment.
Maybe you have a good friend who you don't see very often, and you may feel that he is a little indifferent to you. Start to get disappointed.
He starts to have his new friends, and you still feel nostalgic for each other. Disappointment is growing.
In short, when you meet a good friendship, you must maintain it seriously, there will always be disappointment, and there will be sincerity.
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The beginning of friendship is from strangers to good friends, but often neglect how to maintain the friendship between friends, do not understand the same hobbies, do not understand each other, often because of a small thing and separation, thus。。。
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I really want to come back to this question, but it seems that I have never been disappointed in friendship, because the people I think are always very good, and the friendship has been three, five, and ten years.
If you have to say, I didn't say that I was disappointed, maybe most people are general friends, these are all stage friends, not in a place called by one, the people I know are not the same, and the things I accept are not the same, so the three views will naturally be different. can only drift away gradually, there is no so-called betrayal or anything, good people have always been good, and it is very important to have the same three views.
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Friendship is a thing, it doesn't mean that it can be lost at any time, we will encounter a lot of small things in life, and there are big things that need some friendship and some friends to help. So we can't just say that friendship is disappointed, we have to think from another angle, why does this friendship with a lot disappoint you? Is it our reason or something else?
We should uh think that friendship is disappointing, and we should think about it from a different perspective.
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I started when my best friend tricked me from my hometown to Anshan.
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I think it's a complete disappointment to go from friendship to calculation and no longer trust each other.
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When there are more than three people, it's not good.
When you drink don't want to call so many bros anymore.
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Buy a bracelet for my friend, and hang out with another friend, Thick Ridge, the three of us know each other and know each other very well, that friend I and her, why do you have a bracelet She secretly said that her friend gave it. The key is that I am on the side, and it's not that I can't get what I send.
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I saw through people's hearts, so I was disappointed.
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Friendship cheats again and again, and he's the one you trust the most.
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I was disappointed with my friendship when I was in college. At that time, I was inseparable from a close friend, but in the end, I found that she didn't really care about me, but simply used me as a tool. That experience made me lose faith in friendship.
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1. I don't like to talk, I am sentimental and afraid of loneliness!
2, I waited until the Fusu flowers bloomed, and waited until the lamentation was full of tears.
3. When the disappointment is extreme, the pain is no longer painful.
4. I thought I was strong enough, but I was disappointed day by day.
5. My two-year friendship with her is not as good as their sharing table for a few days.
6. I pretended that the past was not important, but I found that I couldn't.
7. Time does not make people forget the pain, but makes people get used to the pain.
8. Sometimes a compiled story is more likable than a true story.
9. Is there anyone who sees through my stubbornness and cares about my sorrow?
10. Don't give me hope and let me down, I'm afraid, I'll despair.
11. Why are the close ones a little confused, and can the distant ones be able to see clearly?
12. In the face of the betrayal of my friends again and again, my heart became made of iron.
13. Happiness is actually really simple: someone loves; There is something to do; Something to look forward to.
14. No matter how I go in the future, I will cherish every scenery around me.
15. Don't judge me lightly, because you haven't experienced my life.
16. Even if our youth is silent, it is full of good scenery.
17. The best way to avoid disappointment is not to hope for anyone or anything.
18. Every period of youth will grow old, but I hope that you in my memory will always be good.
19. Please don't perfunctory me, because I'm easy to be satisfied, and it's easy to get cold.
20. We are all in a hurry and forget the way out, pursuing occasional satisfaction in disappointment.
21. I don't want to cry or make trouble, I want to forget everything, forget the pain and forget the troubles.
22, I smiled and said that I forgot, but I actually remember it, but these are meaningless.
23. I don't have a mask and gorgeous words, I hope to meet you again with an equally simple and beautiful you.
24. A woman's heart generally does not die on major events, but those small disappointments that become fatal wounds again and again.
25. You won't know how heartbreaking I was when I cried until I couldn't breathe, just because you didn't care.
26. Sometimes, it is not until some precious moments become memories that you will truly realize its value.
27. No matter what, it is always unforgivable for a person to fall for some reason, and the more unloved he is, the more he must love himself.
28. Love is the love debt owed in the previous life, and it will be repaid in this life. I must have been unbearable in my last life, so that I have no debts to pay in this life?
29. I'm a scared child, give a little sunshine and it will be bright, forget the pain when the scar is good, don't say nice things, I'm easy to take it seriously.
30. I'm disappointed in you. Think about how stupid I am. It turned out that it was all a lie to me. Why can't you do what you promised me. I won't care about you anymore.
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