It seems that people s lives are controlled by circumstances, doesn t they?

I feel the same way. Wei Yi said that in the case of misfortune, it is mainly a social factor: unlike suffering, "misfortune is a complete negation of life, something second only to death".

If an event befalls someone and completely destroys him, directly or indirectly in social, psychological, and physical ways, then that is the real misfortune. Social factors are the main factor. There can be no real misfortune without some form of decline in social status or fear of such decline".

The profound mystery of human life is not suffering, but misfortune. ......He who has been struck by misfortune has only half of his soul". Misfortune pours poison little by little into the soul, making the soul its accomplice, which is another consequence of misfortune.

In those who have suffered misfortune for a long time, there is a complicity in their own misfortune. This complicity hindered his possible efforts to improve his own destiny; This complicity prevents even the unfortunate person from seeking the means of liberation, and sometimes even prevents him from seeking liberation. Worse still, this complicity may prompt the unfortunate to avoid or avoid the means of liberation. It covers itself with some ridiculous excuses.

I am also experimenting with how much reality a person can change by his own awakening and behavior, but the more I focus and work hard in this experiment, the more I have a desire in my heart: I look forward to the change of environment that falls from the sky, which will make me have a stable renewal when I am ready.

If you don't change, you will be controlled by the environment, this world is very realistic, why there are poor and rich people in the world, it is because there are people in the world who are trying to change their lives and people who are idle, ,..Some people choose to escape from reality, some people choose to face it bravely, remember, you see a successful person who has achieved great things in his career, he is glamorous on the surface, drives a luxury car and lives in a luxury house, but all the effort behind him is unexpected.

What kind of environment a person is in, what kind of people he comes into contact with, will affect a person to a considerable extent, no matter how firm the person's mind is, it will be easy to be slowly influenced by the environment.

Mencius has clouds, and I am good at nurturing my heroic spirit, which is intended to show that he knows what kind of environment he gives himself to create his heroic spirit.

The same is true of people, and the circumstances in which a person finds themselves can be changed. However, the environment in which a person lives is not easy to change, especially the various people he is in contact with, such interpersonal interactions are not easy to change.

The poor are often poor, not because they are poor themselves, but because they are in the thinking of the poor, and when they have money, they often can't hold on to it; The rich are rich, often not because they are rich themselves, but because they are in the thinking of the rich, when they have no money, they can also create wealth again.

Huineng's "Bodhi has no tree, the mirror is not a platform, there is nothing originally, where to stir up dust", this realm is really very high, and it is difficult to understand the subtleties when it is under the flesh.

And Shenxiu's "body is a Bodhi tree, the heart is like a mirror platform, always wipe diligently, don't make dust." "At first, I thought it was indeed much shorter than Huineng, but later I found that it was quite practical, after all, the body is attached, there are many desires, and I need to wipe it from time to time.

It is true that a person's state of mind can think that he has reached a high level, but he will still be affected by various circumstances, and the reason why some people can continue to maintain a state of mind is that they continue to receive energy replenishment in their own environment.

It can also be seen that some people are angry and full of negative energy, probably because the environment is continuously consuming energy, maybe they are not aware of it, and they are involuntarily immersed in it. Continuously transfer this negative energy and continue to create this environment in its environment.

The environment is external, itself is internal, both internal and external, and the energy is balanced.

A child grows up in an environment full of acceptance.

He learned to love the world.

A child grows up in an environment full of affirmation.

He learned to set his mind.

A child grows up in an environment full of sharing.

- He learned to be generous.

A child grows up in an environment full of justice and honesty.

He learned the truth of justice.

A child grows up in an environment full of security.

He learned to trust others. 【Life philosophy: what kind of environment creates what kind of people】Life philosophy: what kind of environment creates what kind of people.

A child grows up in an environment full of encouragement.

He learned to be confident.

A child grows up in an environment full of praise.

He learned to appreciate others.

A child grows up in an environment full of identity.

He learned to cherish himself.

A child grows up in an environment full of pity.

A child grows up in a friendly environment.

He learned to love life.

A child grows up in an environment full of tranquility.

He learned peace.

A child grows up in an environment full of criticism and criticism.

He learned to nitpick and condemn others.

A child grows up in a hostile environment.

He learned to argue and rebel.

A child grows up in an environment full of fear.

He learned to worry and be afraid.

A child grows up in an environment full of jealousy.

There should be this kind of saying, the environment creates what kind of family a person grows up in, his parents have a very great influence on him, growing up in a wealthy family, children have a very strong concept of money, and children in the countryside are like frogs at the bottom of the well The sky is a little bigger, so there is no goal to strive for.

That's how it should generally be.

People in the thirties and fifties.

The road will not be left behind, and the night will not be closed.

And modern people are stronger than the family's anti-theft doors.

Because the environment influences your thinking.

Generally speaking, the acquired environment has a great influence on people, which is related to the things people come into contact with and what they do, so the environment creates people is an inevitable factor.

Yes, it also has something to do with a person's experience, otherwise why do so many people change more and more as soon as they enter the city, they come into contact with more and more things, and some things can't satisfy themselves, so people begin to change slowly.

I can't say that, the key is to look at myself, no matter what the environment, as long as I don't give up and strive to change, everything will still be outstanding.

It's not absolute, but the environment does have some impact on people, so there is the story of "Meng's mother's three migrations" and it has been passed down to the present.

Basically, the acquired influence is very great, and you think about how if a person can't eat enough, how can he have the mental strength to pursue a higher pursuit.

This is an objective law, there is a saying that dragons give birth to dragons and phoenixes give birth to phoenixes, and rats will make holes.