How can you tell if you really like someone or if it s just a habit?

I'm happy to meet someone I like, but I'm used to feeling like I'm just a friend. I think I must feel this way when I meet someone I love.

I was in love with someone before, and I learned that you are used to being alone, you will contact him when you want to talk, and I like to be someone who wants to talk to him all the time.

Like or habit, you can only ask your heart. No one else can do it for you. I've been asking myself about my heart, so I've found true love.

After graduating, I drifted north, rented a house by myself and went to work by myself, I was very lonely, and suddenly there was a man who cared about my life, I was very moved, and I was used to his company, but I knew that he was not the type I liked.

I'm a passionate person, I don't like to be lonely, when my friend has been with me silently for a long time, I feel that I can't do without him, I am used to his presence, if I like it, then I will fall in love with him at first sight.

My friend chased me for three years, and slowly got used to his presence and got along with him, but I knew it wasn't love. I don't expect love to be together because I'm used to being alone.

I didn't feel sad about breaking up with my ex because I knew I didn't really like him, but I got used to his presence.

My ex got married, and I suddenly felt that something had been lost in my life, but there was no pain, I guess I just got used to his presence.

Accustomed to being alone, maybe it's because it's too lonely, maybe it's at that time, he is the only one, I like a person, in fact, it has nothing to do with loneliness, it should be among many people, I only see him alone. This is my experience of being in a relationship several times.

More often than not, love that is not clearly expressed is an illusion. If he likes you, he will most likely still confess to you directly, or will always take the initiative to talk to you.

Everyone is more brave and dares to say it, if they like a person, most of them will not hide it. If he just gives you a hint, or just has a good impression of you as a friend, it will not rise to the level of liking and love. So as long as the other person doesn't clearly express love or dislove, don't lose your breath first, and don't magnify the other person's intentions.

There is another situation, for example, if he posts a circle of friends to lyrical, he also feels that it is a love word to himself, or what it represents, or what the other party said casually, so he desperately implemented it and did it for the other party, it is possible that he just said it casually, and he didn't really like you to do it for him, and even thought you were stupid.

And those who feel that someone is writing love poems for themselves, showing affection and showing themselves, should be even more cautious. If you show it off, it's possible that he's alluding to someone else, not for you, and the owner who actually hears that sentence will think it's funny to see you complacent. In short, in the matter of feelings, it is better not to enlarge five to ten, it is better to narrow ten to five.

It's good for yourself to be a little more restrained in this way.

Have you ever been in a relationship? Do you know what it's like to really like someone? Today we are going to discuss how to tell if someone really likes you?

1. Possessiveness. True intimacy between a man and a woman must be mutually possessive and must never be shared. You want to be with him all the time and occupy the vast majority of her heart.

You wonder what he's been thinking. You feel like you know each other well. As soon as the other person behaves beyond your imagination, you will start to get hungry because you have lost psychological control of the other person.

You often laugh inexplicably. Possession magnifies your happiness as well as your loss and disappointment.

It's actually quite simple to see if you're possessive. When you go to a friend's party together, you will always hold each other's hands or stick to each other. This kind of behavior is asserting sovereignty to others, telling others that the people around you are yours.

2. Be willing to take care of your emotions. In fact, love is an extremely abstract thing, which manifests itself in every event in our lives. If we love someone, we will be willing to give for him and take care of his emotions.

First of all, everyone is an individual. Because of similarity or similarity, they came together, but there is no real empathy in the world. If a person is willing to take care of your emotions and change himself for you, then he must love you very much.

3. Plan your future with you. If you really like someone, you like it very much at this moment. At the same time, he will want to stay with you, stay with you, marry you, and have a happy future with you.

Yes, if you like someone, you will want to have a future. In addition to that, he will not only fantasize about your future but also act directly so that you can have one.

He will take you to meet his relatives and friends and let everyone around him know about you. He will work hard for your future and arrange your wedding room, and then, when the time comes, he will propose to you directly to get your family's consent. By his side, you will find that he has treated you as a part of his life and has no calculation for you.

It can be observed from the attitude of the other party towards you, if the other party cares about you very much, or cares about your thoughts very much at ordinary times, Liang Jianyu is afraid that you will be hurt, afraid that you will be wronged, always try his best to make you happy, and he is very gentle when he speaks to you, his eyes are full of you, and he is very partial to you, which is a good performance of an oak ridge person who really loves you.

The first thing to see is whether the person is impatient with you. And it depends on how quickly he replies to your WeChat pants stool. Whether you are open in the circle of friends, whether you often think about you in your life, whether you help you at work, whether you beat and scold you, etc., will rudely judge whether a person really likes you.