What abilities do excellent babies have, and what abilities do children need to have the most

Language skills, self-confidence, basic survival skills, emotional intelligence.

Every parent wants their child to have certain abilities, so what are the most important abilities for children? (4) Cultivate children's self-control, children with strong self-control ability will consciously abide by discipline and discipline, consciously abide by the rules, such children are the most reassuring parents, no matter where they are are also a popular person, so self-control is particularly important for children. (5) Cultivate children's reading ability.

Therefore, the help of reading ability for children should not be underestimated. (6) Cultivate children's ability to cooperate with others. If you want to go fast, then go alone, if you want to go far, then go together, a chopstick is easy to break, a chopsticks are constantly broken, and cultivating children to cooperate with others from an early age is to pave the way for children's future study and work, so the ability to cooperate with others needs to be cultivated.

In short, it is the unshirkable responsibility of parents to cultivate children's abilities in all aspects from an early age. 

What kind of abilities do children need most? In my opinion, children need to have the ability to communicate in language, be independent, and socialize. When we were very young, adults taught us to speak.

It is especially important for people to speak in your words. Knowing how to communicate should be to express a thing completely, rather than talking about it, saying a lot of words and not expressing the meaning, so I think it is very important for children to learn the ability to communicate in language, at least is the usual adult inquiry, children can express what they want to say. The spoiling of adults can easily make children form a habit of dependence.

Therefore, I think that when children reach a certain age when they should learn, let them explore and explore slowly. For him to learn to think alone and deal with the occurrence of problems alone. Whether it is an adult or a child, they all have their own preferences, and they all have their own good friends and friends.

Some children, because of personality problems, often entertain themselves by themselves and do not make friends. I think that children have little playmates with each other, and in addition to having a companion, they can also learn the joy of socializing with each other. 

That is, when a person is tested by pain, setbacks, hardships, and unsuccesses, he can still recover and return to normal conditions. A person must have gone through many ups and downs in life, so his resilience to self-adjustment is crucial.

Resilient people can not complain when faced with difficulties, and quickly recover from deep inner restlessness, and then be able to calmly accept the reality and solve it flexibly.

Some children are not strong enough to withstand setbacks and pressure, so they will become timid and unconfident when encountering difficulties, and are reluctant to start again. But when we develop together, we will not be deterred by these hardships, because with the development of people, the resilience will increase.

The survey and analysis emphasized: In fact, most of the children's intellectual development is not too much, there are not too many smart children who grasp quickly, and there are not many little stupid children with intellectual disabilities. Determining their ability to sustain is a later shaping of parents.

The ability to really open the gap is not how much material conditions parents give their children, but the child's spirit of struggle to persevere to the end for a second, like small grains of sand, no matter how you roll, they will not wrinkle. I see that parents are often anxious about their children's academic performance, and want to get these "other people's children" learning cheats, but in fact, this group of people just do a good job of "really investing money, doing a good job in training, thinking immediately, and persevering to the end".

Solving confusion and frustration must not only be able to restore, but also be able to buck the trend** and become more and more proactive in self-learning. Just like the seemingly tranquil sea, there are usually magnificent waves below, transformation is the essence of this world, we can't always maintain children, this must not work. Teaching children the ability to learn on their own, to actively seek change, and keep improving, this is the real energy that children can walk for a long time.

Creative ability, social ability, comprehensive analysis ability, respect for others, ethical ability, these 5 abilities are very important for children's development, to start from little things, and parents must set an example.

Excellent children have it. The ability to face some things alone, parents should cultivate his autonomy from an early age.

Ability to be independent; Have a strong sense of concentration; Has a strong memory. You can let your child help with household chores, which will increase your independence.