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The Hui do not eat pork.
Some mooncakes contain lard. Don't commit a national taboo.
Don't buy pastries either, some also have animal oil.
The best way to give gifts to the Hui is to give --- tea leaves and a set of tea sets.
Tea is natural and free of animal oils.
It's best to buy some fruit for the others, and bring some fruit that they don't sell there.
That's natural, too. The Hui are not taboo.
In the future, you will have a long relationship with your future mother-in-law--- future mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship.
Mother-in-law's things are ready --- suggest that you buy a silver bracelet with ethnic characteristics and tell her that it is not easy to buy it in *** city or *** place, and so on, the key is how you talk about it to make the old man feel that you have put your heart into it.
My family is an ethnic minority, the Miao people.
If the elderly in the family receive handicraft jewelry from other ethnic minorities, they will be very happy.
Silver jewelry** is not high.
She can always wear the bracelet, see it at any time, and think of your daughter-in-law at any time.
You do it. His family is not satisfied, you can scold me. I promise. 653284427 It's me.
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Mooncakes! Didn't you catch up with fifteen! Red wine or something feels more classy.
It's time to get your heart! Even if you bring something very ordinary, they will be very happy. Right now.
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oo) ) Influenza happens to be that the Hui people do not eat pork ( o )
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If it is the first time to go to his house, of course, you must pay attention to it, you must be able to buy, or you don't like it after spending money, buy some skin care products for his parents, such as: buy middle-aged and elderly filled milk powder in the supermarket, (the average elderly are usually reluctant to buy) bagged jujubes, walnuts, etc., these affordable old people also like it, for your reference.
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You'd better get his first, what does his mom love?
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If the two of you are not in the same area, it is best to bring some souvenirs. Because you can't buy something like this at his house.
The best thing to eat!!
If it's in an area, just buy some fruit!!
Tea is a good choice!!
When choosing a Hui spouse, there are many habits to overcome in the future, so be mentally prepared. It's not just dietary.
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Moon cakes, tea, not in one place can bring local products, don't forget to bring some supplements for the elderly such as grandparents, children don't have to think of everything, just buy some toys for the youngest children.
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With practical and decent things.
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My girlfriend went to my house for the first time and bought a bag for my mom.
This time I bought cosmetics for my mother.
But if you're more frugal, I don't know...
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Bring moon cakes, you have to visit there during the Mid-Autumn Festival, so you don't have to think so much.
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If you don't have hometown specialties, you can buy some good fruit cakes, as well as wine, tea and other gifts I think is not the most important, the most important thing is your personal dress, image and temperament, manners and conversation.
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What to bring to a friend's house, drinks and other gifts from social people, some decent souvenirs, some practical and good things that you know, and what people also need: such as some things that expectant mothers need. The best thing I think is the best gift for food.
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In the north, it is generally a four-color gift, tobacco, alcohol, sugar and tea, but now it is different, you can ask your boyfriend what grade of cosmetics his mother uses, you can send a box, and then buy two bottles of red wine for his father, and then buy two kinds of fruit.
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A girl said what kind of gift did she bring to her boyfriend's house for the first time? In fact, the most important thing to go to your boyfriend's house for the first time is not what gifts to bring, but your politeness, your conversation, your dress, and your smile. As for gifts, ask your boyfriend more often, no one knows their parents' preferences better than him!
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Bring a little tonic. I bought it for his parents. I think so. So.
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You can buy some fruit or something, but it doesn't matter if you don't bring anything.
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The first time you go to the target's house to pay New Year's greetings, you need to bring some things necessary for New Year's greetings and bring some practical and favorite things for the family according to the actual situation of the target family.
The first time you go to the target's house to pay New Year's greetings, you generally have to bring a piece of bacon according to local customs, which is an indispensable thing to visit the target's house for the first time. The bacon was purchased and salted during the wax month, and it was smoked. Generally, it can be brought out at ten catties or more.
You can also go to the mall to buy bacon, but the bacon in the mall may not be enough. In addition to meat, there are some other things that go to the household, but they should be differentiated according to local customs and habits.
The second is to buy cigarettes, alcohol, and tea according to the target family's situation. If the target family smokes, buy a good cigarette, such as Soft Cloud or Zhonghua, and if no one smokes, then buy something else. Considering the wine again, it is generally Wuliangye or Moutai, because after all, it is the first time, and you must be able to express your heart.
If no one in the target family drinks or smokes, you can consider tea, many families want to drink tea, tea is more good for the body, you can weigh a pound of Longjing tea or Maofeng, and then buy a good-looking box for packaging. If the subject likes to eat any kind of fruit, bring some with you.
If it is convenient, you can also bring some local specialties, and you must be authentic goods produced locally, which makes people feel that the courtesy is light and righteous. For example, packaged rice flowers, Peking duck, Yunnan cordyceps sinensis and so on. No matter what things must be delicately packaged, I feel good-looking and comfortable, and I feel that I am valuable.
Depending on the actual situation, you can also bring gifts to the target's family, such as if you have siblings, you can give belts, cosmetics, etc., which are mainly small and delicate. If the target family has elders in addition to their parents, they should also prepare some gifts, especially the grandparents of the object, you can send some brain platinum and the like, which is also a respect for the elders, which can reflect their carefulness and respect for the elderly. Show yourself sensible and decent.
The first time you go to the target's house to pay a New Year's greeting, you should prepare a few packs of good cigarettes, regardless of whether others smoke them or not, you must hand over the cigarettes, which is one aspect of showing that you are sociable and sensible. You can also prepare a few small red envelopes, and when you meet a child from a friendly family, you can send a small red envelope, which is decent and generous.
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The two of them discussed, it doesn't matter who they go to first, what to buy and what to pay attention to? You'll have to ask him about his parents' preferences, habits, and taboos. Normally go to the woman first, if you bring a gift, the fruit must, tobacco and alcohol to see the preferences of the elderly, don't believe what your girlfriend says, don't bring anything, this is the impression points, milk, health products, tea mold slippery leaves, the more the more sincere, it is best to do what they like, in fact, they are not lacking, just look at the spring code and the relationship between your heart and lovers will come to a certain point to meet the parents and prepare for marriage.
And many lovers who are here will wonder whether it is better for the man to see the woman's parents first, or to bring his girlfriend to meet the parents first?" "That's the question.
When a boyfriend or girlfriend meets their parents, should the woman go to the man first, or should the man go to the woman's house first?
In fact, generally speaking, it is more common for the woman to go to the man's parents first. So, let's take a look at the things that meet the parents. 1. It is more common for girls to meet the man's parents first According to the general situation, when more lovers come to the step of meeting their parents, the man will first take his girlfriend to meet his parents, and after obtaining the consent of the parents, he will start to solemnly prepare to go to the woman's house to meet the future father-in-law and mother-in-law.
Because, the pressure on the man to meet the woman's parents is greater, after all, the mother-in-law picks the son-in-law more, and when the marriage is not completely confirmed, the boyfriend and girlfriend meet the parents, should the woman go to the man first, or the man goes to the woman's house first?
Many girls are reluctant to show their boyfriends to their parents easily. In fact, there is no hard and fast rule on the order of meeting parents, lovers can negotiate the order of meeting parents, and whoever communicates first and who comes later can do it. 2. The time to meet the parents should be ripe In fact, the order of meeting the parents is not as important as the timing of meeting the parents.
Whether the man meets the woman's parents first or the woman visits the man's parents first, the most important thing is the right time.
When a boyfriend and girlfriend meet their parents, should the woman go to the man first, or should the man go to the woman's house first?
If the man and the woman are forced to meet their parents before they are ready, it will affect the relationship.
Emotional message: After all, meeting the parents means that the relationship has stabilized to the point where you can start preparing for marriage, and the man goes to the woman's house to meet the parents and has a feeling of proposing. Therefore, before the relationship is stable enough to enter the next process, many lovers will not go to meet their parents.
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When a girl goes to a boy's house, it's okay to give an appropriate gift. Ask your parents-in-law what they like in advance, and a massager or something like that may also be a good choice.
What should a woman pay attention to when going to the man's house for the first time? The first time a girl goes to the man's house, it is an important moment to make a first impression on the man's parents, and the first impression is often related to the man's parents' favorability of you in the future.
1. What should the woman pay attention to when going to the man's house for the first time?
1. Dress appropriately and generously.
When a girl goes to the man's house for the first time, she must not wear low-cut or revealing clothes, who dares to hand over her son to you, they expect you to take care of their precious son's post-marital diet and daily life. In the eyes of parents, generosity, decency, virtue and virtue are necessary virtues for girls. So remember that beauty is only displayed within a safe range, otherwise it will cause jealousy of the future mother-in-law, and you will suffer in the future.
What to buy at the man's house for the first time.
2. Take the initiative to say hello when you meet.
When a girl sees the man's parents for the first time, polite words are still indispensable, and she should take the initiative to say hello to the man's parents, or learn about the recent situation of his parents from the boyfriend's mouth, as a greeting and concern, so that although the man's parents don't say it, they will give you extra points in their hearts.
3. Remember to bring gifts.
What did the woman buy at the man's house for the first time? The first time a girl sees a man's parents, the gift is too expensive, which is different from a boy going to a girl's house, and it is not strange for a boy to go to a girl's house, but when a girl goes to a boy's house, the gift is appropriate. Ask your parents-in-law what they like in advance, and a massager or something like that may also be a good choice.
4. Talk well and sincerely.
When a girl goes to the man's house for the first time, don't sit awkwardly on the side, chat with her future in-laws before eating, talk about the physical condition of the two elders, their usual habits, and ask about the future husband's previous achievements and interesting stories about the children. If your future in-laws ask about your family situation, you should also be honest and answer in a good way. It's not about bragging, it's about showing your care and love for your family, and those things that are unhappy and not going well will be put on hold for the time being.
5. Praise him in front of his in-laws.
Although in your opinion, there may be no merits in your boyfriend worthy of your praise, and it is possible that you often bully the man or damage the other party, but in front of his parents, you must not count the man, but also praise the other party appropriately, after the man's parents hear it, they will also feel that they are very face-saving and happy, and their impression of the woman will continue to add points.
Then the two of you get along to a certain stage, especially when you reach the age of talking about marriage, the first thing you need to do is to visit both parents, generally speaking, as a boy first to visit the girl's parents, and then the girl's parents to see the man's parents, after getting the approval of both parents, the two people also began to officially engage and finally got married.
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If you give it to the other mother, you can give it a bracelet or necklace, while the father can choose a watch or belt. Their own specialties are very sincere gifts, which show the importance and respect for each other. If economic conditions permit, you can choose a massage chair to reflect filial piety.
Buy some fine tea or tobacco and alcohol, and they will definitely think that you are very filial.
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It's better to bring some of the following gifts to your boyfriend's house for the first time:
1. Fruits, fruits are relatively common things, and they are also good gifts, and most people are very fond of fruits. Therefore, sending fruit is a good option. But it is worth noting here that it is best to have seen and tasted the fruit with your own eyes, and if you buy a whole box or a whole basket, the fruit is likely to be not fresh, which requires you to choose it yourself.
2. Milk, dairy products.
Not only nutritious but also healthy, it is a great gift for gifts. Milk can be drunk from the elderly, children and young adults. However, there are many kinds of milk, if the man has children at home, he can choose the milk that the children drink, and if there are elderly people, he can choose the milk that the elderly drink.
3. Snacks, buying snacks is for the situation that the man has children at home, under normal circumstances, children are very fond of eating snacks, at this time the woman can choose to buy snacks to make the children happy. You must know that children are very active atmosphere.
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5. Specialties, if the men and women live far away, or even across provinces, it is a good choice to bring some local products. With soil.
Specialties can expose the man's parents to things from their hometown and leave a good impression on them.
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