Psychological problems in the first year of high school, psychological problems in the third year of

What is her impression of you....If you are like her, you have to seize the opportunity to chase her, and of course you can't relax and study; If you don't feel good about you, it's better to give up and focus on studying...

Pursue! Pluck up the courage and chase hard! ~

Maybe a lot of psychology experts, I give you a lot of advice. I'm not an expert in psychology. But I can only tell you a question based on some of my experiences.

Actually, I'm not interested in Chinese-style education at all. But we live in China, we are Chinese, we must accept our Chinese education model, no matter how good the academic performance is, it does not represent the ability to work in the future. What's more, you are quite important in today's society.

The relationship between people and people must be harmonious. Everyone's hobbies are different. There is a situation where others think you are a hero, but you yourself think you are lonely.

Because your hobbies and interests may be different from those of others. Just because people don't approve of you doesn't mean that others don't approve of you. At the same time, I think you go in circles and learn once, but you are not very confident.

First of all, one thing is for sure, your classmates will not hate you. Just because everyone has different hobbies and can't find the same topic and common language, Chinese education doesn't allow you to go, more participation, other hobbies. Because that is bound to have a big impact on your academic performance.

So your question is simple. Be confident that you are a hero in the eyes of others. Heroes of the city are lonely.

But once you're in college, you'll find out. In fact, you still have a common hobby with many people, and you will find that it is a different platform. But when you go to university, you must pay attention to the relationship between people.

I think it's best to pay more attention to your studies in the third year of high school, as for interpersonal communication, you just need to be kind to others, help others more with a smile, and give lectures to others It's very good, I believe that others will like you if you do this. Wait until the college entrance examination is over, and then read relevant books, such as the weaknesses of human nature, and then cultivate your own hobbies, just take your time, I used to be similar to you. Listen to me, do a good job of studying in the third year of high school, don't be distracted, at least we live with kindness, it's good.

From the beginning to the end, I feel that you are a good student with excellent grades, and you are perfect in the eyes of your family and teachers. You think you are lonely, but life is lonely, the emperor is called a lonely person, and you are destined to be the emperor. So it's all a trifle for you.

Don't feel pressured and just be yourself. The so-called interpersonal relationships are all opportunities to learn. A turning point in the life of the senior year of high school, we must seize the opportunity.

Let yourself shine! Let them envy you!

There are many psychological problems in the third year of high school, such as interpersonal communication, early love, school boredom and impatience, test anxiety and so on.

Disgusted with school. Due to the large number of exams in the third year of high school, weekly exams, monthly exams, and joint examinations between various schools, many students are frustrated in the exam because they cannot improve their test scores, and it is easy to get bored with school. The most important thing to solve the problem of students' boredom is to improve students' sense of acquisition and self-confidence. Parents and teachers should seize every opportunity they can to encourage their children, so that they can see the progress of their learning and build their confidence in learning.

Impatience. Due to the extremely tight study time in the third year of high school, many students also put a lot of energy into their studies, hoping that their grades can be greatly improved in a short period of time. However, the senior high school students are working hard and improving as a whole, so they often do not achieve their goal of achieving a greater ranking promotion, and this part of the students will be impatient. The most important thing to overcome impatience is to let students understand that they should be patient in the third year of high school, not always look at others, and more importantly, compare themselves with themselves and see their own progress every time.

Difficulty concentrating.

Relationship problems.

Inferiority complex. High school students have a strong sense of self-awareness, a desire to be recognized and a great deal of attention to what others think of them, and most of them have varying degrees of psychological inferiority. They are afraid of failure, they dare not show themselves in public, they are afraid of making a fool of themselves.

Hello the future pillars! It's an honor to talk to you, you're just like this after you've been placed in a class, and you'd love to work hard to fit into a group ......I can understand this feeling, but I don't agree with your thoughts and practices!

First of all, there is an old Chinese saying: like gathers like, and people divide by groups! You can't melt in even if you try, it's obvious that you and they are not the same kind of people, just like water and oil, how can they melt together?

Secondly, you are thinking too far ahead! Although there is an old saying in China: people have no long-term worries, they must have near-term worries!

However, with your current situation, the college entrance examination is imminent, you shouldn't be distracted to consider these, such as the communication you said, this can be considered after you are admitted to the ideal university, these breadth of classmates around you are not the same kind of person as you are a pillar of depth, how to communicate, how to communicate without communication? When you go to your ideal university and meet people of the same level as you, you will be able to socialize easily!

Or your teacher reminded you that it is urgent to study hard, don't think about anything else, don't think about anything else, do your best, walk your own single-plank bridge, and look forward to you breaking out of the cocoon into a butterfly and being admitted to the ideal university! Come on!

How can a senior in high school talk about movies, games, and the entertainment industry? Shouldn't students in the third year of high school always seize the time to study?

There is still a long way to go in life, to go to college, to join clubs, to go to graduate school, to participate in work, to support a family. These are great responsibilities.

Networking is important, but the time it really makes a difference is when you're in the workplace. You're still years away from entering the workforce, so don't worry about temporary gains and losses.

Remember, you're here to learn, not to make friends, just do what you have to do, don't think too much, don't conspire with each other, don't deliberately fit in, beasts are lonely, only sparrows flock.

The third year of high school is a watershed, and the psychological mentality is important, and after entering the university, it is like entering a small society, and the learning method is different, which is very testing. Your mentality is still good. Keep up the good work and believe that you will succeed.

Don't complain, time waits for no one, when to do something, just study.

The academic anxiety of senior high school students is mainly manifested as test anxiety and lack of learning motivation.

Students' test anxiety is reflected in the excessive emphasis on test scores, and in the final analysis, it is anxiety about their future prospects. There are three reasons for this: First, due to the group effect, scores are used as the only indicator of students' abilities.

The second is to unconsciously equate obtaining a high degree with the value of one's life. The third is the cognitive disharmony caused by students' desire for self-realization and the unsatisfactory academic performance in reality.

Most of the accomplished experts and scholars are not very good at communicating, because the scholar does not want to spend his time on boring communication. And those who promote social development are all scholars, ancient and modern, Chinese and foreign, it is better than that.

Hello!! You can try to communicate with them and develop a relationship.

If you get better, everything will be fine. First of all, don't pay too much attention to these things, after being admitted to university, you will have a new life, and when you look back at these, you will feel that those problems at the beginning are not problems at all. Don't be impatient, the foundation of the first and second years of high school is good, and it is not so easy to regress.

I recommend reading more books on emotional intelligence** and other books.