Just ended her 16 year relationship and became a third party , why did Chen Qizhen make such a big

Because she destroys the happiness of other people's families, she will become a third party.

Maybe it's because she's unlucky, she did something wrong and ruined other people's families.

Maybe it's because Chen Qizhen doesn't know people clearly, so it's like this.

I don't know much about this, maybe it's because Chen Qizhen didn't see the man clearly.

Chen Qizhen is a singer who is very out of the circle, but her name is not necessarily well-known to the audience, she is also a typical representative of literary and artistic young women, Chen Qizhen's songs are also very literary and artistic, so such a singer who does not seem to belong to this period will still be discovered by many listeners, and liking Chen Qizhen's songs will always give people a wonderful feeling. However, this female literary youth has been riddled with negative news recently, Chen Qizhen was photographed kissing a man on the street late at night, new love**, Chen Qizhen broke up with her boyfriend who has been in love for 18 years, and she usually has a new love, as a single woman, everyone will still wish for a new love.

This man is also an outsider, and then Chen Qizhen's studio also responded, affirming the new love and saying that it was a private matter for them to deal with, I thought that Chen Qizhen was going to start a new life, but after kissing the man, from time to time, a female netizen said that she was the man's original partner, and he was a married man with a wife and children.

The original partner said that she wanted to sue Chen Qizhen, and the man's wife relayed it through a friend: "I must sue Chen Qizhen for obstructing the family, hurting spousal rights and adultery!" "Mrs. Lin can't believe that a 44-year-old woman is dating a 50-year-old man, can't she find out if the other party has ever been married?

The remarks gradually began to tend to Chen Qizhen is the action of the junior, and Chen Qizhen's studio spoke out again in response to the matter, the other party said: "I am stunned and sad, I feel very guilty for the injury caused by not knowing, I have no contact with Mr. Lin, and I feel guilty for occupying the attention of the masses, and I will hand it over to the lawyer next, and I will no longer respond, thank you for your care." That is to say, in Chen Qizhen's view, she was "junior", and she didn't know that this man was a married man, if it was true, then Chen Qizhen was also one of the victims.

It is reported that the man is a bank executive, married and has two children, one of whom is in high school. The man with glasses on the right is the man who kissed Chen Qizhen on the street, and now it seems that he is married is once an established fact, as for whether Chen Qizhen can be "a junior", it is difficult to say, but no matter what, the biggest fault in this matter is the man, causing both women to be hurt because of him. The love of female stars always attracts much attention, but Chen Qizhen always seems to be unsmooth in love, her boyfriend who has been in love for 18 years did not enter the marriage hall and broke up, and finally had a new love or a married man, do you believe that Chen Qizhen didn't know that the object was married before dating?

It should be Xiao San, people like her don't do very well, so saying that such a bad thing will seriously affect herself.

It's true, it's a complete misunderstanding, but I don't think it should be like this anyway, it really hurts each other and has a bad effect.

It should be a junior, such rumors are really unacceptable, I hope these rumors will be brought to justice.

In fact, Chen Qizhen is also very wronged in this matter! Because she and the married man have just met, if it weren't for the revelation by **, even she wouldn't know that the other party is a person with children and a family background. Therefore, Chen Qizhen's incident still has a lot of unladylike elements.

Then some people will wonder, Chen Qizhen is over 40 years old, why don't you know people with her eyes?

One is because of the living environment of celebritiesIn fact, it is complicated to say that it is complicated, and it is simple to say that it is simple. In fact, it is a team that needs business negotiations, competition for resources, etc., but these do not need to be done by the stars themselvesTherefore, many celebrities are actually "silly and sweet", they are quarantined and the public is also well protected, and their discrimination of interpersonal and human nature is sometimes even lower than that of ordinary people, so it is quite common to meet unladylike people.

is like Chen Qiaoen before, who still has girlish fantasies about love in his 40s, and after participating in a love reality show, he was with his partner. After the official announcement, his partner was skinned, and he was a scumbag who stepped on several boats and loved to chat. But Chen Qiaoen not only ignored these, but also stood up to help the scumbag speak, hurting a group of fans who were really good for her.

The second is because of timing. When you are young, you can focus on your career and not fall in love, but when you are in your 40s and your career is more successful, your needs in this area will be reduced a lot, and there will be more empty timeSo I definitely want to find someone who asks for warmth, especially Chen Qizhen has just ended a relationship and is in a weak emotional period. Such a state is easy to be taken advantage of by scumbags with ulterior motives

Therefore, this matter is definitely wrong, but everyone's accusations are pointing out that Chen Qizhen is really a bit wrongedShouldn't the married man who came to hook up with Chen Qizhen even more because he has a wife and children be condemned?

Maybe this is a misunderstanding, anyway, the entertainment industry itself is a very chaotic circle, even if it is true, it is normal.

I think she must have been deceived by this man, otherwise she wouldn't have chosen to be a third party.

It should be a little bit of a broken jar, such a result is really regrettable.

Because she doesn't like hype and is also very low-key, she has been tepid.

Everyone's development path is different, maybe her setting does not meet the public.

She has been following a small and fresh style, but now the small and fresh style is no longer very popular with the public, and she has not changed.

The difference is that I didn't make changes and insisted on going my own way.

It may be that two people enjoy the process of falling in love more and don't want to get married, which leads to problems in the relationship. So Chen Qizhen and her ex-boyfriend Zhong Chenghu have been in love for 18 years, but they are not married.

Chen Qizhen broke up with her boyfriend Zhong Chenghu, who had been in love for 18 years, and a new relationship was exposed. Many people don't understand why two people have been in love for 18 years but haven't married? The personal analysis has the following points:

Two people enjoy the process of falling in love more

Compared with marriage, love is less ordinary and cumbersome than firewood, rice, oil and salt, so it is relatively easier. Therefore, many people often enjoy the process of falling in love more than entering the palace of marriage.

Chen Qizhen and Zhong Chenghu have been in love for 18 years and have not been married, and it is speculated that the two should enjoy the process of falling in love more than entering the palace of marriage. And there are also people in the entertainment industry who have been in love for many years and have children who are not married, for example, like53-year-old Wu Junru and Chen Kexin, the two already have a daughter Chen Shizhi, but they still haven't received a marriage certificate.

There were some problems on the emotional side

If people who have been in love for many years suddenly choose to break up, then a big reason is that there is a problem in the relationship, and it is an irreconcilable problem, so the two people finally chose to break up.

Although Chen Qizhen said: "18 years have not made us doubt love, but made us more willing to love and be loved." ”。

But it will still make everyone feel that there must be a problem with the relationship between two people, after all, the relationship between two people for 18 years, if there is no love, they will not stick to it for so long.

In fact, the time of love is inversely proportional to the probability of getting married, and the longer two people are in love, the less likely it is to get married。Because two people have been in love for a long time, they will pay more attention to each other's shortcomings, and they will be more afraid of marriage, so it will be more difficult to get married.

So the reason why Chen Qizhen failed to marry her ex-boyfriend is likely to be beforeThe two of them thought it was good to be in love before, but there were some problems in the middle that caused the relationship to weaken, so they didn't get married for a long time, which eventually led to a breakup.

It should be that both of them feel that their relationship is not to the extent that they can get married, and both of them have their own careers to be busy.

I think it's probably because I've been too busy, so I haven't gotten married.

It may be because they don't want to get married, and only they know the specific reason.

Probably because they have their own careers to be busy, so they have never been married.

We have met many people who have been in a relationship for several years or even more than ten years, but in the end they have broken up. And there are many people who will say that they have failed in this relationship after a breakup. In fact, when some people break up, they themselves feel a kind of relief in their hearts.

Because after all, they have been together for so long, if they really don't want to separate, there is nothing to separate them, and the reason for their separation can only be that their personalities and living habits are different, or they find that two people no longer have the desire to be together again.

However, I don't think there is a question of who is right or wrong in love, and there is no such thing as winning or losing. Both people are willing to be together, and no one can force them to separate. After all, in this relationship, you have both given each other sincerity.

I think that's where you win this relationship. And what you think is the book, it's just because you are unwilling to part with this relationship. In fact, I don't think there is much left in this relationship.

So I don't think there's such a thing as winning or losing relationships. Even if a person pays a lot in the relationship, but this is also what he is willing to give. His efforts are not rewarded, and this cannot be considered a loss.

It can only be said that it is entrusted to non-people. Love or not love is actually our own choice, in the relationship can not force anyone to do anything, so when we are in love, we do our best to love. I won't feel unwilling or regretful when I am separated in this way.

Maybe some people will feel that he is hurt in this relationship, and he thinks that it is a loss, but in fact, it just makes you see that this relationship is not the best for you.

If you get this love, you will be a winner in life, and if you don't get it, you will lose your youth.

Love is originally a gamble, and winning or losing is decided by the other party.

Maybe it's like a war between two people, and there will definitely be winners and losers.

This is all an outsider's evaluation, there is never a win or loss in love, either a win-win or a lose-lose.

Because I am unwilling, after all, every relationship has paid a lot of sincerity.

If you love someone to evaluate whether you win or lose, I don't think it's right, you can't do that.