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We must unify our thinking, unify our steps, and work hard to fundamentally solve the problem of loneliness without friends. We generally think that if we get to the crux of the problem, everything else will be solved. Jen La Lowell once said that the books that people like get younger with the age.
This sentence is like a beacon light that guides my progress, illuminating the way forward in my life everywhere. Spinoza famously said that just as light exposes both itself and the darkness around it, truth is both a standard of its own and a false one. This seems to answer my doubts.
So it seems, so it seems.
We must unify our thinking, unify our steps, and work hard to fundamentally solve the problem of loneliness without friends. Everyone has to face these problems. In the face of this kind of problem, from this point of view.
We have to face a very embarrassing fact, that is, Clausewitz once mentioned that the basic principle of warfare must not be completely passive. This sentence takes us to a new dimension to think about this question: Hylaritus once mentioned that personality is nothing more than a habit that has been formed over a long period of time.
This quote is sobering.
Well, after the above discussion, it seems like a coincidence that no friend can be lonely, but if we look at the problem from a larger perspective, it seems to be an inevitable fact. Now, it is very, very important to solve the problem of being lonely without friends. So, generally speaking, we have to think about it carefully.
This fact means a lot to me, and I believe it has some meaning to the world. Li Hao once mentioned that teachers are questioning, and friends are suspicious. This sentence is like a beacon light that guides my progress, illuminating the way forward in my life everywhere.
What is the crux of the matter?
I hope that everyone will have a discussion in the spirit of knowing everything, saying everything, saying that those who say are not guilty, and those who hear are full of caution. Today, we want to solve the problem of loneliness without friends, but even so, the appearance of loneliness without friends still represents a certain meaning. Why do you be lonely without friends?
Why do you be lonely without friends? For me personally, being alone without friends is not just a major event, it can change my life. There is a famous folk proverb that the fruit of a tree is sweet and sour.
This seems to answer my doubts. Personally, it means a lot to me that I don't have friends to be lonely.
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There is no lover and family will not be lonely This is certain, there is a lover and family will have a sense of belonging, friends are different, friends are just with self-since, you can have time to play and play, it does not affect your own loneliness or not loneliness, as long as you and your family are harmonious and happy.
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No, as long as you are strong inside, you won't feel lonely.
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Not having friends can make you feel lonely. But it doesn't matter, the most important thing to do when you encounter difficulties is to actively solve the problem. From your description, you can see that you are an introvert, and if you want to solve the problem of loneliness, you can try to change yourself.
There are a few things I suggest you can try: fall in love. You can get to know your partner through blind dates, etc.
In the process of cultivating a relationship with the other person, improve your social skills. The most important thing for others to like to be friends with you is to do what they like and listen. Whether you end up together or not, you'll get something out of it.
If you succeed in being together, the problem of loneliness will be solved. 2.Internet.
In reality, if you are embarrassed to talk to others, you can choose to be active on the Internet. You can play the game and you'll meet interesting teammates. You can post on Weibo, post on Moments, and others will see you.
After a long time, it is natural that someone will comment on you and pay attention to your life. On the chat software, find a colleague you are in contact with often, chat with him about work problems, or complain. 3.
Change of character. If you see someone at a party and are envious, you can ask if they can bring you along. If you ask, you will have a chance to participate.
If you don't ask, you'll never have a chance. Speak more and share your thoughts with those around you. Hopefully, my advice will be helpful to you, and every day you will improve a little bit by changing a little bit.
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People who don't have many friends don't necessarily feel lonely, because some people don't need friends by nature, and some people have adapted to not having friends.
In fact, most people can't stand their loneliness, because for them, if they are lonely, they will not have that happy life. Therefore, many people do not want to live in solitude.
But this kind of people are only a part of the population, and not all people are like this. There are some people who have not been given the motivation to do anything together or the people around him since he was a child, or who have not given him the feeling of wanting to be involved in other people's lives.
For this kind of person, they will not let you be lonely no matter what, because such a group of people have adapted to their own lives, so if there are many people around, he will make himself feel very tired.
So people who don't have any friends don't necessarily feel lonely, the key is to see what the person thinks in their hearts. If the person's heart is that he is good alone, then he feels happy even if there is no one around him.
But if the person's personality is to be recognized by others, and to see others feel good about himself, it means that the person needs to live in a collective.
For this kind of person, if he doesn't have any friends around, he will feel very lonely, because he needs others to identify with him, so that he can make his life better.
So I don't think anyone who has any friends doesn't necessarily feel lonely. Because some people have their own way of life, some people live by themselves, eat by themselves, do some things they like, he feels that this is what he really needs, he doesn't want to indulge in some social interactions, and he doesn't want to make friends.
Therefore, people with different personalities, when they do things or when they deal with others, they will have different ideas. As long as a person feels that his life is okay and he feels happy, this is enough, there is no need for everyone to think about the same things.
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Hello, people who don't have friends sometimes really feel very lonely, because no friends are always alone, to ** are all alone, people need to have friends, no matter what you are doing, you have to get along with others, if you say that you encounter any difficulties, you can also talk to a friend, someone to share your happiness with you. You can also share your thoughts, if you have no friends, you can only digest alone, you have no one around, and you will become very lonely.
If you say that you have a lot of interests and hobbies, a person can do a lot of things without friends, a person must learn to enjoy his loneliness, but he cannot be without friends, but also learn to get along with others and make more friends, because more friends, he will also feel happy.
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People who don't have many friends don't actually feel too lonely, after all, they still have family and have their own hobbies besides work, so they don't feel lonely.
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No, because people actually spend most of their time alone, and sometimes they get used to this kind of life, but they feel that they will be very comfortable and do whatever they want.
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It depends on your personal qualities. People with high literacy, because they read a lot, do not feel lonely.
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I'm probably the kind of person who has fewer friends and sometimes feels lonely, but I've learned to enjoy solitude.
I think there is always a long way to go by yourself in this life, no one can accompany you to the end, no matter how close your relationship is, no matter how dependent you have been, you will meet different companions at different times, don't panic, don't be afraid, just cherish each other in the days when you can get along.
I sometimes even fear having too many friends, because I often have to think about them, chat with them, communicate with them, and communicate with them, afraid of what I will do if I neglect anyone, so I firmly believe that it is enough to have three or five confidants in life, I never imagined that I would live a very lively life one day, I was a little afraid of being irrational in the group.
When I can't find someone to accompany me, I have books, I have **, I have myself, I can see what changes have changed in my heart, recall my childhood injuries, and heal myself.
Maybe it's because I'm not the kind of person who is good at socializing that people will say this, in short, I am me, I don't need to be someone else, it's good to love socializing, it's good to love socializing, and it's good not to love socializing.
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In fact, some people choose to be alone, and when they are alone, they can do what they like to do and get a full sense of happiness. On the other hand, there are those who have a rich social experience but still feel empty and lonely. People often misunderstand that loneliness only happens to older people, people who are not good at communicating, or who are shy, and those who are very good at talking and socializing will not have such a feeling of loneliness.
But that's not the case, loneliness is prevalent in our whole society, whether you are rich, powerful, celebrity, poor, handsome, ugly, beautiful can not stop loneliness from coming, because it is a part of our lives. So some people will, but some people won't.
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People who don't have many friends don't feel lonely, some people just accompany you for a while, and no one will be with you forever, but there will be people who will always be with you, and sometimes you can enjoy the time of being alone.
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It's not really lonely, everyone comes to this world by themselves.
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Of course, there is no one to talk to, only bury the words in your heart, and after a long time, you will feel lonely and lonely.
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Not necessarily. It varies from person to person, and everyone's situation and mental capacity are different.
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How boring a person is, and there is no one to talk to, it must be lonely, and there will naturally be a sense of loneliness in my heart.
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Not necessarily, it varies from person to person.
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I don't have time to be alone, earn money to support my family, rush every day in order to achieve my small goals, and really enjoy the moment when I am alone and not disturbed.
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It's only occasionally, and you can't make new friends if you don't have any friends, so what are you afraid of?
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Everyone lives their own wonderful life.
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He must be very lonely, it is not easy to abandon everyone.
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Not to mention his character, but certainly he is a solitary man.
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It's not going to be so lonely...
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I'm that kind of person, and I don't know how to change that.
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Those who persuade you to ask for positive energy are just because they have not experienced it themselves, and people who really understand you will not tell you that you have it, but will only give you a hug and say nothing.
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This is your psychological contradiction, you are eager to make friends, but you don't know the relationship between making friends and love, if you can let go of the psychological baggage, laugh at life, make friends, you will forget loneliness, come on!!
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How about keeping books with you, and don't care too much about everything about others. It's yourself who matters. In fact, everyone is lonely, but to different degrees. Long-term loneliness is your own inexplicable longing, and if you are self-sufficient, loneliness will not exist at all.
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Friends, if life deceives you, please don't be sad, you need to be calm in the days of depression, find a few close friends and a person who loves you, you will definitely get happiness, you can afford to let go, believe in yourself, come on.
Good luck.
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Loneliness may bring pain.
It's good to live your daily life happily, and you can guard your happiness and be a chic person by yourself.
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Our situation is about the same, I'm only better than you, some friends help again and again, you can try to make some friends, give yourself a goal, it's not that anyone is unreliable, you can find a boyfriend,
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It can be seen that this question has been entangled in my heart for a long time. Nobody wants to be isolated, no one wants to be isolated. We live in a social environment that can disappoint us in many cases.
But what matters is how you deal with it. You can be negative, but you can be more positive. If a dog bites you, will you bite him back?
It is better to rely on others than on yourself. Find a piece of faith that belongs to you. Complete your own life. All right?
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Unless you're doing a research and discipline and you're starting a whole new job. There has to be a state of forgetting oneself.
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Are you sure? I have the same story as you, can you get to know each other?
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Suggestion: Find someone who is as lonely as you are, such as me, I would like to find someone who is as lonely as me and knows the pain of loneliness.
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