After leaving the job, do you need to feign enthusiasm when you meet your former colleagues again?

Updated on workplace 2024-04-28
4 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    No, in the workplace, if you don't have a good relationship with your colleagues, you can easily be stabbed in the back, so it's important to maintain a good relationship with your colleagues. But after resigning, it is more difficult to get along with former colleagues, after all, after resignation, it is inevitable that you will meet former colleagues, and at this time everyone will not know how to get along. After all, the two are not real friends, and they don't know whether to be enthusiastic or cold when they meet again.

    What should we do in the face of such a situation?

    Truth be told, relationships between colleagues are fragile. None of the former colleagues who had a good relationship seemed to be in touch. Probably the only interaction is the circle of friends.

    But once you quit your job, you may drift apart. A good relationship may mean that you have better communication and friendly communication at work. A good relationship may mean that you have common interests and work with each other to get what you need.

    These so-called "good relationships" are not for the most part a friendship. You can talk about family matters, but you won't tell the other person about your concerns. So, colleagues are not friends.

    After the resignation, we will not see each other again and will not contact them again. Some people block their former colleagues when they leave their job. It's also one way to go.

    Some colleagues take care of each other and support each other at work, which can be considered friends. But once resigned or resigned, many people are reluctant to contact their former colleagues. Although they will not be blocked, they will gradually become strangers.

    In fact, many netizens have their own opinions on this kind of thing. If you're a good friend, you can get together when you have time. This is the principle of "relatives are getting closer and closer".

    But although true friends don't get together often, everyone still misses each other when they are not together, and I wish him happiness. Colleagues are different. Until you leave your old unit, you can't tell if these people are real friends or just friends who got together.

    In other words, a friend in need or a friend of wine and meat? No one can tell.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    There's no need to pretend to be enthusiastic, there is no relationship between the two of them anymore, and they don't work there, so there's no need to pretend anymore.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I don't feel the need to feign enthusiasm. Because this practice is meaningless, and it will also make the other person feel that you are insincere.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Yes, in this society, you must be good at packaging yourself, it is better to know than not to know, and there may be some cooperation in the future.

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