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Sometimes, not often, but more or less envy other people's material life. It's too false to say that you don't envy this, can anyone really not envy other people's material lives at all? Anyway, I have never met such a person.
My material life is not very good, but it is definitely not bad, and it can be said that my material life is the material life of most people in China.
I have just graduated from high school now, and my living expenses were about 200 per week, although I won't spend it all, but I don't have much left. This level is still so decent, just like me, I don't want to be at the bottom but I'm not very motivated, so I've always been decent, not the sun in the sky but not the dust on the ground.
Now I will envy other people's material life more often, after graduating from the summer vacation of my third year of high school, I went out to find a job, and there is no special reason that I want a job to try the life of a normal person, and not to be a person who only spends money and does not make money. <>
It's hard to find a job, and the one you barely find is not so ideal, a waiter in a restaurant who works a lot of work and works a long time, but I have no other choice but to do it. Every day is like this, I am woken up by the alarm clock in the morning and go to work, and I come home very late at night, and I basically fall asleep on the pillow.
I saw some people in the space to show some of the ** that they play outside every day, no need to work, the only thing to do during the summer vacation is to play. Sometimes I am a little envious that the material living standard of my daily work still can't catch up with them. But envy is only for a short time, and it directly encourages me to work hard and change my future with double benefits.
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As a student party, I feel that I don't envy the material life of others, because my life is very good, although I don't have a good life as the local tyrants around me, but at least I can buy what I want, so there is no need to envy. But I don't know if I can still have this mentality of not envying the material life of others when I go to work in the future.
I also have some friends who are very well-off, but in addition to having a good family, they will also earn a little money on their own, so the living expenses will definitely be a little better than mine. But if you can't meet their consumption standards, then you don't need to go out with them or go out with them a few times, and it's also a good choice to improve the food once in a while. I think my biggest strength is that I am very easy to satisfy.
You can have something to eat when you're hungry, and you can buy a nice outfit when you want to change your clothes. Now think about the future work, you can have enough food and shelter for yourself, and the occasional pocket money is also okay. And I feel that many people are pursuing a house and a car when they get married, this self-feeling is very unnecessary, I once told my partner that we can not have a house and a car when we get married, but the only condition is that we can't live with our parents.
In fact, there is nothing wrong with two people struggling together.
Life is simple, there is no need to pursue too many valuable things, the car is just a means of transportation, no matter how expensive it is, it is a means of transportation, no matter how good the house is not with the person you like, the room is full of loneliness. If you have the conditions, of course you can pursue the good, but if you don't, don't pursue some items that are far away from you, it's too tiring to live like that.
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Your focus is on paying attention to other people's lives, first of all, you have to reverse this point, I used to be very envious of other people's lives, but then I started to pay attention to myself, communicate with myself more, and found that my life is also very good, and some people are also envious of my life. In short, cherish the moment, learn to be grateful, and strive to get closer to the life you want.
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Of course it will, because caring about the opinions of others will make you more rational in doing things, consider more comprehensively, and urge yourself. If you don't do a thing, everyone advises you not to do it, you care about other people's opinions, you will definitely think more when doing this, consider comprehensively, avoid failing others' views of you, and think of a good solution to the problem, and then do it, in fact, it seems that you don't care about other people's opinions, in fact, you care about other people's opinions, so that you can do things more securely, and remind yourself in your heart to be "careful".
Envy, I hope that while Zhang Jiani and Maichao are in love, their careers can go to the next level.