How do you quickly integrate into local life without friends?

When we go to a very unfamiliar city, we are basically alone, and we don't have any friends, so it depends on our own mentality.

First of all, I have to say that I don't think there is an absolute connection between having friends and integrating into local life, can you definitely integrate into local life if you have friends? For example, when I was a child, I had a relative in Suzhou, who was a sister I liked very much, we were friends, and then I went to Suzhou to play with her, I was only familiar with her, and I still couldn't fit in in such a strange city as Suzhou. Although friends can help you in a city, it doesn't help much, it's up to you.

We can first take a look at the introduction of this city on the Internet to see what is interesting and what is delicious? It's good to go and see for yourself, when you walk around the city more, you are actually understanding the city, you can only quickly integrate into the city, and you can better find good friends when you integrate into the city.

Maybe I'm talking more messy, just give an example, we can first find a gym, do a fitness card, go to the gym every day when you don't have friends, many people who love fitness are very cheerful, I have a friend who met in the gym, that is, a few classes will always see each other and then naturally start to talk, slowly become friends, and then add WeChat and often come out to play together. When I played, I was able to learn more about the city with the locals and integrate more into the life here.

So when you go to a strange city, you don't have to worry too much, you can participate in some activities in a very breakthrough place, you can meet more people, and you can integrate into the city faster. This place doesn't have to be a gym, it could be dancing, playing the zither, or something.

Ten miles of different days, let alone different places.

If you are new to the precious land, please take care of it. This sentence is in martial arts, you can't go to a strange place and just talk like this and want to integrate into their lives.

The locals are quite xenophobic, regardless of the locals of that place. In a city where you don't have acquaintances, you're going to have to work on your own.

When I first came to a new place, after settling in, I would go to the market first.

The vegetable market is the place that most reflects people's living conditions, and you can see the various states of the world.

When you go to the vegetable market, for the vegetables, fruits, and meats you don't know, choose a few things first, buy them back, and try them.

Taste things you don't know so you can have a common topic with the locals.

When you buy it, remember to ask the name to go back to the delicious way, otherwise you won't be able to watch it when you go back.

When you go to the market, you don't just buy food you don't know, but you also pay attention to the tone of the elderly people who go to buy food. Every place has a dialect, a language habit of speaking, so whether it is a local person will know it as soon as he speaks.

Remember not to learn from the grocery buyers, they may also be outsiders, and their speech is not authentic.

Take a look at places with a long local time, not necessarily tourist attractions, don't make mistakes. In addition to tourist attractions, places or buildings that have existed for a long time are certainly known to the locals.

When you're in a foreign country, the best thing to talk about with the locals is the local food and the local landscape. These outsiders don't seem to have much to say, but these are their pride, and they are proud to be locals.

Think about it, you can talk to them about their hometown in their language without embarrassment, and you can better integrate into local life.

It's better to be in your hometown.

Start by actively greeting others. When you first arrive at a place, you actually need to rest in many ways, and the most basic thing is to greet others and make them feel that you are very relatable. Greeting a person is warm, nice, and knows how to behave in the world, and a positive greeting is not only to make others feel that you respect him, but more importantly, you can meet a lot of new friends faster.

If you are enthusiastic about others, they will be very enthusiastic about you. If you treat others coldly, others will naturally not have a good face for you. As the so-called repaying others in the way of others, it may not be good, but it is true, we greet others and will naturally have a sense of closeness to you.

In this way, you will quickly get to know the local people!

The second is to be kind to people. Being friendly to someone is a sure guarantee of your relationship. If you don't even have friendship, then people will naturally stay away from you, and will not be close to you, let alone integrate into life with them.

Kindness and friendliness is the first good feeling that a person knows you, if you are very fierce to others, very untreatable, others will not be happy to know you. Therefore, if you are kind to others, others will also be kind and kind, so that you will quickly come together with them, do a lot of things together, and understand different regional cultures.

Finally, find your own materials in advance to prepare. If you don't have friends and go to a strange place by yourself, you will naturally have a lot of things you don't understand, and there is no place to ask. Therefore, you should do a good job of pre-study in advance, understand the regional culture and differences of a place, which will avoid a lot of harm to the locals, and knowing in advance will make others think that you are a cautious person who knows how to think about others, which will also allow you to better integrate into the local life.