Do you have to confess having a crush on someone? I feel like it s better to keep that love alive.

Updated on society 2024-04-23
8 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    This question may have different opinions for different people, and it is mainly related to personality. For those who are a little more extroverted, they may be more inclined to speak up; And for those who are a bit introverted, they may feel that it is good to keep this love in their hearts. So I can only say that I don't have to say it, but I'll give you some of the benefits of each.

    1. Say it: Crush is a beautiful fantasy of one's own. Then you must like it in the first place, so if you like it, why don't you say it?

    Say it, and you might have a fifty percent chance of succeeding. But if you don't even say it, the outcome is 100% impossible. So I'm still more inclined to say it, it's a big deal that I don't even have to be a friend, but don't let myself regret it in the end.

    In fact, everyone has youth and has their own fantasies. To be honest, if you were the one who didn't say it at the beginning, don't you really feel sorry for it in retrospect? I feel that if you love someone, you have to say it to her, and it's both giving you a chance and giving him a chance.

    Rather than one person unrequited love, it is better for two people to think together. And a crush, often that person must have something you particularly appreciate. Since you love it, don't miss it, after all, in the world, the probability of people meeting each other is 1 in 5,000; The probability of people knowing each other is 1 in 200 million; The probability of growing old with us is 1 in 5 billion.

    Therefore, if you have to give up such a small probability event, you may not miss it anymore. <>

    2. Don't say it: Maybe most people don't actually say it. I have always kept that careful thinking in my heart, and I reminisced about the bits and pieces with him every day, and I felt that this was enough happiness.

    In fact, sometimes it is not just our own attitude, it may also be caused by conditions. Maybe you really know that you just have a crush on him, and he really doesn't think anything about you, he just treats you as a friend, or maybe he is someone who already has a significant other at this time. In this case, in order to consider each other, you will definitely choose to keep this feeling in your heart.

    Who has no regrets in their youth? No regrets and no youth, so if you really think it's best not to confess, then it may really be that the time has not come. In fact, sometimes when I think about it, isn't a crush a kind of happiness?

    A carnival of your own, this kind of joy is also very good. <>

    All in all, there are pros and cons to each other, and the specifics will vary from person to person. Everyone has their own unique ideas, and nothing is inevitable. Maybe you didn't say it, but the other party happened to love you, and he said it first, hahaha.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's really nice to have a crush on someone, and you can get along with her as a friend forever, without worrying that you may not even be able to be a friend like a confession. But then as long as you are friends, you will definitely separate, and she will definitely find a boyfriend. Do you want to see her with another guy and you don't have any waves in your heart?

    Crushing on someone doesn't mean that you have to confess, but crush is also a kind of liking, don't you have the courage to confess if you like it, and you still want to see the person you like lying in someone else's arms?

    Why do you feel better to keep that love, because you are looking for a reason to avoid confession, you are afraid of confession, afraid that after the confession fails, two people will not even be able to become friends. After the two of you are separated, you will constantly think of her and the good times you spent with her. Also, what you will keep remembering are those happy times with her, and this part of the memory will continue to be strengthened and beautified over time, and the rest will be forgotten.

    So the more time passes, the more you will miss her, and you will begin to regret why you didn't confess at that time, maybe confessing that your current life is not like this. When you know she already has a boyfriend, you'll regret it even more. <>

    At that time, I also fell in love with a girl, and at that time I also felt that it was good to have a crush like this, and I played together like friends every day. Later, I separated, I missed her, I knew that she had a boyfriend, I was desperate, and I regretted that I didn't confess at that time. If I could do it all over again, I'd rather take the risk that my friends wouldn't be able to do it.

    The reason why you have a crush on someone is beautiful is because you are constantly beautifying the memories with her, and if you want to regret it in the future, confess it.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Do you have to confess your crush? This is the idea of every crush. Crush, also known as unrequited love, from the very beginning, is a relationship with only a beginning and no end, in which only one person is giving, and it is never reciprocated.

    Crush is more "pure" than other relationships, it is not disturbed by everything else, it is only because of liking. It's like raindrops from the sky falling on a tree, silently nourishing the tree without asking for anything in return.

    Crush should be a "love" that many people have experienced, at the age when our love is beginning to open, like a person but dare not open their mouths, like to look at them from a distance, they are happy, and they are happy; When he is sad, he is sad, and when he is angry, he wants to beat up the person who makes him angry. In those days, we fantasized all day about how nice it would be to be with them, and sometimes we could be happy for days with a few words a day. When others say that they are a good match with him, they say that it is impossible, but they are secretly happy in their hearts.

    When I hear what he says, I am very nervous and careful, and I wonder if he has ever said anything about himself. Just like some ** and the lyrics write "sweet and sad love", the time of this love is not the same, some only last for hours, days, some months, and some for years.

    But all feelings have an end, and many people will inevitably separate. At the final moment of separation, someone will choose to confess in person and put an end to their crush journey, even if it fails, at least there is no need to regret it in this relationship. There are also people who choose to bury it silently in their hearts, wanting to protect this most sincere feeling, since they chose to watch silently from the beginning, why bother them in the end.

    Whether you confess or not, it is your own choice, and others do not need to interfere, let alone listen to others. Maybe many years later, when I think back on this relationship, there will be a lot of emotion, and some people may regret why they didn't confess in the first place, but I believe that no one will talk about this "love".

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Yes, if the person you have a crush on has a girlfriend or a lover, you don't need to confess, just keep him silently in your heart, which is good.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You don't have to confess to him, but if you're all married, it's good to keep this love in your heart.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's up to you to think about it, and if you think it's a good idea to keep that distance from him, I'm a girl who should do it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Personally, I think that if the two of you want to have a future, it's best to confess.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Hello, crush is a state of mind, and for many people, crush often just stays in the heart and does not have the courage to confess. However, when the crush has reached a certain level, a confession may be necessary.

    First of all, it is important to be clear that the degree of crush varies from person to person, and some people may quickly develop feelings of liking, while others may take longer to observe and think. If you've had a crush on someone for a while and feel very strong, then a confession may be necessary.

    Second, you need to consider the other person's feelings. In the process of crushing, you need to observe the other party's words and deeds, understand the other party's hobbies, personality characteristics, etc., and judge whether the other party has a good impression of you. If you think the other person might be interested in you, then confessing may be a good option.

    Of course, it is also necessary to respect the feelings of the other person, and if the other person clearly indicates that they are not interested, then it is also necessary to accept this fact and continue to be friends.

    Finally, you need to consider your own courage and mental preparation. Confession is a very brave thing to do and requires enough courage and self-confidence. At the same time, you also need to be mentally prepared, if the other party rejects your confession, don't be too disappointed, and continue to maintain a confident and positive attitude.

    In short, there is no fixed answer to the question of how far a crush can be confessed. The key is to understand your feelings, observe the other person's reactions, and be prepared for what to do. Whether it's confessing success or failure, it's a growth and experience that helps us better understand ourselves and others.

    Good luck.

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